I'm a 40-year-old man, married, from Italy. I've always been drawn to the BDSM world, especially Femdom. A few years ago, I discovered "male chastity," and it's always been a strong desire... For years, my wife wasn't too keen on the idea... I think I approached it the wrong way. But things have changed in the last six months, thanks to some strategy and, most importantly, thanks to some tailored reading material I gave her to read and that she read. Let's say, with its ups and downs and a lot of patience, my wife has started to appreciate certain aspects of my fantasies... We talk about it openly, and in many ways, I (almost) have a keyholder. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, continuing to "study," and moving forward!