Flat cage - first time problems…

Patience is my key for me. Take your time and let your goods relax and shrink I get excited and it’s hard to do but that’s what works for me I’ve worn mine for a week

 

I would recommend cleaning the tube twice a week at least.

 

I think flat cages are inherently messy, but I think it's worth it for the look and feel. My current one is not completely flat, but very close. Just requires a bit more wiping when finished. I tried one with the tube, but it was still messy, so I don't use it except for short sessions. Just make sure it's sterile when you insert it and you should be fine for a few days.

 

I don’t seem to have a problem pissing but I do sit down just in case with this one

 

the flat ones am all messy when you wee. just sit on the loo and dont move and then when you finish go in the shower and just do the bottom bit of you.

 

So, here’s my experience in a flat cage chastity. First, I make sure it stays close to my body by attaching an elastic chastity belt. It does a good job holding it stationary and I experience little to no discomfort. I also wear mine with a urethral tube. I have the length cut to approx. 2 and a half inches. I also have two small O rings that you can find on those curly glass piercing stretchers that I have situated on the tubing but over the metal fittings to help keep them from moving once the tube is inserted. I have very little issue with urine going everywhere. Usually comes out in a steady stream until the pressure drops off then it dribbles. I also wear panty liners in my underwear to help with the inevitable leaking that occurs when wearing a urethral tube. I take it off and clean it every seven days with soap, water, and alcohol and then when I replace it I lube it to ease insertion. I have been in my cage for 24 days at this point and the only issue I have had is that I had one set of metal fittings that pulled loose from the silicone tubing while I was wearing it. Took a little patience with hemostats to retrieve it from inside me, but another tube with different style fittings(that fit tighter in the tubing) have fixed that little potential nightmare. Hope this helps.

 

It does sound scary but I have used urethral sounds before and usually muscle contractions tend to push them out so I wasn’t too worried. In the end, being calm and patient paid off. I, too, like the esthetic of the flat cage, and as tomorrow will be four weeks locked up, I am really jazzed to see how long this can continue. All I can say is enjoy your journey!

 

I see no reason why I won’t; of course, the real question is just how long I will go. I never really thought I’d get this far and since I have, I am encouraged to see just what my limit is.

 

Currently self locked but am actively working on the KH situation; if it works out, I can’t even imagine how that will be. The horniness factor comes and goes. I have tried getting relief with a vibrator and plugs but I never get to orgasm. It feels nice but that’s as far as it goes. If the KH thing works out, I hope pegging and anal orgasm will be in my future.

 

Actually, She is a Goddess who has professed feelings for me which lends a whole new dimension to everything. I am trying to keep a level head about this so wish me luck. Anything on the horizon for you?

 

Careful what you wish for; I too am currently married to a very vanilla woman and am in the process of reevaluating the marriage. I don’t necessarily want it to end but it can’t continue the way it is. This was never the plan but I will not settle for a less than fulfilling relationship. The worst part is we have been together for almost 27 years and even though I know things change over time, where we are now is just not sustainable. This would be so much different n so many levels if I were younger but I am now at an age that I want to be happy for what time I have left.

 

Been there, but I my case, I know that unless she is willing to change for her sake and the marriage, staying will always not lead to animosity and resentment and even if we split I don’t want to lose her as friend. She knows about me locking up and even though she makes no effort to understand it, she accepts it as part of me. I won’t put her through my being involved with someone else to get my needs met; that would be too hard and on her, I think, and an unfair ask. I respect her too much to do that. I would rather end what we have than do that. I hope that doesn’t sound harsh.

 

I hate autocorrect; I meant staying will only lead to animosity…