I gave up chastity for a few medical reasons but now after two surgeries and some new medication, all is well. My wife noticed that I was not bugging her for sex or asking if I could massage her. Confessed that I was maturbating a lot due to anxiety over her health issues so she told me to lock up. What is different than the last 12 years of chastity is that no more long term orgasm denial. This time we are trying something new, for us at least. No more waiting months for an orgasm and being locked up during sex to prevent accidents. Now I am simply locked up until my wife wants to have sex. Whether I orgasm or not will depend on how attentive I am to massaging her feet and body plus doing things around the house and obeying any requests she makes of me. I also had to order a cleaning service so that my wife no longer has to do all the cleaning in the house. I tried to do it but it was not to her standards so I hired a girl who does a great job. I will miss being able to jerk off a few times a week while looking at porn. It was nice since I have not been able to do that for a very long time. Do not know how long this will last due to our age (both in our 70's), but my wife has never thought that a husband should masturbate. She never masturbated until I married her and encouraged it. Still she thinks it is a form of cheating since I am imagining other girls when I orgasm. So now I will cum when she wants me to but not every time we have sex if she just wants a quick orgasm without having to reciprocate. Better than going 6 months between orgasms or never having them at all.