It was recommended that I move this thread from the sissy forum to a more general forum because it may interest a broader cross section of users. I am becoming fascinated with the idea of the full time sissy maid. I'm not at a point in life where if could work, but have discussed with recently with my KH/Wife and wanted to think through some of the complications and issues well ahead of time before making life decisions that could possibly move us down that path. My wife would love for me to be a stay at home "Mr. Mom", I'd like to find a way to do that but convince her to expand it to more of a submissive maid position. Is there anyone on here who is living full time as your KH's sissy maid who would be willing to discuss, either with me in a private chat, or on here as a Q&A forum? I'd love to pick your brain about a ton of things.
I am sure that there could be a deal of interest in this - I have certainly chatted and messaged with a few folk here over the yeras who have described their situation to me. It might be an idea to pose a few opening questions to get the ball rolling? Hopefully some in that situation will come in with responses.
have to admit over the years (LOOOOOOOONG time lurker.... like my cawk heueheheh) I've always loved hearing Jemina's story and how on earth that came to happen. i mean Jem even types differently now, so to see a concise story of how that came to be, would really knock my feathers off. But thats up to them to share if they want to. But i am bloody curious on how many people actually do the sensory deprivation bondage games, like how long, how often, how it's done, because thats always fascinating reading. From a purely academic standpoint point of course.... ahem.
It would be great to get a summary story from anyone in this situation, questions like: How it happened? What are your arrangements? How long it's been? Is it full time and public? Are you still happy with the arrangement? How has it changed over the years? How does it work financially (do you have access to funds/allowance)? Does family know? Kids? Attire? Rewards/Punishments? There are a million others that would be specific to each case.
Not sissy maid but I had a 24/7 slave masochist for a few years. How it happened? We were seeing each other at clubs and munches and getting in very well. He had a disagreement with his employer/landlord and moved out with nowhere to go. I offered my sofa for s couple of weeks, ended up being a couple of years. What are your arrangements? He did EVERYTHING. Cooked, cleaned, drove, made me toys, decorated my house, built me a swimming pool (yes really!) built my dungeons, helped run events... How long it's been? It was 2-3 years Is it full time and public? It was and yes. Are you still happy with the arrangement? Sadly we parted ways. How has it changed over the years? It was pretty consistent throughout out. Unfortunately he wanted more from me commitment-wise than I was willing to offer. How does it work financially (do you have access to funds/allowance)? He gave me a little "rent" money for food, but there wasn't a financial agreement. Does family know? Kids? Older family and children knew. My youngest child had an uncanny understanding that he would do whatever needed doing. At age three she had him under her thumb. Attire? At home, usual vanilla wear. At clubs/events usually latex. Although I did get him to decorate and garden naked sometimes. Rewards/Punishments? Playtime was both.
If I lived in some backwoods place, I would love to be a full time stay at home sissy maid for wifey, to attend to all her needs whilst she was out at work, she wouldn't have to lift a finger around the house and would be free to go out and meet guys and even bring them home for me to pamper them both and tend to their every need. I guess part of it is wishful thinking and part of it we have done and still do to a point.
Oh, this is great, thanks @Mistress Watchful , that's very helpful, and @jemima I will definitely shoot you a private message. Happy to hear from anyone else too!