It's nearly a week since he came.. under my say so and I am feeling the effects of my greed. The sparks from his lips have gone, the need for his touch, the urgency for attention , passion has waned...back to the mundane. Why did I let him cum ?? I just get so greedy and it was such an intense session-I get desperate for him... I have decided that next time, well this time there will be no more orgasms. I like the passion and urgency so much that I must stop myself going over that edge. I must learn to be content with the strap-on. I do love that thing btw ! It is definitely true that orgasms take the edge away We have begun another orgasm denial term...or is it lifestyle ?
yes, that is a very unfortunate aspect of the effect of male orgasm. It is pretty much doom for our cocks.
We started again last night ... Baby is back now and Mistress Deborah is back in charge of orgasms - or should I say my lack her plenty. The way it should be. Mistress Deborah love you mummy!
We have found that after a full orgasm the edge diminishes (My Mistress is "greedy" sometimes too) but usually she will tease me a little first thing in the am and my desire to serve her is right back and I ma relocked before I know it. She has definitely got it down to a science. Her other favorite way is when we incorporate bondage, which is more often than not she relocks me before releasing me.
I took to restraining his hands before removing his device and re locking him before releasing his hands. I took to doing this purely because of his occasional protests at being locked right away after orgasm. When I first introduced this method he continued with the occasional protest, however, wriggling and writhing would only result in me leaving his hands restrained until he submitted to me locking him back up. He doesn't bother protesting at all now, nonetheless I've continued with This approach. He knows exactly what's coming now once his wrists are cuffed to the bed head.
I don't need cuffing, and I know that if Mistress Deborah says we are starting again then we are. My collar around my neck is always there, I belong sexually and whole bodily to her . To argue or protest would be very wrong. Respectfully Baby
philfred -- you and i are on exactly the same page. if i even sound like i am about to whine i get the death glare.
My subbie is a true Alpha male. He doesn't wear nappies or have a cot. He does/has often struggled with my hold over him. He belongs to me sexually and bodily however it's not been so easy for him as it has for you it seems.
Mascara^Snake where to start... We are a very tight couple - we ADORE each other. Our relationship is based on trust, we have played with many things...baby is something that has slowly emerged into an amazing and erotic journey. It has nothing to do with seeing your partner in a different light... it's difficult to explain. He still wears fitted shirts and tight jeans - you can still see his muscles through his shirt. His hair is still dark and thick, his smile still lights up the room, he still holds my gaze but I put him into nappies! It's another form of chastity -it is a mind fuck but if your mind is open you can understand...... Life is like a box of chocolates..... and if you're lucky Mistress Deborah will lock you into a tight locking nappy and tease you beyond destraction lol!
Mascara^Snake So is an Alpha male in panties or sissyfied no longer an alpha male because he is dressed this way? Its what goes on between the ears that matters and not what goes on between the legs i thought was important. I respect all women and have a loving tender side. I find your implication in your comments quite upsetting. But as a women I respect your opinion.