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    Congratulations for taking the challenge in the context that it was meant. I wish you luck and please update us on how you get on, I'm sure many will be most interested to read reports from you.
     
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    Not a problem, thanks for the clarification.
     
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    Dear Mistress Governess Stephanie, please how can the dribbles be stopped. curtsy. They comes out by themselves and there not nothing that can really make them stop. curtsy.
     
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    Dear Mistress Governess Stephanie,
    As soon as the Neosteel Masterpiece I will receive in August appears to be wearable 24/7 I will find a keyholder for at least a one year contract, possibly open ended.
    Currently I have been four weeks without sliming on willpower alone.
     
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    I'm afraid you answered your own question my dear, you can't control or help the dribbles, it will happen uncontrollably, theres nothing you can do about it.
     
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    I hope you are not going to try starting out with a one year contract ? Finding a keyholder may be a problem as it is for most males, but I wish you luck anyway
     
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    Ok so we have narrowed do what constitutes a medical emergency.

    So you have a bit of trouble with your boy bits and go to the Dr for some professional medical help.

    Should you warn the unsuspecting qualified medical practitioner before hand that du to a chastity challenge you have not cum in 10 -20-40 - or more days .

    They slip on the old rubber gloves and have a little poke and prod and promptly get the full bukaka experience .

    Answers on a post card as to how you explain that away:)


    Xx Wendy
     
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    SubVerity Still the mansion's fairy godmother. ;)

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    HAha - Oooh I have a medical emerge-ency!

    I would think that before inserting a gloved and lubed digit up my derrier, any well seasoned quack would take one look at my wrinkled ring-piece and take an educated guess as to whether it saw regular use as an erogenous zone or not. In my case that alone would be enough for them to be well forewarned!! :D :D

    Any mess produced I would consider as a free one on them, though I would of course tell my KH about it and accept any punishment due. Regularly. ;)
     
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    The one year contract will have a trial period and regular cleanings.
    Once the belt appears wearable 24/7 I will wear it 24/7.
     
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    Thanks for the thought Governess Stephanie
    Last night after 1/2 hour of licking, I was tied down and 3 very slow ruined orgasms followed before the cage went on again.
    Lucky me ??? !!
     
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    Yes lucky you lockedin
     
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    Stephaneeee... hear my voice singing in a friendly way?
    We are in the foyer and its really for introductions.
    Bad place to start threads.
    I will move this to the Pedestal I think. Don't you belong on a pedestal after all?
    Anyway I will give you a 3 day lead time for people looking.

    Cheers !!

    BTW, I did 110 days with no release from the tube.
    Was a character building experience.
     
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    My apologies for posting under the wrong heading, will be more careful in the future. Your comments were taken in a friendly singing way ! LOL
     
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    So, we're still in the lead up stages to this intended 3 month period of being locked, and I'm getting nervous.
    Longest I've gone before was 2 months, though the plan had been a month, but life just gets in the way and it ended up 2 months before I next had an orgasm. My Wonderful knows how horny I was even at only 3 weeks , and will no doubt end up giving me some form of release before the 3 months is over, which is going against the idea of this challenge, but hey ho - it's our lives after all!
     
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    Dang it....must have hit enter by mistake, as the above was intended to be a preamble to what follows.

    I'm wondering how formal this next locked period is going to be. We're not big on rules and boundaries, and certainly nothing happens in the way of punishments (not that I'm clever enough to notice anyway) but I'm thinking it might add something a little more...... fun, if there were some deals or offers made, or commitments.

    Things like, I will give at least a 10 minute massage every day.
    I will not unlock without permission, and will relock directly after whichever activity is completed.
    I will not ask for releases.
    I will not ask for sexual activity.
    Etc.

    That's all a bit dull and obvious really, so I need to be a bit more creative with it. Any suggestions from the floor?
     
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    Wow... 90 days sound so hard and yet so easy. ...I am on day 22 or so and feeling a mixture of total fun because i made it for a longer period than i ever thought i would, and frustration as i just want to end it and get a goddamn orgasm! :D
     
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    Yes but are those 22 days without the cage ever coming off? That's the challenge here.
     
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    Well, thats not possible :( in the beginning we changed rings from middle to small, so it was off, and when her small cousins where there i had it off as well because i didnt want to wear it in front of kids.
     
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    Resizing the ring wouldn't count but taking it off for being in front of the kids is more a judgment call for the Dommes.
     
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    Miss and me agreed on not wearing it in front of the kids
     
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    I agree, there is conclusive scientific no proof in favour of males ejaculating regularely. My record is 110 Days and I was fine and very functionalat the end of that period.
     
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    I've never done 90 days in chastity. It seems long but doable.

    When I'm locked, it's always without release, so that part wouldn't be a problem.

    But although my wife loves chastity, she gets bored of it, typically after a month or so. The longest she has remained in the mood is 2 months.

    For us to switch to long term chastity would require some changes in our dynamic. Notably, it changes my personality quite a bit, and after a while, she "needs her man back", as she would say.

    But when I'm locked, I never know for how long it will be. It is entirely up to my wife. She would not tolerate any topping from the bottom in that matter!
     
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    I can certainly understand your position Metalman. I very much enjoy being locked however, my girlfriend often comments that she wants the free range me not the caged one. In part that's because she is a submissive and I'm a switch. But it's not at all surprising for our partners to say they want the person they fell for not the one a cage turns them into and so long term just isn't I able for everyone.
     
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    Lol
    So we have at last joined the other two sides to the circle !

    Chastity devices were invented to prevent unauthorised sex when he was away fighting for king and country .

    Trying not to loose the key during campaigns that may have lasted years he got home to have some fun .
    Quite what she thought about it having been locked up in several pounds of the black smiths best work I don't know except the blacksmith probably made himself self a spare key .

    So the whole point is the KH reserves their right to have sex as and when they feel like it .

    By saying no I want to stay locked up , the message could be received as I no longer find you attractive !!!

    The oposite could also be construed that he thinks of me as some wonderful dominatrix but I just can't be assed with all that messing about and having to put clean sheets on the bed .

    Quite frankly I would not get obsessed about the device but play nicely as and when the opportunity arises.
    Anyways what is wrong with some great sex ? I would prefer to get naked and sweaty with someone rather than doing a lot of other things .
    Where I work there was a couple mid 60s at least and they were squeezing each others bums as they walked down the shop. They were fit, smiling and looked so in love . Funny enough they don't argue over their shopping like some ,all ways say hello and I bet they shagg each others brains out several times a week.

    Xx Wendy
     
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