NoFap is the antithesis to what chastity is for me. While NoFap is about the suppression of eroticism and erotic desire, to me chastity is about...
So… As my account stats suggest, I'm not exactly new here. But I've been away for so long that I might as well be brand new, so I figured I'd...
Happy to be back
For me, it definitely loses its appeal after a while. My longest lockup was 2 months, and by that time the cage was like a pebble in my shoe that...
For me, anger is an emotion that signifies that something is wrong and needs to be dealt with outside of the context of the D/s dynamic. I'm...
For me, chastity in no way reduces libido or "enables me to focus on other things". Quite the contrary, and that's also part of the reason I am...
I've recently started identifying as a submissive, after having identified as a switch for years. I came to the realization that in perpetual D/s...
The times when I'm really not in the mood, stressed out over work or something like that and the cage shifts around pinching my skin all the time....
I think it's a matter of time and communication. I myself find that if I go for days without any attention at all, I tend to "lose the buzz" and...
I can relate to this. When unlocked, I'm generally not attracted to chastity at all. Sometimes I fall into "modes" where I get submissive and want...
Locked again, for the first time in quite a while. Deliciously horrible. :)
I also think that had my wife been at home, she might have been able to give me more direct help and support, and maybe even averted the...
Thanks for all your feedback! I agree that I definitely should not be let out "whenever I feel like it". In this case, it was a matter of taking...
Ok, so up until wednesday, I'd been under my wife's total control since the beginning of November. A large portion of this time was spent locked...
That's why you don't. You both agree on the rules beforehand, and then you both abide by these rules until such a time as you both agree to stop.
Ah, that's clever! :)
Thanks! This is exactly what I had in mind! Now, to find something similar for buttplug harness.
I was wondering if anybody here knows of any cage compatible harnesses, mainly of the buttplug and dildo variety? Most harnesses for males I see...
The longest I've been able to stay locked so far is 1 week, before the cage had to come off due to skin-breaking chafing. :( I've yet to work out...
A few of our closest friends within the BDSM community knows about my lockup, while we're openly "into chastity" to the community at large. No...