The lock up High

Love it as I write I'm very horny. I told my wife and she chuckled and rubbed my balls. She asked me if I wanted to watch her dress

 

I agree 1000% with you. The high is intoxicating. Everyone that is in chastity or uses it, experiences things differently, from punishment to reward. Everyone’s situation is correct if it works for them. I get the high, My key holder has discovered it’s better for me to put it on then her, the excitement is too much and I’ll have a ruined orgasm as she is fitting it on me.
Recently She is able to just sit and comment on it and how it looks and the feelings intensify.
Love every moment.
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I absolutely love being locked for my barefoot goddess. It makes me feel even more connected with her, and I feel so happy that she keeps me caged. The feeling of chastity is simply awesome, especially when she is teasing me with her beauty

 

My wife doesn’t like me wearing the cage around her as she prefers not to grab the cage and she’s worried I could hurt something. When she is at work or sleeping I will wear the cage. I notice there’s a change in my mood caged verse uncaged.

 

You got it man

 

Definitely on the edge and horny all of the time, made worse by my GF teasing me.

 

I got permission again to use my Aneros, to get a prostate orgasm, she's watching me now

 

So agree with the high thing…and definitely you get to the point where you have a total paradox of the mind, you really want to cum, but you don’t want that high/feeling to end.

For me it takes about 30 days to get to that point, then I don’t want to be allowed orgasm, then at about the 45 day mark, horniness finds a new gear and I’m dying to squirt…then around day 60 it subsides again and I don’t want the high to end.

That being said, my longest lock up without a full orgasm was 67 days, and right now we’re on day 62 of “at least” 90…so I have no idea how things will be in the next 30.

All I can say is when she lets me out for PIV, I’m dying to release the dam and flood her with cum, but at the same time there’s that voice telling me to hold back because you don’t want the high and the build up to end.

Over Thanksgiving, she allowed me out and inside her and was asking if I wanted to cum (duh of course I did), but in the end I stopped thrusting to hold back and told her I didn’t want to and I wanted to try and go the 90 days. An evil smile and a few “good boys” later and finishing her orally before locking up put me in a weird state of bliss and frustration like I haven’t felt in a while.

Chastity is a weird ride…we want something so much, the want it denied from us, all the while still desperately desiring it.

 

It gets “easier” and depends on your relationship/dynamic. Keyholder encouragement is huge…age helps me some being over 50…but I’m pretty horny more like a 30 y/o lol. At the same time it gets harder (pun intended)…eventually the bliss of pleasing my wife outweighs my need /want to cum

 

For me it's the intimacy that comes out of completely surrendering my sexuality to my kh, it's an expression of the trust and connection we share. When the lock goes on i feel loved.

 

this!

 

I'm pretty much there after 2 days

 

No High today. KH told me this morning to remove my cage. I did and then she locked it in a drawer, aaahhhh I am not feeling so good right now. Lost, confused little anxious. Definitely don’t like this feeling. I need her cage locked back on me.
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Ok, I'm not alone in this one. I've had this happen...her control, and she wanted to flex it and has told me to take it off for a day. It's such a backwards mind game. And she said she did it just because she can. Control is control.

 

I don’t know, she is not telling me, but I’m getting a little squirrelly. The cage to me is like her hand. She is locked down on her property. That is missing.
Maybe it’s torture to see and watch my reaction?????

 

Maybe a KH or Mistress can share their thoughts and even if they have done this to a sub, and why ???