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Book a couple of weeks off work and go two weeks. I have this philosophy that the body will adjust to anything given time. You never will get a ‘perfect’ fit. Night time just needs some pushing through.

 

I got lucky with my 4th cage being a really good fit for long term wear. Besides wanting to go down to a 43 mm ring to try, I'm at a 45 now I'm really happy with it. They don't make a 43 mm for this particular cage however so maybe a going into work on a weekend making my own deal. As far as overnight st least for me it was just a pushing through thing. Going on two months it never wakes me up at night. Just some readjusting in morning where it's pushed down a little. Absolute perfection in a cage maybe unattainable as it is in many things in life.

 

@Iron78 well you have not sayed how big your willy is but if it is only a little one then the most comfy i have had is the ones that keep the willy inside you. bit if it is a bigger one then they migt hurt you.

 

The base ring shouldn’t stop you from growing, if the flat one works while awake have you tried sleeping in your underwear? I found good tight briefs/thongs/jocks to be a godsend, and maybe try the one you haven’t tried yet! Good luck!

 

I have owned several cages with several size base rings.
As the body adapts, I could go smaller and smaller, trying to get to the “inescapable” walhalla… always accepting discomfort and pain!
My fantasy collapsed after finding out that with the tightest ring ever, I could still escape.

after getting pierced, I had this anti-pullout option which made me try to find more comfort!

my sweet spot for the base ring is 41/42mm.
My penis girth in full erect is 40 so I’m just slightly above that size. Where soft I’m about 33/34mm
Hardly noticeable and thought enough to keep the cage in place.

for the cage portion, I found that being a bit wider in size (based on soft state) but just tight enough to grip in “hard” stage is perfect.
In my case, 36mm

length of the cage is soft length minus about 5mm

Nocturnal erection never wake me
During daytime wear I hardly even notice the cage at all anymore.

But being pierced is sort of a requirement to be both secure and comfortable I’m afraid…

 

It’s one of the best decisions I made!
It doesn’t only look cool whith regular jewelry but also gives a much more comfortable chastity experience.

I have a cage with the PA prong with a thru-hole. I don’t spill anything when taking a leak.
And being fixed inside the cage makes it really inescapable! A total mindfuck!

the pinch at the piercing studio was not even that painful and took two seconds only.
After that, a couple of uncomfortable days and from there on, nothing but joy!

i d recommend to gauge up to at least 6mm before really using the piercing for chastity though

 

I was in doubt for weeks!

really wanted it but got scared and put it away where after a few days I was about to book an appointment and didn’t dare to click the confirmation button.. back-and-forth!

but after I while and after searching lots of info on the internet I just told myself to “man-up”
Enough guys were tough enough to do it and if I wouldn’t like it, I could just take it out and forget about it.

A credo:
Better feel sorry for things you did and didn’t like than the things you wanted to do but never dared!

Stil scared, I made an appointment via their website and put an agenda item in my agenda and after that sort of tried to forget about it until D-day.

when inside the piercing studio and ready to go into the little room there was no way back… I was in the waiting room with other people and just paid for the procedure at the counter.

The anticipation is really much more scary than the procedure itself.
Literally one small pinch that was somewhat painful but by far not as heavy as I expected!

I was done and outside in just 15minutes including waiting time, undressing, piercing, band-aid and redressing…

 

Might want to look into a Tetherspout before you do a PA.

 

What didn't you like about it?

 

You may want to think about the gap between the ring and cage. I had the same issues with earlier cages. Finally found the right combination when I bought a knock off Cobra NUB. It was the most comfortable cage, but unfortunately I had an allergic reaction to the resin. So, after a bit of searching found a SS version of the same cage. But the weight pull it all down and causes pain when that happens, especially when I applied any kind of lube.
my solution:
1) try not to use any lube on the ring at night. The friction helps to keep it in place.
2) use a shoelace or string (don't bother buying the Chastity Belt, a string does just as good a job) and tie it round your waist. This should keep it all in one place overnight and prevents the pull down when the penis stretches.
Good luck!!!

 

Believe me I have been through the same ordeal. Still not found a cage that really works. Anatomy changes constantly so I have come to realise there is a compromise, but I just haven’t found it.

 

I find with these sort of cages, one size bigger than the smallest ring you can fit into (one ball, then the other, then the cock), and a cage to match the size of the flacid cock (or slightly shorter), is ideal.

After regular wearing, you'll probably find you can handle a slightly smaller ring and cage as the body adapts.

 

If you’re going down the PA route anyway the base ring is just there to avoid too much stress to the piercing.

 

Dont overlook the ball gap and cage gap these are quite important but often overlooked IMO

 

Try going with a very short, but wider cage, then increase your ring size, the gap will stay the same. Use a strap at night to hold it against your body. You can buy them online. Red Chili makes a device with a chain strap.