Hi all, I have just found and joined this site so this is a sort of intro as well as a plea for advice. I am Jase and I live in the UK. I am submissive and heavily in to hypnosis. I have used it very successfully for orgasm control in the past. A few years ago I got into a spot of bother. It involved a viagra, a cocking that was too small, a trip to A&E and a fire crew. You probably get the gist of that story! As a result I am a desperate secret chastity fan who self locks during the day when I go to work in my holytrainer, but then I have to take it off when I go home as by boyfriend is dead against anything being remotely close to my genitals. It apparently is all due to a conversation he had to have with a surgeon who was threatening to remove then reattach my tackle. Kinda scarred him, understandably! Has anyone and advice on how I might be able to broach the subject with him? Jason
Either a great comedy troll there, or a comedy story told by said surgeon and firecrew, probably to this day! Seriously though, there must be all sorts of ways you can broach it to your boyf. Mostly, being upfront about your interest in the idea is recommended - before introducing the device. Tell him about how you cant get the fantasy out of your head, ask if he could be ok with you playing with chastity, and take it from there. It sounds like viagra might be on your regular play-list, if so I can reassure you that a V taken while wearing a cage will do next to nothing, though it might swell the bulb of your penis - the part inside your body, but not anymore than usual. The rest can only sswell once there is room for it to do so - once the device is removed. So even mixing a chastity device with viagra shouldnt cause a problem. I wouldnt even be talking about mixing the two though - it sounds like he's had the willies put up him (if you'll pardon the expression). Welcome to the Mansion by the way. You might want to tell us the whole of that story one day - it sounds hilarious (tragedy + time = comedy), though I'm sure you were mortified at the time.
1. Love reading the local vernacular language wherever you are there in the UK. Predicament is entertainingly perfectly clear all except what the "tackle" is (fishing gear?) and seriousness of threat of removal (the only explanation I could see for others' advice to call police). 2. Use common sense. Viagra and snug devices that prevent erections don't mix. 3. Take the time to measure carefully and acquire a good fitting, quality device. Not too tight and not too loose. 4. Regarding the main concern, how to broach the subject to your partner, just explain that it's your kink and he should accept it as such.
Tackle is the meat and two veg. Possibly so named because the main bit it describes looks like a worm.
understood the doctors were talking about the possibility of having to surgically remove the man-bits and reattach to get the too small ring off due to the swelling.... Can understand the partners hesitation on going there again, but with a properly fitted device and laying off the V it should never be an issue.
Hey all. Thanks for the welcome and replies. Tackle is UK vernacular for genitals. I assume it refers to the rod and little maggot us blokes use to reel in our chosen ones! As for broaching this with my partner. I will save that for a little while I think. I'm as nervous about broaching it as I know he will be about accepting it! A friend of mine works in the hospital and yup, that story does indeed raise its head now and then!
Well, at least you didnt end up as one of the pictures in the slide show of auto-erotic trauma that gets used in training.
More right than you know. Everyone on it is dead. There is one guy who made a fucking machine powered by a small lawnmower engine. A petrol one. Without an external exhaust tube. Another is a guy who had rigged a broom-stick and a ladder so he could climb the ladder and do himself in the arse on the end of the broomstick. And of course, he didnt shorten the broomstick, so he's like 4 feet up and his foot slipped. By comparison your's is a mild jewellery removal problem.