The real feeling of Chastity

Just go for it Mobi you know you were able to wear it before all the trouble began and you will be able to wear it again. You have been spoilt a bit for a while that is all and your body needs to be retrained in the way it thinks. Go for gold.

 

Hi Mobi,

You were looking for a way to give her leverage over you. Here is a way she can blackmail you. http://lazydomme.blogspot.com/2011/06/erotic-blackmail.html.

I think this would be particularly effective since the incriminating evidence would be on the web and she would have complete control over it's potential release.

 

M
I still think you need a warm up period.
SFD

 

M


Wow, you'd better read this soon. This is very serious. http://wpuploads-2.kink-network.com/files/426/2011/12/1323465488/Owning-and-Training-a-Male-Slave.pdf

SFD

 

M
After reding part of this book, these are my thoughts.

Your wife told you the title of this book as a warning. You need to heed her warning and thoroughly read this book and talk with her about it while you are still a husband. Why do I say that she's giving you a warning? Because the book strongly advises to not reveal it's contents to your man. Yet it also provides a form for the man to commit himself for the rest of his life to be a slave under the control of the contents of the book, under threat of full humiliation disclosure posting to a gay website.

The author prescribes lifetime chastiy without ever having a release, for any reason, without providing any concern for prostate health. The author describes that the slave must forever be viewed not as a human with any needs, but as a dishwasher.

M, you really need to read this book.
SFD

 

Sillyfemdude it's just a book. Just because someone reads a book doesn't mean they agree with 100% of what it says.

Anyways mobico besides saying how jelly I am of you, I just wanted to ask that if you have time when writing about your experiences, try to be a little more descriptive if at all possible. Reading through previous posts, sometimes they were a little too vague or generalized and left me going crazy wondering what exactly happened. The details of events are always the most fascinating to read about.

Of course that's just my personal request. If you don't have time or you feel overburdened by the task of being more descriptive then it's no big deal, no worries.

 

M
I've been thinking about implications of the contents of this book on your future life. You're worried about your wife not having another life. I have just the opposite concern-- you won't have any vanilla friends at all, other than casual acquaintances from your job. Why? You'll either be working, staying at home naked, or at a D/s party. Your wife will be free to go clothed out or in, with anyone she pleases, vanilla or Dom (if she brings vanilla to your house you will have to be locked in the basement). But you will be a full-time naked slave or working on your job. Look what happened when your wife tried to mix vanilla and your slavery with her vanilla friend Therisa. There will be no more vanilla relationships for you other than your job. I guess the four weeks a year is all you could possibly have. But if you can't participate in any vanilla any other time, how will you maintain relationships to even get to go out for the four weeks? Will you still be allowed to stay connected on the Internet or phone calls? Ask your wife. I think you should also ask for one day per week of free time plus two weeks vacation for this first contract, and see how that works.

Go ahead, call me chicken little. I didn't write the book. I'm just telling you what it says. You really need to talk to your wife about this book (that means you have to read it first).
SFD

 

M
I need to post a correction about the book. After arriving at page 92, I found a chapter on prostate health which prescribes milking once or twice every month for prostate health. I'm sorry for this previous omission. I'm not sure why the prostate health warning wasn't mention in the chapter on permanent chastity.

Sonic
My main concern is that M engage his wife in discussions about her warning to him of the contents of this book. I never meant to imply that she has accepted everything "hook, line & sinker". But she's obviously very excited, so something must have resonated. M needs to proceed with his eyes wide open. Sonic, have you read the book? As the author states "it's not for beginners!" I found the contents up to page 92 to be extremely severe, not for the faint of heart.

SFD

 

M
Questions to discuss with your wife
1. Why did you share this book with me? It's a lot to consider and kind of overwhelming. It makes me feel = <insert your feelings>
2. Is this really a one year agreement or a life time Non-consensual commitment?
3. What happens after one year? If I don't want to stay in non-consensual slavery, will the exposure to my friends occur? Will we still have a marriage?
4. What happens during the four weeks of vacation days? Will we have to be isolated from each other? Can I take one day a week for a while or have to take a week at a time and go away?
5. Will I have to give up all vanilla friendships, like my buddies I went away with in June? How can I keep vanilla relationships when my slave status is discovered? Isn't that discovery inevitable for any vanilla acquaintance who spends any time with me?
6. How do we avoid repeating what happened with Therisa, the next time she visits?
7. Are you planning to ever let me orgasm or just milk me twice a month?
SFD

 

Shouldn't he come up with his own questions? You seem a bit overly invested in this thread at times to this outside observer.

deena

 

Sissy
I will be less obsessive after M has concluded giving his lifetime commitment to being a non-consenual slave. Of course he should ask his own questions. I'm just trying to coach.
SFD

 

Gulp! Stayed up until past 3am this morning reading the book. Oh my goodness!!! Now my whole understanding of true submission has changed. Even so, i'm probably more so inclined to serve as a submissive. In the end, it's still all about serving and pleasing your Owner.

 

I've read that book. Some of it is very good, some of it is boring. She is very severe that's for sure but alas, there is no such thing as non-consensual and the fact the Ingrid B placed such a focus on this irritated me the whole time I was reading the book . The act of submission is a gift and if a slave truly wanted out of a situation and did not want the revealing material released the domme/dom would have to oblige or they could face legal issues.

The exciting part is that M's wife is reading the book no doubt to make this as real as possible for him! M, looking forward to your continuing journey....best of luck!

 

M
I'm very happy to read this, "After I read owning a male slave, we did the test together;  (the one that talks about if she wants a non-consentual slave.  She got a 33..and it gave me a great view into her thinking..she's not into hurting me, or seeing me hurt; but she does enjoy getting orgasms and denying me.  And she gets pissed when I don't listen to her. Anyway, sores from last week are healed; and I'm putting it on tomorrow afternoon, and going to try for the weekend."

I'm sorry I was so obsessive. I'm very glad that you read the book and had the dialog, especially the testing.
SFD  

 

The days are ticking down, Mobico. Just wondered how the trial period was going. Are you having any second thoughts about going back in?

 

M
What's happening?
SFD

 

Mobi we are all ready! god its like waiting for the results of the general election all this anticipation will he or wont he? and if he does what will happen next. Ever thought of turning this into a tv series?
Good luck mate