One last orgasm before locking a device?

Hi mistress lianne are you planning on keeping your sub locked for good ? If so one last orgasm will be nice , by the sounds of it you will be a very strict keyholder.

 

Since you plan on springing his lock up on him unannounced, a bound sub, given a final orgasm, and then a "look what I have for you" lock up could be a hot scene.

 

Sounds exciting not many releasess im quessing obviously plenty of pleasure for you mistress Lianne , are you planning on femininizing your sub it definitely would make him more docile but i understand not everyones in to that sort of thing

 

Personally I think the impact would be greater if the device was put on as a try see and then refuse to let him back out of the device! And can I say that getting a Steelworxx Looker 1 is so hot as a first device! Most of us mess around with a useless succession of cheapo devices before we decide to stump up for a custom device. My Wife and my plan is to get a looker 2 next year if I am still interested in all this chastity stuff after three or four months.

So maybe I am a bit harsh but if it was me I would want to be locked up without an orgasm, it would make me even more shocked and I would totally believe you when you teased me about not letting me out if you ever said it.

 

The dom side of me would tie him up, edge him several times then give him a ruined orgasm followed up with locking him up. Since you will be letting him out to play on occasion. However the sub side says be kind and give him one before locking it up.

 

You can't go wrong either way, but be prepared to deal with a lot of whining at first. You have to really stand firm, not give in, and punish him when he whines or complains. The benefits you'll achieve from male chastity are countless, but you can only achieve it if you're really strict about it. Please keep us updated. Good luck.

 

My question is how did you get his measurements for a custom device without his knowledge. I mean in order to have the results you are looking for the measurements from what I have heard need to be pretty close in order to make it work as would be expected. The other thing if this is his first time being locked up, he will need a brake-in time in order to make sure his sensitive bits don't get sores. Good luck in venture into chastity.

 

Good question.

 

Love the fact that you are springing this on him. If it was discussed beforehand, I would say give him one last one. But since you have taken the initiative and surprising him with this, I think for maximum impact you deny him one last orgasm.

That being said, please do check regularly for rubbing or chafing to make sure the device is fitted properly. In all liklihood he will probably need in a break in period so that he learns how to live with his new reality. Besides which, frequent inspections will be hot for him and are a good time for teasing him as to his predicament.

Good luck wiith this.

 

I voted 'no'. I think the effect will be far better when you deny him a last orgasm.

 

You truly are a devious mistress.

 

I must say, you are brilliant Mistress Lianne. I agree with the others, deny, ice down, and lock up. I love love love the fact that you're doing this without his knowledge or approval. Just remember to remain strict and not give in to any of his nagging to be unlocked. I wish you luck. Please let us know how it goes.

 

Im going to say no , from a purely personal view haha, well done you :spank:

 

Dear Lianne,
I think it's more important to make sure that his urethra is sufficiently stretched to accept a looker sized insert before surprising him with it. If the insert didn't fit inside him then the whole experience might prove to be very disappointing. It's easy enough to do with a set of urethral sounds. Do bear in mind that it's only the entrance to his meatus that needs stretching. After the ball at the looker insert tip passes there it will slide into him very easily. Pop a little kiss on the end of the insert before sliding it in (for maximum effect)

Xxx

 

Oh, ps, if you are in need of lube for the tip of the insert then you can take some of your own wetness. That works very well. Xx

 

I agree with this, edge him several times then a ruined orgasm, then lock him up.

 

It's amazing how much Amanda knows about this. I didn't even realize the device had a urethral insert until you mentioned this. Does that make the device difficult to pull out of without being unlocked?

 

I'm sorry Lianne, I should know better that to think you would be proceeding without thorough research. With regard to him adapting to the insert. I think you will find that the hurdles he encounters will be mostly psychological and centred around the fact that he remains penetrated in that way. So don't be too quick to remove it if he complains. Xx

 

I agree, and not to mention he has probably equated the femdom activities that you and he practice with sexual gratification, so the sexual frustration of being denied an orgasm for long periods of time may at first cause him to be moody and say or do things to guilt you into letting him out, but whatever you do, don't fall for any emotional manipulation or nagging to be unlocked - stay strict and it'll all be worth it in the long run. He may resist at first, but in time, he'll eventually have to accept it as being a part of your relationship so long as you are consistently insistent and strict about it.

 

I said yes because it is easier to get the device on after an orgasm. At least this is true for the JB.