We have lived an FLR relationship for many years although we never called it that. It has just been natural for us for Her to be in control of me. In 30+ years of marriage, I have always treated her as my Queen. I have always cleaned, cooked and put Her needs first. I suppose it is just my natural submissive nature, but She says I have always "spoiled Her". She has always been in control in the bedroom. We used to switch but many years ago She just took charge and I prefer it that way. We enjoy many aspects of a kinky D/s relationship and have done many things together. We have zero interest in involving others and we keep our kinks mostly secret. Within the last year we started experimenting with chastity and it is becoming a permanent part of our relationship. I don't think She prefers permanent chastity and I have been usually locked for about a month at a time when She decides to unlock me for a few days or weeks. When unlocked I do not masturbate anymore. I have always enjoyed Her dominating me and have found the addition of chastity makes me truly feel owned by Her. Giving her complete control of my cock and my cum makes me feel owned and relieved that the last freedom I had has been taken away and given to Her. The cage is a constant reminder of Her ownership and allows me to truly forget about my own needs and completely focus on Her and continue to spoil Her. I absolutely love it and crave it.