Finally communication works - Now some tips required !!

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    #1 Sissy_nora, Apr 27, 2021
    Hi, i am writing here for the first time.
    So last night i was talking to gf and i told her everything about my fantasy i.e chastity, Flr and the idea of controlling and she loves it.
    Although she is very hot and romantic which is obviously a plus point.
    To be honest now i am bit worried that now i am into a bit trouble because she will be a cruel one - which i can figure out.
    Please give me some tips or some blogs which i can share to her to learn more about the ideas and punishments and some kinky stuffs.
    We are planning to buy a cage, please do suggest me which one would be the best.

    thanks
     
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    #2 DonnaSue, Apr 27, 2021
    I would suggest a trial period of say, a month, for both of you to get accustomed to the chastity, cravings, Dominance and submissiveness before fully committing and embarking on an FLR. Give each other a chance to breathe and to enjoy the journey.
     
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    #3 MissyB, Apr 27, 2021
    Yes, if she is receptive to initial ideas, keep talking with her and sharing blogs/information together. I'd encourage you to get her on here as well. There are so many useful resources she can search to learn more about chastity, control and a FLR. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    #4 Sissy_nora, Apr 27, 2021
    Thanks for the advice
     
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    #5 Sissy_nora, Apr 27, 2021
    Yes, i am planning to get her in this platform, i know she is gonna love it.
    Thanks for the advice
     
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    #6 DonnaSue, Apr 27, 2021
    Forgot to mention, Nora, the importance of keeping those communication lines open and active. I think most people on here would agree that the dialogue between the partners is most important to a successful and enjoyable journey! I you are holding back or keeping secrets, that dishonesty will eventually cause the relationship to fail (just like marriage, IMHO).
     
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    #7 jemima, Apr 27, 2021
    @Sissy_nora i wud let your gf do what She want to do cos if you keep saying what you want She migt get fed up of you and do something horrible. If She comes on here then She can read what other folks dose.
     
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    #8 Maid Denise, Apr 27, 2021
    If you haven't already bought a cage yet, you should start with some cheep Chinese cages. My Goddess now owns 5 cages and it took that many to find the right fit. Even so I still had to take 2 cages and make one that I wear 24 / 7 . Good luck and enjoy the journey .
     
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    #9 Sissy_nora, Apr 27, 2021
    In my country cages are not available easily, so i am gonna get it from some where else. I am preferring lockthecock.com whats your opinion ?
     
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    #10 Sissy_nora, Apr 27, 2021
    I agree with this thanks for the help
     
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    #11 Headtrip, May 4, 2021
    My 1st cage was from Lockthecock. Drop shipped from China. I had my 2nd and 3rd cages from Amazon before it arrived and for less (combined). A few other big online retailers are even cheaper albeit without Amazon's shipping. Its all the same product though.
     
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    #12 Weber, May 4, 2021
    One of the joys of dealing with a woman is you never know what she is going to do. Have to trust her to use her intuition for good. You are off to a good start if she comes from a loving family. If she was abused as a child - who knows where intuition takes her???? I trust my wife - have to or I would never have given her a key to my belt!
     
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    #13 madams-sissysub, May 7, 2021
    You didn’t need any blogs ect, just show her round the mansion, it’s all the info you will ever need!
     
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