Almost a year ago I needed some incentive to lose weight. While on the net, i came across a blog from a guy who used chastity as incentive. I ordered a 6000 from ebay. At first it was very uncomfortable, but kept trying it for longer times. Eventually got to some comfortable ring and spacer sizes. From there, went to a stainless steel device from ebay. Actually very high quality, but the hinged ring was an issue. During all this experimenting, I lost about 30 pounds. Worked out at the gym even harder. All because I would only get released as the weight came off, the body was looking better and better. The wife is loving this, not only am I more attentive (because I'm always horney), but she has a muscular man at her beck and call. In the beginning she was unsure about how to handle this, or how to handle me. Now, with all of these devices I would eventually figure out a way to get out, especially when I would shrink down to my smallest size. She always knew because I would be less attentive and not as "eager to please". Well, friday, my steelheart arrived. She had me change into the steelheart right away. I have a pa, so we ordered it with that option. This is no longer experimental, this is serious. I can not get out of this thing without the key. It is already extremely frustrating. I cannot see or touch myself. Now that she has absolute total control, she made me spend last nite in the sleepsack, because she didn't like my attitude last tuesday. I had little choice...either an additional month or nite in the sleepsack. Before, I would have chosen the extra month knowing that i could get out. The extra month meant nothing, but not now. She also has said many times, that she likes me this way and even after I reach my goal weight, the device stays on. Plan is we have a monthy weigh in. If I'm at my proper weight, I get released for a while. If not, then I don't get out and have to wait till the next month to have a chance to get out again. About the steelheart, it is a work of art. No discomfort. I probably was able to figure out proper sizing because of using the previous devices. My wife finds it extremely sexy.