I was a member here about a year ago, and, just sort of wandered away but now I've wandered back! The members here are genuine and helped me along understanding my fascination with chastity. I'm not altogether sure about the sissy thing but I'm willing to please! IMHO I'm too masculine to make a convincing woman!
There is a whole range of reasons and roles in regard to chastity. It can simply be about a cock control and ownership without any cross dressing at all. Personally, while I'm very supportive of sissies and can love them like sisters, what I love most are pantyboys. They wear pretty panties and stockings or me, but I don't really desire them to wear feminine outer clothing or try to be passable. In fact, what I love is the contrast of a nice, hard, masculine man in pretty, soft, feminine lingerie. M
Well, I like a man who knows how to please. ;-) Although, if you really like it, you should probably "like" it. In all honesty, my preference for panties and stockings, as well as for silk thongs and posing straps (not all my boys cross dress), is all about presenting MY property in a way that is visually pleasing to me. It is always in a boy's best interest to making it inviting to my eye, and to my touch. M
Mistress Magick, I've found your statement above to be very true, and I wear what SHMBO likes to see me in. there are other things I would like to wear, but they do nothing for her. I'm finding more and more that HER wants and desires aare definately more improtant than my own. Caged Wolf
Agreed! An Important Rule to Learn: The more you please Her, the more happy you'll both be. Would that be "She Who Must Be Obeyed"? I used to have that on a t-shirt.
Yes, Mistress Magick, that is "She Who Must Be Obeyed" She doesn't like to be called Mistress, or Ma'am, so my standard reply is "Yes, Dear"
Another example of how Dommes are all different. I hate "Yes, Dear" as it sounds too much like a boy isn't paying attention, and prefer "Mistress" or "M'Lady". I know a Female Dominants' group that says that "Ma'am" is best to use as a default when addressing Dommes at parties and such, but I wasn't personally okay with it until after I turned 40.
Same here. And the beard is a dead give away! The solution is to do it in private, with or without your partner. Since my wife knows I am sort of into this, although I admit it has been a while since we have had the time, I'm quite happy getting corseted, pulling on a slip, garter belt and stockings, nce pair of silks panties over my cock cage, a little fuck-me red lipstick, and some super-glued on fake nails. I'll widen by arse a little, and watch porn waiting for her to come home to fuck me like the slut I am. Never would I "pass", and I don't want to. I have to super-glue on the nails as I have not been able to find any wide enough for my fingers. It comes off easily enough if you pry it off with something thin (not sharp!).
... all of this began from, my annoyance at her wearing sleepwear in bed. I said something along the lines of "I know it's all sliky and all, and it must feel nice, but I'd prefer you naked." "Oh, it is silky she said you should try it". Next thing I knew I was wearing green silk knickers everywhere on Green Knicker Sunday. Those green knickers have long since given way to stainless steel, which is far less silky! Just posted a pic on my fetlife profile (name nick as here) of those very same green knickers in pre-caged times. ~farlo
Hint: We wear sleepwear when we want you to let us get some sleep. If you can't learn to behave yourself, chastity is the next best solution! *
[qI Like your thinking Mistress Magick!!! If he (IO can control themselves, then the Mistress needs to take appropriate action for us. If you can't learn to behave yourself, chastity is the next best solution! uote="If you can't learn to behave yourself, chastity is the next best solution! MistressMagick, post: 79329, member: 30093"]Hint: We wear sleepwear when we want you to let us get some sleep. If you can't learn to behave yourself, chastity is the next best solution! *[/quote]
That last post is messed up... couldn't see what I was typing, adn it took my 3 minute Edit window to figure out how to see what I had written the white text against teh white background DOES NOT WORK! ... Should have said: I Like your thinking Mistress Magick!!! If he (IO can control themselves, then the Mistress needs to take appropriate action for us.