Question for Keyholders: Your strategy for "How long?"

1. No plan is needed. Everything is controlled by me. One day or one year, seriously, I don't plan that far ahead. And besides, I can change my mind.
2. Unknow with possible total denial should be engraved in the man's mind. If he asks, I can say anything. He knows there is nothing behind it. He would love a complete schedule, time limits, precise lockup durations, and a years calendar, blaa blaa blaa. This just ain't going to happen, dearie. I tried this once for his birthday month years ago. He became unruly when I delayed one release time and ended up beating his ass. Never again. He can ask all he wants. It will do him no good.

And that's the way I am.
Take it or leave it.
MistressL

 

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My first couple of years as a Cuckoldress I was all about the numbers. I loved setting chastity sentences to torment jamie/Tina. I loved making the sentences longer and longer, setting our own records, and beating records set by others.

Then I realized I was cheating myself. If jamie/Tina had nine months to go before being allowed an orgasm, I could not amuse myself with her orgasms. For example, through yoga and bondage I trained him to suck his own penis. It's immensely entertaining to have him demonstrate this to new friends, lovers and clients, but when he can't shoot his load into his mouth and show it to his audience before he swallows it, it's like watching a sharpshooter put on a display of his marksmanship by firing blanks, and saying "If that had been live ammunition I would have cut that playing card in two."

So these days his orgasms are completely at my whim. He has no idea if his next orgasm will be in an hour, a day, a month or a year. It simply depends on my mood at any moment. And yes, sometimes, not often, but sometimes, I am in a mood to allow him to have an orgasm simply to pleasure himself. More likely, his orgasms are part of a game, contest or training. Like he must come in 3 minutes; or he must masturbate using an artificial vagina without coming until I give him permission (he can hold back an orgasm for 20 to 30 minutes). Sometimes I never give him permission saying simply, "You may stop now, I'm satisfied."

And sometimes, such as after our anniversary, he is forced to come over and over until he is unable to even get an erection.

You get the idea: anything or nothing can happen at any time.

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That's for us to know Mel and you to find out

 

Please understand that when Mistress Angelique gives a chastity sentence, whether to me or the men online whose keys She symbolically holds, that is no guarantee that when the sentence is up you will be allowed an orgasm. Your chances of having an orgasm the day your sentence is up is the same as any other day of the year, regardless of how long it's been since you came: it is completely at Mistress' whim and amusement.

The only thing a Chastity sentence means is that there is absolutely no chance you will have an orgasm before that date. After that date you could wait another day, week, month, year, whatever the hell she feels like. It will vary from person to person, and a lot will depend on your attitude. The more you think you are entitled to an orgasm, or have earned one, the longer will be your wait. The slightest disrespect to Mistress and you might as well throw your hand lotion away.

And be prepared for the pendulum to swing in the other direction. She may suddenly demand that you cum 12 times in 24 hours. Your penis will ache and orgasm will be impossible. You'll beg to be put into chastity until Christmas!

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It's not about waiting and counting down the days is it, I've learned that from a frustrating January with pet.

Is should be about not being able or allowed to use your cock unless and until it becomes potentially useful to your Mistress, and when that happens, she doesn't want a half-cocked cock does she now!

Lx

 

I am about to complete my first long period of chastity, and when I say long yes its relative, at 3 months this is a very long time when prior it was at most 2 weeks. My wife is now advising that there will be no period specified and it will be only at her whim that I will be allowed to be unlocked but this may not necessarily mean an orgasm. Next Saturday is the day of my release and then the Friday after that I have been booked into have a PA performed so the device will be far more secure and not a ball trap device which for us is not practical. When the PA is healed, the real deal begins, although I will not be permitted to be unlocked without her presence during the healing time.
To be honest I am both excited and pensive as this is what I have really wanted and it is now coming true.

 

My partner prefers, I get to cum when she says so, when she wants me to etc. Sure we aren't talking about very long in between, we are fairly new, I don't think I'll be sucking my own dick anytime soon thats for sure! However she prefers to use me, abuse me and amuse herself with me as and when she wants.