To simply put it, I have decided I need to lock myself up. For the past couple years (three to four years I think) I have been masturbating almost daily. So this is why I am locking myself up. This poll is to help me decide what I deserve. Do not hold back, if you believe I deserve a specific length of time please say so.
Charles, I've voted to give you what I have been given-permanent chastity. My wife gladly decided she was ready to keep me permanently chaste once she came to terms with her own loss of desire. We are only two months into the journey, but she's not been this happy or at ease in at least 3 years. I hope you can enjoy not masturbating as much as I enjoy being denied my wife's wonderfully tight ass. She has promised I'll never experience orgasmic release of any kind and I have promised to never ask again. She is enjoying freedom from expectation immensely. I'm enjoying her relaxed knowing smile even more. I hope you are voted permanent chastity and also hope you can honor the results. Les
I have to go with permanent denial as well. If you have to ask, I think it's best you don't have any more orgasms.
I do not think masturbating daily is a problem. It was kind of normal for me and friends when we were young and single. Even my wife did it a few times a week before we got married. I considered it a problem after I got married and was doing it 4-5 times a day and not having sex with my wife. My sex life centered around porn and the fantasy sex I saw. It was not reality based and did not increase my intimacy with the woman I am spending my life with. For a young man, once a day is normal or even less than what some other guys do but if you are into chastity I will suggest that you start with a week and then increase it from there. I do not even go as long as any of your choices and I am teased a few times a week by my wife and have been doing this for about 6-7 months just to get to 3 weeks. If you research it, you will find that your frequency is in a normal range for your age group. Only when it interferes in a relationship or your life, does it become a problem. I admit that I do not personally know anyone but myself into chastity so I do not understand why single guys want to do this but I did a lot of things that others felt were strange when I was young so I understand.
@Vinny I may have accidentally understated how often I have been masturbating. I should said truthfully that it has been multiple times per day.(and compulsively) This is why I believe I should be locked up.
Hmmm I would say that to start with those are all too long. Initially you just need to get used to your cage by wearing it for a day or 2. Once you've done that I think 1 month is a good goal; the benefits of chastity only really kick in after 2 weeks. If you can do 1 month then take up @Governess Stephanie 's 90 day challenge.
@Kontraband I have had practice with chastity for a while now. This is just me trying to make official goals Do not worry I wouldn't try something I couldn't handle.
Well in that case @CharlesC lets jump straight in with @Governess Stephanie 's 90 day challenge with no release.
I love this lifestyle like anyone else, but have you considered going vanilla and having sex a lot? IMO you should turn to this only after experiencing that. You don't want to be on your deathbed realizing that you never enjoyed as much sex and self pleasure as you could have. Do that, and if you still prefer chastity come back. Nothing inherently wrong in masturbating several times a day. And if you're spending hours doing it, then there's a mid way between that and complete chastity, which is likely to backfire... You'll still probably waste time, except this time on chastity related material. If you don't like that you masturbate too much, the answer is not permanent chastity, it's to discipline yourself so that you spend your time more wisely.
@Vinny Hi Hunny Just replied to your other post then read this one and I am now confused. Before you met your wife self abuse 4 or more times a day. Meet you wife who sounds lovely and it takes you 3 weeks to get horny . Xx Wendy
Like others here, I think you should start small. I voted for three months which also allows for the 90 day challenge. It's always good to try before you buy.
Ok, maybe I took for granted you already had a device, it was broken in and there were no concerns about it's suitability for long term. So do us a favor. Give us more details. What device? Has it been broken in? What's your previous 100% continuous, out for no reason, lockdown? Then people will feel better informed to help you with the choice. If you already have a device broken in and known to be a viable candidate for long term use, then I stick with my vote of permanent. Otherwise, the others are quite right, break it in first. You'd think at my age I wouldn't still make snap decisions. Let us know.