My Chastity Cravings And Submissive Desires. Can you relate?

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    #1 MelbourneGayChastity, Sep 29, 2021
    I am new here.
    42 years old and gay.
    Been with my partner for 10 years.

    I wanted to join this forum to be able to connect with people (gay or straight) who have the same desires, who can actually understand so I don't feel like a weirdo. It helps normalise, somewhat.

    Prior to my partner I enjoyed sex with as many guys as I could.

    My cravings was to please them.

    I never wanted to cum.

    It has always been my desire for my body to be used by men to satisfy their own needs, without me masturbating, touching myself or getting off.

    Can anyone relate?

    Chastity is simply a natural extension of that.

    The idea of never having an orgasm, never enjoying myself sexually purely to please other men is something that drives me wild (more than a fantasy)... it feels like a purpose or a calling.

    Is that madness or does it make sense to you all?

    FYI: I have a chastity device. I don't really wear it. My partner and I often wank together as we talk about chastity so he is into it.

    However, I have never told him how deep this desire is.

    The idea of giving over my body to please other men is so significant to me and I feel like I need to find a release for it.

    Anyway, I would love to know whether, for you, that desire to serve is so strong (gay or straight)
     
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    #2 Nicole Smith, Sep 29, 2021
    I’m a weirdo, too! Glad to meet you.

    This is the Internet. We’re all weirdos.
     
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    #3 MelbourneGayChastity, Sep 29, 2021
    Ha this is true.

    I have just never met anyone with such a desire, a craving, that is more than a "fetish" if that makes sense (or at least it feels like it is!)
     
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    #4 Nicole Smith, Sep 29, 2021
    You should check out this website called fetlife. See how deep that rabbit hole goes. You might be disturbed. I was.

    That website is full of monsters. I had to leave.
     
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    #5 MelbourneGayChastity, Sep 29, 2021
    I have heard of it. I am worried that it may be too much for my brain right now lol
     
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    #6 Chaste J., Sep 29, 2021
    Much nicer here isn't it! Never been tempted by places like fetlife!
     
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    #7 Chaste J., Sep 29, 2021
    Must admit I definitely get much more pleasure from pleasing Mrs Chaste and being left frustrated than I do if she allows me to cum! Luckily she doesn't often allow it! In fact the time between any sort of relief for me is getting longer. She does have a bit of wickedness in her!
     
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    #8 MissyB, Sep 29, 2021
    The submissive context with chastity is the main reason it appeals to me. Denying yourself while pleasing or at least obeying someone else does something to me. If i could serve them as well, say as a domestic, it would be exactly what i want.
     
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    #9 LesterBallard, Sep 29, 2021
    the desire to submit is very strong among people with our range of kinks.
     
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    #10 Xileh, Sep 29, 2021
    Rats. I know you wanted to be kinky, but your cravings sound pretty normal. Sorry!
     
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    #11 MelbourneGayChastity, Sep 29, 2021
    No need to be judgemental about where people are at on their journey. I certainly wasn’t “trying to be kinky”. When someone has wrestled with these feelings for a long time on their own and then they venture into this community of like-minded people they don’t know what is “normal”.

    So, less judgement hey.
     
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    #12 Xileh, Sep 30, 2021
    Sorry for the misunderstanding, I was attempting to be humorous.

    Your cravings are common among those that are submissive. We tend to want to please our partners above most everything else.
     
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    #13 MelbourneGayChastity, Sep 30, 2021

    Thank you. I appreciate the response. It's easy to mis-interpret.
     
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    #14 Cageboi, Sep 30, 2021
    Yes, I can relate. The desire to be the one giving the pleasure and submitting to their will is what turns me on. Being locked up is really part of this for me now. I hope it goes well for you.
     
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    #15 madams-sissysub, Oct 1, 2021
    It all sounds perfectly reasonable to me! And your definitely in the right place to!
     
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