My journey to FLR marriage with husband locked in chastity

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    No doubt that every relationship is different. For many the FLR aspect is exclusively sexual or part time. In my case it is 24/7 and involves complete control of my husband, but that's simply what works for me. I would never criticize how another couple defined their relationship.

    As you said, some men find relief in adopting a submissive role in the bedroom while having a different personality in their day to day lives. In my case my husband requires the control and direction that I provide at all times, and his subservient nature is embedded in his DNA. But everyone is different, which is wonderful.
     
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    My wife had something like this written into our agreement. My side of it said that I understood that I had a fundamental need for her direction and guidance, and that my submission to her authority was the nature of our relationship and that no other relationship was possible.

    Her side said that it was her responsibility to make sure I didn’t escape correction for even small things, and that she would never temper her fierceness because to do so would deny me the fundamental energy I needed to understand her.

    Whether or not it was ‘embedded in my DNA’, it was certainly how she expected out relationship to work.
     
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    Hello @MeanBitch, love how you always talking and making real sense. A real pleasure to read your thread. We all like strong decisive women here and we know they are always right in the end. curtsy
     
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    Your total control 24/7 is very much how things are here for me.
     
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    This is a very cool thread. Can we see some pictures of him in chastity?
     
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    Why?
     
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    I’m interested
     
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    I'm sure this blog is pure fantasy, but I'd like to live like that under a woman's boot.
     
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    This thread is total fantasy, absolutely. Huge plot flaw - the man is supposed to be hugely overweight and is on a massive diet "or he doesn't get released".

    Yet, somehow the belt still fits him after massive weight loss. Right right
     
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    I, too, have paid attention to this.

    In addition, there are no photos attached in such a long thread, nor in the author's profile.
     
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    Agree, I’ve said that awhile ago myself on here
     
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    I think a lot on these websites are pure fantasy but one big red flag is no photos in there bio.
     
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    I would be interested in hearing your story?
     
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    So easy to jump on the nay sayers bandwagon. You have no proof it's fake only speculations.
    If it's fake, it may be one of the best most consistent journals here. If it's real, you're commenting would simply serve for the OP to stop posting, what is the gain in that?
     
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    And to add to this even if it is fake it isn’t hurting you at all.
     
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    I always felt that this thread was very real. Simply because it doesn’t feed into some of the “typical” fantasies such as corporal punishment, cuckolding, etc etc. well, she used to cuckold him but she never really focused hard on it and talked about rubbing it in his face for humiliation etc.

    What is sexy is the absolute control that she has over her husband but aside from that it isn’t written like it is coming from male sub with an overactive imagination.

    just my 2 cents but knows for sure.
     
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    It's a good fantasy, but the "massive weight loss in belt" plot flaw ruins it.
     
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    Do a reverse image search on “her” profile picture… a little digging and you will see that person is an adult model. The uncropped version of her profile picture looks like it was taken in Europe. Doesn’t necessarily prove this is fake but does bring into question credibility.
     
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    My wife told me that verifying to be a female on CM was very easy.
    MeanBitch would you consider verifying yourself as a female on CM? It would mean a lot for many of us, and it would help empower our key holders through your story, which will gain credibility. Thank you.
     
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    If its "very easy" to verify then how bullet proof is the verification?

    The fact is, this is a wonderful wank fodder fantasy but it also makes zero logical sense.
     
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    Can you not understand how verification could be made easy for a female, yet not for a male?
     
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