Just curious to know how far other couples have progressed from chastity?, me and my wife have only been married a year and are both 25, we have only been interested in chastity for 2 months (my idea), but now she likes it more than me, simce this she has bought a strap on to use on me , and is thinking of endless punishments for me, then last week I noticed she had been searching for butt plugs, gags, and bondage equipment on the web, i don't want to think where this will lead.
Ha,it was my idea to for chasity.now she likes being in controle also punishments.something iv told myself (i started it).i hope others respond to this thread.i believe there have been others like this but some new material would be nice
you shud be grateful for the attention She is giving you. There arent all that many Women out there that wud do it. So you be thankful you got one.
I believe that's the way it's supposed to work, Chastehub85. Once a subhub confesses his desires to his dominant wife, it's up to her to determine how far it goes and in what direction it leads. It's not just your fantasy now so you'd best get used to the idea you no longer control the situation. In my case, it's been over twelve years since my subhub introduced me to the world of enforced male chastity and related fetishes. Trust me, the power I have gained over him since then never gets old. Best wishes to both of you!!!
Thanks for the encouragement everyone, you are right lady germaine it is not just my fantasy anymore, I never thought of it like that, she has told me how much she likes having me locked up, today's is the 1 week mark, but she says it will be longer she has given no hint when she will allow me release, she said she likes seeing me desperate and that why would she allow me release when I am been so obedient and it is working so well.
Mine has led to some exciting times, including being locked up while she used her new Kris Lords dildo in her strapon on me while her bull watched. Then had me lick her and her bull while she rode him and of course clean them both up afterwards.
For us it led to me being femmed and cuckolded. It's been so long I feel wrong if I have to dress in mens clothes, when I get aroused it's makes be want to be on the receiving end, and I still find myself repeatedly explaining that none of this was my idea...
Dear Chastehub85, You have not mentioned if you and your spouse are planning on having any children??? That makes a huge difference on your relationship. Raising children puts a big dent in your privacy and budget. As for the toys, enjoy! Trust your wife's female intuition. Enjoy the power exchange by letting her tie you to the bed. I have to beg my wife to tie me up. Woman on top is best position for her to get her climax, because she can set the pace and position her hips to maximize her cliteral stimulation. Please keep us posted(~
How far will it go? ...As she grows into it, especially with your encouragement and with a real connection between you, it will proceeed until first, you're begging for an occasional orgasm, then angry about not etting and perhaps masturbating, which I'm sure she'd hate, then chastity devices for logner and longer periods, perhaps until she announces that she prefers you do not cum at all! Eventually, I think it's disbelief that she could ant that and ask for it, then, it's an increasing acceptance because you love her so much and you find yourself so committed. ...Good luck!