What to call my submissive?

Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by KHCouple4517, Dec 26, 2018.

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Was it easy for you to find a name for you and your partner?

  1. yes

    50.0%
  2. it took a while but we both have names now

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  3. no, we are still looking for names

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  1. Ms King
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    Hello, I like Master for me. Mistress never had the same umph in my mind, and you can be a master of something regardless of gender, so I am master of the house and my boy. For him we don’t entirely have a name; he identifies strongly with per play and dog like behaviour, so I call him my good boy, or good boy a lot. We might develop into one, but I don’t want to force it.
    A previous sub of mine liked “Pet”, but it sounded more affectionate than an actual name to me; he also couldn’t get his head around me (at the time) preferring Miss to Mistress- he earned some pretty harsh punishments for that. I remember he always wanted me to slap his face; I never did until the last time he called me mistress... he got his wish :+1:
     
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    On the other thread I pointed out that I call my current play partner my 'toy' (short for fucktoy). I like referring to my 'toy' with my aware friends.
    He calls me "Lori" - my name. It came to me suddenly...I realized that I wasn't responding to Mistress, so I asked him to use my name anytime he felt the need to call me Mistress - and it works. It's intimate, purposeful, focused...and when you think about it, how often does someone so-very-consciously say your name?
     
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    so well explained
     
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