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    Day 37 without an 0. Idc how long you have gone. This is by far my longest. Longest previous being 16 days....soooo....that being said


    AGGGH THIS SHIT SUUUCKS!!!

    and I can't say shit to my Wife cos She will only feel guilty and want to quit, possibly....I'm probably not that lucky. Thanks for reading my rant. That's what most of this will be. Sorry, not sorry
     
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    Good luck
     
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    Thank you sir!
     
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    I have gone 7 and 8 days without. I’m worried my KH may extend that this time to maybe 14 days or longer.
     
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    How ya feeling about that?
     
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    I feel good about it. I have made a couple jokes to her about her getting 10 Os to my one and she say that’s gonna take a while and I said I’m ok with that. She said OK. I just want to see how intense two weeks with out would be. 8 days is crazy.
     
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    Enjoy sir

    I will likely rue the day I ever showed this "game" to my Wife
     
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    I definitely feel that sometimes. I definitely didn’t expect to be locked 24/7 for the last 3 weeks
     
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    #9 denied_one, May 10, 2024
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    24/7, default state is locked for me as well.

    My Wife and i have been "playing" with chastity and tease and denial for 15 years
    Half heartedly mostly. There were likely a couple years in there that we didn't play at all. Anyway, yep with my longest being 16 days, despite being exposed to the life and dabbling with it for such a long time, I still had no real experience much past two weeks. And certainly never a whole month. Mostly because my Wife couldn't go more than 10 days without seeing me "have some relief"

    Suffice to say, She has gotten PASSED that and since the first of this year my "cum schedule" has been completely interrupted. Including elimination of all private "unsupervised" masturbation or ejaculation. She gave out orgasms sporadically kinda ,"here and there" kind of deal from January to the beginning of April.

    That's when She decided She loved the idea of the 3 months lock up recommended by the Happy Marriage Guide.

    I kinda pushed back a bit on doing 3 months without any unlocking whatsoever for the duration. Luckily, She compromised and said we could do the 3 months, but She will take me out for play or PIV when She wishes. With the twist that the month I've just completed doesn't "count towards the 3 months" as it was only "practice" to "show ourselves we can 'go for a long time without an O'"

    Now Ive done 5 weeks straight without and O will be 6 weeks on Tuesday next week. Oh yeah my Wife wants "us" to possibly do 150 days instead of the 120, cos that would take us right up to our wedding anniversary. Yeah... phukin greeeeat
     
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    My longest time without any kind of orgasm (not even a ruined one) was 6 full weeks and it literally brought me to tears… Today, I’m trying a different approach to keep this game fun and arousing for me.

    Instead of forbidding myself from all orgasms outright, I’m staying locked in my cock cage and when I really can’t go any longer without an orgasm, I just make myself cum in my cage and stay locked up.

    Though I do push myself to go as long as I possibly can, I don’t actually try to drive myself to desperation. I get a real high from always wanting to jerk off and not being able to, but when things get over-burdening and counterproductive, that’s where I draw the line and decide it’s time to cum… With the cage still on.

    That’s my deal. :cool:
     
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    That's a great system. That's very smart to keep things fun and productive. The way I'm just feeling about the whole thing right now is it's like quitting smoking cigarettes, which I did over 5 years ago, so I can make the comparison. I defy any one who has quit smoking or tried to quit smoking to tell me that shit was not difficult AF at least at points during craves and what not.

    So yeah I'm sort of mentally kicking and screaming and this is going to be my rant sound board. Cos hey it's all about what She wants in the end ...
     
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    I cam attest to that… I quit smoking 6 years ago because of an infection… Smoking didn’t cause it, but the doctors said if I hadn’t quite then healing would’ve been far more difficult for me.

    Also, I been sober for about 3 years now. One day, I realized not only was I drinking away entire paychecks every month, but it was interfering with my job, so I gave it up all at once.

    Being in chastity and always wanting to cum and not being able to gives me an even bigger high than booze or ciggs ever did, so it’s a fun dirty little reason to stay locked up.
     
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    You always have a great, positive attitude! Thank you! Yes most times it feels like it's a high but I "get in my feelings" about this thing a good few times a week, where we may end up finishing this month and getting through June and if I don't even out here "mood wise", we may have to reevaluate, since that will in essence be 6 months since we started playing much more seriously. I'm hoping for the best that maybe just posting here can be an outlet for me.
     
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    We all gotta do what we gotta do to make it through. Whatever it takes. :cool::+1::cool:
     
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    You got that right! We move at our own speed and do our own thing.
     
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    Thanks for sharing!
     
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    Thanks for the reply!
     
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    Longest without an O - 96 days.

    Currently on day 63 since my last.

    Wife has informed me that my current denial period will last at least 100 days. She may well tell me that she's extending it even further when day 100 is reached. I'll find out in due course.

    I am unlocked and allowed out fairly frequently, so it's not a target to remain fully locked down for at least 100 days. She's very into denying my orgasms. I get a few ruined Os from time to time. She's actually just told me that later today she will unlock me and I'll have to masturbate to the edge 3 times, and then ruin into a condom on the 4 go.

    I'll then have to consume whatever I deposit into the condom. I'm quite excited at the prospect.
     
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    Day 42..*sigh*...my previous "high" was 16

    A whole 6 weeks...a whole school grading period when I attended school, anyway.

    Still feels like smoking cessation to me :/
     
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    Ok I will admit, the smoking cessation type feeling of fog is lifting, and this is starting to feel very fun. Gonna keep on keeping on and see how it goes.
     
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    Keep going and everything will get easier with each session. I know from my own experience. :+1:
     
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    I remember when I went from 3 weeks locked up, straight to 6 full weeks without any kind of relief. No caged orgasm, no ruins, not even a milking... It literally moved me to tears, but I was determined to push through. Then soon after, I was in the shower doing my weekly cock cleaning and I was so horny that as soon as I took the cage off, I just sprung out like "BOING!" and I knew the slightest touch would push me over the edge, so I kinda went with it and gave myself a much-needed full orgasm. That was 2 and a half months ago.

    This being my longest session yet, I'm allowing myself a caged orgasm (not ruined) every other month and I'm not fighting spontaneous orgasms or accidental ruins anymore, as I now understand those are how my body pulls the pressure "release" valve... Pun totally intended. ;)

    As it stands, I have no reason to unlock myself and I can just keep going... So I shall! :strong::+1::strong:
     
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    Ok how difficult is self locking man? I have my Wife to encourage me...couldn't imagine doing this alone
     
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    It takes ALOT of self control. I have both my chastity keys in my Key Pod which still has 94 days left on the timer:
    IMG_4677.png

    That Key Pod is also locked in a safe on the other side of my residence. Also, I have a backup key I keep in the bathroom for hygiene purposes only.

    To help me fight off temptation, I made 3 rules:

    1) There’s no jerking off in the bathroom no matter what!
    2) The cage always goes back on and gets locked before leaving the bathroom!
    3) The key NEVER under any circumstances leaves the bathroom!

    That’s what it takes for me to self-lock. If not for those rules, I wouldn’t have made it as far as I did.
     
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    Those are perfect rules for what you want to do!
     
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