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    I explain that in former posts in this thread
     
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    Seems like several contributors to this thread feel a need to criticise the OP or cast doubt on the truth of what she says. Why is that? She makes it pretty clear: her husband asked her to take away his rights permanently, that is what she has done. The surrender of consent was once and for all, but it WAS freely agreed to. I think it’s admirable.
     
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    She already explained that as well as the difficulty of removing the cage and removing the tattoo, there are two other deterrents: one, she has some kind of blackmail material with which to coerce him, and also an emotional hold because he loves her. In other threads she has described episodes where he has cried and begged for mercy but in spite of her refusal to show any mercy he has ended up seeking comfort in her arms. It’s pretty clear that her control is primarily psychological and the cage is simply a physical manifestation of that.
     
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    Can you please show us a picture of his cage and tattoo?
     
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    There Is a photo of his Cage in my gallery. He absolutely doesnt want to show his tattoo, because he Is ashamed of that. I respect and encourage his behaviour, because in order to avoid him to have sex again, he must be ashamed of that.
     
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    It’s kind of you to respect his feelings in that regard. You have a good balance of strictness and kindness and it has clearly paid off for you because it sounds like he’s completely under your control…
     
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    Firm and honest.
    Might be a deal-breaker for many, but at least you're very direct.
     
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    Congrats on finding such an honest lady.
     
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    I especially like the vision of " then we fell asleep hugging each other".

    Fortunately for my feminine development, I haven't seen a woman's pussy since July of 2002, other than my girl girlfriends.
     
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    I am curious, he does not even give you oralsex?
     
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    LOL. Come on, man.
     
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    I`m pussy free for over 3 decades now and love the emasculation.
     
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    I would like to hear more about the blackmail contract. I realise @Victoria23 can’t be specific about the compromising material but I’m interested in what would happen if there was a breach of contract (such as how and to whom the material would be released).
     
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    Do you have sexual relations with anyone else or are you in a kind of permenant chastity too? I hope not but I do understand that there are many health related reasons that make penetrative sex unpleasant or painful for a woman. As I've said I hope this is not the case for you.
    I love your fantasy very much and would love to take part in it. Cheers!
     
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    no pics in your gallery
     
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    Blackmail is a serious offense. Tread lightly.
     
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    There are extreme sadists and masochist of many kind... dunno why its so hard to believe it is real... These kind of forums are exactly the place where someone who is doing something like that would share ....

    Sounds pretty hot in the imagination realm... but in reality I would never be in that kind of situation :D On the other hand I can masturbate to that... I would not try probably much more stuff posted on this forum that are in category "doable" ... but hey.

    She likes that kind of cruel power over life, it sound similar to castration... Many have that fetish too.
    But if both of them are from the beginning in a consensual relationship... I dont see a problem in this. Seems cruel as hell... but some of the most gentle stuff here seem extremely cruel to some people not into it :D
     
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    What I find fascinating is that so many here can’t believe that a couple using enforced male chastity, cages, and denial in a strict FLR would possibly go to an extreme, yet I guarantee every one of us knows of men in basically sexless relationships in the vanilla world through work or in your friend groups lol, and they have absolutely nothing to do with a kink related to controlling a males orgasm or penis usage.
    Hell, about half the guys I used to work with would complain about only getting sex once a week or once a month and I highly doubt those women were showing off their bodies either.

    And most of what I read on this forum has to do with the guy begging to be denied more and more and why can’t my wife dominate me harder and be an evil Domme…..this keyholder says she’s as strict as strict can get and people call bullshit lol, for all we know, her husband is living his ultimate fantasy for real!
     
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    With this one I don’t even think it’s a disbelief. I wouldn’t want to see proof in the way of a photo of a man’s penis in a cage or some really strange tattoo. (If I was Italian I wouldn’t get an English word written on me?)
    It’s the compete lack of explanation that makes no sense. Maybe it’s a language barrier or something.

    I can’t fathom how she enjoys the act of denial in any way. If he can’t see her vagina then she is reduced to seeking pleasure alone. (Unless she cucks him, but that isn’t mentioned.)
    Clearly she enjoys it though, otherwise why would she be on here telling us about it?

    Maybe some details would make it more relatable.
     
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    She has talked about having sex with others in a previous thread
     
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    So she did.

    I honestly have no reason to disbelieve it on this occasion. I was merely presenting an answer as to why others might not.
    I think I want to understand it more than anything.

    It doesn’t really matter either way, I mean my wife told me she wouldn’t ever let me out of my cage again. I didn’t believe that, doesn’t mean it’s not true!
    It’s just this story has no substance in the detail to the why’s and how’s. You’re put in a position where you believe the statements on face value or not. A lot won’t believe that. Some won’t care. Some will really enjoy hearing it.
     
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