The Neurochemistry of sex

Great piece of information!! Thanks!
Such scientific info will encourage many of us in our journey.
I read one similar article / information. It is available here
http://secretchastityhusband.blogsp...leasure-and-devotion.html?zx=76b56db61d02b491

 

Good morning
Had a quick read through the articles I am not sure about how good the science really is.
In the first article definite statement that low testosterone leads to anger.
From numerous trans sexual friends who through hrt have lost their testosterone .
The overwhelming effect is the exact opposite almost all use the word tranquility, real calm and relief .
So kinda makes me a bit sceptical about the rest.
However I will watch the thread with interest.
Xx wendy

 

I found it quite interesting. Thanks Snake

 

Mascara Snake Sorry, I regret saying Snake, But I love the name Mascara Snake. OMG How cool is that!

 

please Mistress Amanda, curtsy. There lots on there that i don't understand but i got lots and lots of cuddle hormones.

 

Thank you Ms - Your piece certainly enlightened me.
It's probably wrong to generalise and forgive me if I have misunderstood but I think it explains why many Women are happier kissing and cuddling etc whilst we know that Men are totally obsessed with our orgasms

 

Lol Kickball
You are so close to the truth !!
On your crude but very accurate assessment of the difference between men and the obviously superior female gender .
Myself and Jemima are definitely girls because we don't like
putting our boy bits in to anybody but
love to snog and cuddle.
(If any other ts tv cds would like to add their names please do xx )

Xx wendy

 

Mascara Snake....
Wonderful info on the various workings of hormones. As both Mistress Trish and I have had our boys go through HRT over the years, with her Toni being fully female with only one dangling exception(lol) I can attest to their effects.
Will pass this on to our gynochologist (that all four of us visit) and will report any differing feedback from her perspective. Thanks for posting this; should be interesting for Dommes and subs alike.
Mistress Suzan

 

Sunny.....
What an excellent read...breaks things down so that even subbies can understand the benefits of chastity. This is a must read for any and all who are started out, or contemplating trying chastity to enhance their relationships. It does make sense, and in our situation, explains dickie always wanting the desire to be dominated, and how chastity makes the process so much easier from a Domme point of view.
Mistress Suzan

 

Interesting article. In a way it makes me want to try longer-term chastity, but my KH likes to fuck a lot, so she hasn't kept me locked for more than 36 hours, and she has yet to try T&D. That amount of dopamine is something I've never experienced.

 

how very true and how very well written. It always good to read stuff from different sources. Good old plain english is good for me!! thank you

 

Thanks Mistress Suzan!
Such information has also encouraged my wife to keep me locked strictly, for the rest of our lives!

 

Wow! Thank you for this. I now have an entirely new set of goals.

 

I am on an antidepressant that increases all the chemicals that make you feel good by blocking their re-absorption. So when more are released in an orgasm I get even more horny since my brain is not reabsorbing dopamine and serotonin as it normally would. It is weird to feel even more horny after an orgasm. This is why my wife gives a few in a short period of time and then waits a week.

 

Thank you Mascara Snake, an article that's ' a must read ' for all Dommes and Subs

 

Rather scary. I had no idea.

 

Lol
I now have a vision of being able to tell which tops read CM because they have a cooking timer they keep resetting to 10 min or they have their laptop on with so spread sheet of what to do when.

Its sort of right to a point but any body who has been in sub space which is the correct term will know that its achievable in a lot less than 6 levels of 10 min with breaks and coffee and tops having a lie down.
In nice long cp sessions it may work ie 20 strokes then a minute or so breather but get that breather just too long and its start again or nearly so.
I have been taken to sub space very quickly at different times andit can be 10-15 min . I had a guy ok with a bebeautifully big cock who had me off the planet in a couple of minutes . Subs who are pegged may recognise how quickly this can happen.
I also played with a lady who in a couple of minutes found just how sensitive my nipples are. Now normally I hate smoky breath but I can still smell it years later. As she stood with her face about 2 inches from me her nails berried in my nipples and looking in my eyes . We just connected and I was on a real serious trip , in I would say 2 minutes then I lost track nothing else existed except those brown eyes and her fingers .
The come down with the guy with the big cock I did not ever cum as in spunk , because he was about the first to totally ignore my willy he never touched it. Yes he did target my balls because of the pain he could inflict and he was good at that.
The initial fucked senseless was may be 10 20 minutes yes just laying on the bed almost unable to move let alone walk.
After getting dressed and going home 2-3 hours easy.
So ymmv but watch your sub not the clock. Fisting can produce amazing very long zen like trance for both tops and subs . I did not believe when I first read about sessions lasting hours . However yes they do easily .
I agree that the bond between top and sub can be very special but yo probably need more than one session to get connected but not always.
I also never ever take alcohol or poppers or any other drug whatsoever nothing.
For me I need to be completely in touch with my body and mentally with the top.

Xx wendy

 

My fiend Trish must have known this....she could take 30 minutes or so to expand my bounds, an have our sexual sessions last forever. This all makes sense tome now, and i must ask her about this. Thanks so much for the info.
Suzan

 

Count me in as a snug and cuddler. I LOVE it!

 

Sub space can be built upon and sessions that expand your senses Oh yes. We can play for hours Sometimes like we did when away and the endorphins released make me feel as high as a kite and the marks that have accompanied it don't let me easily forget what has happened.

Our evening session before bed can last 10 minutes to 30 but I am still think all day the next day about it and wanting more. Hooked on the drug of sub (or baby)
Regards
slave baby Phil

 

Do you look at your" marks" with pride and get disappointed when they fade .
I know I do.
Xx wendy

 

Oh Yes, but the lack of body hair, the collar around my neck (Its been off now for 2 periods in over a year - Once when married, and when I went out as lucy) remind me who I am and what I want to be, and the slight nappy rash keeps me thinking and wanting - more then any chastity device I ever owned or used. Most subs in a device want a device that will keep them edged or interested, a comfortable device as everyone wants does not do that - it keeps you placid - and if you are not teased - uninterested. A sub that desires permanent chastity in a relationship is not thinking about his Mistress or Master (unless its what they want) they are thinking about their own state of mind and how they want to be [which is topping from the bottom?]. Sorry for the ramble but I think for mindsets its important! My mindset will be whatever Mistress Deborah wants it to be - I have free will to think - but she will fill my mind with the ideas and plans she has.
Regards
slave baby phil