Long time lurker finally locking up.

In life I'm a very confident man. I'm always working toward something and always strive to reach it. I like to be in control of every situation I'm in. I really do excell in leadership opportunities and always strive to be the best I can be. However, at night while laying in bed I find myself reading erotic fiction, much of which revolves around chastity. And in my fantasies, I'm not the one in control. I'm the one with a cage on my cock and a strap on in my rear. These are my two sides, the confident man who can do anything and the quiet sub with a small cock begging to be locked. As much as I would love to experience being dominated in this fasion, I would never risk my reputation. After years of secretly whacking off to my sub fantasies.

This has lasted about 10 years. I don't have the money to throw down on a cage and so I'd always try to make one...always with lousy results. Then not too long ago I successfully created a chastity device using a steel pipe clamp from Lowes and a roll on deodorant lid for the tube. Finally I was able to lock up. About the same time I discovered keysafe.org and it's Strict Mistress virtual mistress program. Finally I had found a way to, in a way, live this fantasy of mine.

It didn't take long to realize that my homemade device wasn't good for long term wear. It chafes like crazy and was not easy to keep clean. But by now I had learned of the Chinese knockoffs, and ordered an A081, a knockoff of the Jailbird device. I'm now in the process of modifying it for comfort and adjusting to it. So now that I'm actually locked up, I thought I'd finally come out of the lurker, corner and introduce myself. I'm excited to see where this journey into chastity will take me!

 

Thanks! Hoping to do just that.

 

So far it is. It's not easy and some of my assigned tasks aren't too pleasant but I have enjoyed the submission.

 

Well, I've had my toilet privileges revoked, so I can no longer pee when I want. I'm required to drink 8 ounces of water every hour and every four hours I get a ten minute window to pee. If I miss the window I have to wait for the next one! Yesterday I was granted my first orgasm! I was required to cum in a sock, then wear it all day. It may not seem like much but I'm VERY new to this, and it's driving me out of my comfort zone yet leaving me waiting for the next task!

 

I use the Strict Mistress program at keysafe.org. When setting up, you choose a hard limit, as well as other settings that dictate how often you get to play, what the game odds are, and other things like photo verification. When you get a chance to play, you play a card or dice game to see if you can win a release. One of the options I love is release commands. If set, when you win a release you're given instructions on what to do. It tells you how you're allowed to cum, and sometimes just tells you to edge 5 times and lock back up - no orgasm. But what really makes it fun is community involvement. The community can vote whether to increase or decrease time to the next game. Also, you can authorize other users (usually doms) to change your settings. They can also assign tasks for you to do and you're not allowed to play games until you finish the tasks. It's neat that they've been able to combine a virtual mistress with real people. Anyway, I've enjoyed my experience there so far. Have you locked up with any other virtual programs?

 

You should check it out. You'd have fun playing with all the "toys" there.