A New Chapter Unfolds

Another thread (https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/a-hot-role-reversal.51621/) got me thinking about a nice reward for hubby. I know he'd love an hour of being able to do whatever he wanted to me.

Bondage is hubby's kink, not mine, and being tied up has never really appealed to me. I've also grown very accustomed to being in complete control of our sex life, and am not sure I'll be able to let go. Perhaps the combination of a time limit and hubby remaining locked will help. Hubby can tease and torment me however he desires, but when the hour is up I'll be back in control and hubby will be as frustrated as ever.

But it's also ok if I don't enjoy it. The whole point is to do something nice for hubby. He spends so much time catering to my desires, that I can certainly give him this one hour as a "thank you". In my heart I know I want to do this for him. But I'm still a little apprehensive about the experience.

 

Yes, I think that bit is essential.

He can do whatever he wants to me during that hour, but I still control his cock. I find the idea very appealing.

 

Hubby loved his reward. I surprised him by waiting for him in the bedroom naked, save for wrist and ankle cuffs. I told him that he had an hour to do whatever he wanted to me. Before he got too excited, I added that the chastity key was hidden and he'd remain locked for the evening.

After that it was a blur. Often I retell our adventures as a story. I can't really do that this time. Everything is a jumble in my mind. It was an intense experience, stirring up some unexpected feelings, and I'm still processing it all.

Hubby gagged me. I had forgotten we even owned a gag, but hubby found it in our toy box. Somehow that affected me more deeply than any restraints. Perhaps that's because I primarily exercise my control via my voice. I tell hubby what I want, what I don't want, order him to do this or that. Being deprived of that made me feel far more powerless than mere ropes could.

Aside from the gag, hubby took it easy on me. He basically said as much afterwards. He stuck to familiar ground, essentially teasing me with fingers, mouth, and toys for the entire 60 minutes before finally letting me cum. I'm not a patient person, and being kept on edge for that long was incredibly frustrating. I have to admit the eventual orgasm was amazing. Good enough to do this again, though I wouldn't want it to become a regular thing.

There was one moment that was particularly tough. Hubby had just secured my hands and feet to the spreader bar. Ass up, face down. Blindfolded and gagged, I couldn't see, couldn't move, couldn't talk. I felt incredibly exposed and vulnerable. I worried about what hubby might do, and that there was nothing I could do (or say) to stop him. My emotions were intense and all over the place. In retrospect, my reaction was silly. Hubby is always caring and gentle. He knows my limits and I trust him completely.

As I said, hubby loved the reward. Afterwards he asked how he could earn another one. I still haven't given him an answer. Partly because I'm still sorting myself out, and partly because he already does everything I ask and gives me everything I want, so what else is there?

I might enjoy a repeat, minus the panic in the middle. Or maybe I'm just too used to being in control to really enjoy letting go. I need some time to think.

 

The game is afoot! Actually, it's not really a game. I created a bunch of index cards with various rewards for hubby, and every week we draw a random one and hubby gets his prize.

I asked hubby to come up with three rewards, subject to my veto of course. I assumed he would want to think it over for a bit, but he rattled them off right away. His first was for us to switch for an hour. This was hardly a surprise. We had done this a few weeks ago, he loved it, and his inquiries about a repeat were one of the motivations for this entire thing. I clarified a few of my boundaries, and that he would remain locked, and created the first card. His second idea was a bonus orgasm for him, which I vetoed immediately. His orgasm should be dictated by me, not chance.

His third idea was to be tied up and teased for four hours. I knew he liked being tied up, but four hours seemed like an incredibly long time. It's easy enough for me... a few minutes of stroking, then I leave him alone for a while and read a book or whatever. But four hours felt excessive. Hubby insisted that he wanted to try it, so that was the second card.

I let him suggest a replacement for the vetoed idea, and he proposed that I don't wear any underwear for a week. That one really caught me off guard. I know it turns him on, and I definitely use it to my advantage now and then. But I was surprised that it made his list ahead of things that would more directly give him pleasure. A few days would be no big deal, but I did't really want to spend an entire week going commando. As a compromise, hubby suggested we roll a die to determine the number of days. We had our third card.

Then I set to work adding my own cards. Hubby had already taken a couple of my ideas, but the "no underwear" suggestion triggered a few new thoughts. I especially liked the twist of a reward playing out over several days. And since he suggested using dice, I incorporated them into several of my cards. I wound up with a nice little stack of rewards, containing a few nice surprises for him. The dice rolling should keep it interesting, though I'll feel bad if he rolls ones. We'll cross that bridge when we come to it.

I found hubby, shuffled the cards, and drew the first one:

"Roll two dice, you get that many edges today. You must remain naked the entire time."

Hubby thought that sounded great. Even more so when he rolled a 4 and a 5. I gave him his first two edges right away, then we took a break. I decided he could remain unlocked, though I added the condition that he has to always be in the same room as me. It's been a lot of fun having him follow me around the house. I also love reaching over and giving him a few quick strokes, just enough to make him nice and hard. I think I'll give him his third edge pretty soon. He looks ready.

Hubby doesn't like being naked. It makes him uncomfortable. I love being naked myself, so I don't really understand it. But I also know it's a good kind of uncomfortable. He doesn't like it, but he likes being forced to do it, if that makes any sense. So I'm in no hurry and I intend to make this little game last the entire day. Locking him up after that ninth edge is going to be delicious. I'm trying to hold off on my own orgasm until then, but I don't know if I'll make it.

I'm curious what we'll do about dinner. We normally go out on Sundays, but I made it very clear that if he puts on any clothing at all he forfeits all remaining edges. The fridge is pretty bare, he's not going to find much to cook in there. We could order in, but then he has to figure out how to stay in the same room as me when I answer the door. I'm sure he'll think of something. He's clever.

 

Thank you, that is an excellent suggestion. We've never tried anything that long, and I'd like it to be a success, so any tips are appreciated.

 

That's a great idea! Although a bigger number is always going to be nicer, I think most of the rewards still work with a "2", it's really only with "1" that some of them become more lackluster.

Should there be a "cost" to rolling again? Perhaps he has to give up his next edge and remaining on strict lockup for a day or two until we re-roll. Or maybe I can think of some other task for him to perform.

I'm trying to create something he'll like, but I don't really understand the terrain of these "games", so this feedback is very helpful.

 

You're right, I'm sure we'll tweak it. And I'm not stressing about it.

But sometimes I feel like a baker without taste buds, so it's helpful to be able to ask "would sardines make a good pastry filling?". Also, there have been quite a few suggestions that would have never occurred to me.

 

Hubby's tied up right now. I've been giving him a random reward each weekend, and today he got a big one: being tied up and teased for 4 hours.

I was a bit skeptical when he suggested this idea. I know he enjoys being restrained, but it's typically less than an hour. Perhaps two hours once in a while for something special. Four hours felt excessive. I was also sure he'd get bored. Not at first, but I wasn't planning on non-stop teasing, and by the time we crossed the two hour mark I suspected he'd be ready to call it quits. I debated with myself on how I might handle that. I didn't want to be too strict because after all these rewards are supposed to be something fun. On the other hand, it was his idea, and perhaps a dose of "be careful what you wish for" would be good for him. In the end I decided on a compromise: if he asked to end early, I'd make him wait thirty more minutes and then I'd release him.

Anyway, today was his lucky day. I instructed him to strip and put on a blindfold. Then I let him wait there, his cock swelling within its cage, while I rounded up some toys. I took my time, letting the anticipation build.

When I was ready I had him kneel on the floor and I secured his wrists and ankles to the spreader bar, his face pressed against the floor while his ass remained up in the air. It was a little payback for last month when he put me in that same position. I remembered how vulnerable I had felt, and wondered if he felt the same. His cock, still locked in its cage, dangled invitingly. I cupped his balls in my hand, gave them a few gentle squeezes, then switched my attention to his ass. He was spread wide open and waiting. I teased him a little with my finger before replacing it with our largest butt plug. I worked the plug in slowly, giving his body time to adjust as the plug slid deeper and stretched him wider. When he was past the thickest part, his body pulled the plug in the rest of the way until it was nestled firmly in place.

I left him alone like that for a while, giving him plenty of time to fully appreciate his position. When I returned, a copious amount of precum was already leaking from his trapped cock. I spent a minute or so toying with the plug and caressing his balls before leaving him alone again. Although I teased him for a minute or two here and there, for most of that time he was simply alone with his thoughts. After a half hour I released him from the spreader bar and let him stretch a bit. I even unlocked his cage so his cock could stretch as well.

I experimented with several other positions, and the more restrictive ones seem to work best. In fact, sometimes the bondage does most of the work itself and he remains aroused with only a few occasional strokes from me. Right now he's standing across the room, his wrist and ankle cuffs tied tightly to the railing. He can shift his weight a little from foot to foot, and move his upper body a bit, but that's really it. When I told him what I was typing he he got rock hard. Now it's waning a little, perhaps I should do something about that...

A few strokes did the trick, his erection is back at full strength. Teasing hubby like this turned out to be a lot less effort than I expected. Most of the time is really me doing whatever I want while he waits in anticipation. He shows no signs of getting bored, and though we're only halfway through, it now seems likely he'll last the entire four hours.

I'm also surprised at how much I have been enjoying this. I love that just the sound of me approaching is enough to make his cock stir. That sight has been stirring feelings in my own body, something that I may have to take care of pretty soon. I'd love to feel the kiss of his lips and the flick of his tongue on my pussy. But perhaps it's better if I take matters into my own hands. He'll just have to wait and listen to the sounds of my vibrator. That seems like the best plan.