Fetishes in in stressful times

I find my fetishes get a lot stronger and come to the surface while I’m stressed!
For example work stress mainly and times like this! I find it’s my chance to go into my little fantasy world.
I get a lot more desire to cross dress and cage myself, I also find a strong desire wear butt plugs and penis gags.
How about you, is you fetish stronger or does it go away when you are stressed!
Currently I’m very bad at the moment!

 

If we take the psychoanalytical meaning of fetish (a lie that shields us from the traumatic truth) then I would expect that fetishes gain in popularity at times like this. In my case my fetish for philosophy is certainly shielding me from the traumatic truth of my susceptibility to the virus. Perhaps then at times like this we find out what our fetishes truly are?

 

Hell no ! The more horny and frustrated you get the better.

 

Speaking from experience?

 

Are you speaking from experience?

 

I was actually replying to Junebug15 but, yes, I am speaking from experience. The whole idea of being in chastity is that the longer you've been caged the hornier and frustrated and more exciting the game becomes.
I think that's why most men find that once they have been allowed to orgasm an almost post-coital depression sets in.
They feel guilty (about cumming and the longer it has been the more guilty they feel) and almost subconsciously suffer a dip in behaviour and start to act-up in order in incur punishment and get locked back up again.
This restart the whole cycle and they can feel safe, loved and controlled all over again.

 

I wouldn't know

 

A very good question. I would say more although I have a hard time with drawing a clear line between sexuality/intimacy/fetishes. The times are stressful also structured in a way that turns the focus inwards which is different from say having an enormously stressful work life for an extended period.

My prediction in general (which may seem rather amusing I suppose given where we are) that there will be plenty of new children entering into the world in nine months or so. Such is the human mind after all.

 

How about post your keys to yourself... at the place where you would normally work. No telling when you will be able to get them back. So litle enforcement coupled with wondering when ..like most of us.

 

To the original question, I find the when I'm stressed I ride my dildos for relief. Not exactly a fetish but that's my coping device.
To the follow up question, I don't practice relief orgasms, even when I am using my dildos. Orgasms are more meaningful and intense when my Wife allows them after She orgasms.

 

My opinion for my circumstances is that they’re are more important now than when not in Lockdown.
So, I live with my partner who is not into the lifestyle what so ever, I am submissive and crave being dominated - I have never forced the issue with my partner which is why I often find myself here.
I have my time to play when she is at work or out shopping etc however given the current restrictions she is working from home and now always in the house, I do only get a finite number of days off a week, I am a key worker so I still have to travel to work.
As my partner is now at home constantly I have no time to ‘play’ I have found that has quite an effect on my mental health and I’ve found myself a little more stroppy, bratty and a little angry at silly random things (being killed on my PS4 ).
So I do think if I were given the chance to ‘play’ I would be feeling much more content.

 

As i was sick Last 3 weeks, i really though puting cages to rubbishs and stop with this kink. But as soon as i was felling better, i felt more kinky than ever.
Stress is something on our proper mind and body. Outside life isn t really changing this kinky feeling.

 

Well, one of the cages I ordered before lockdown arrived today. But so did Final Fantasy 7, and in fairness Final Fantasy came first.

 

It's been a shift for sure but if anything, my wife has become stronger. Early on she said, 'this isn't changing anything. I'm still in control." What is different is that she's been more direct. We are both working from home (she has a full 8 hours and I barely have 2). She's locked me in the crawl space under the stairs a few different times and once cuffed me to our bed for 5 hours. She's getting further down the bdsm path I think. And she's 'enjoying herself' almost everyday. I'd much rather focus on her than the pandemic panic.