For the past 2 or 3 years my sex life has consisted of masturbation, masturbation and more masturbation, the frequency usually 3 or 4 times or more a week, a lifetime pattern since puberty. Most of the time I utilize an ever-growing collection of material that I have downloaded from the internet. 95% of the time I’ll enjoy the added stimulation of something inserted in my ass, my favorite has been a butt pacifier, I thread a cord through the handle and tug and pull on it with one hand while I stroking my cock with the other. With this I can enjoy extended edging sessions while watching favorite fetish porn movies! I’m in my late 50’s, in good health and have always had a high sex drive and strong libido. I’ve been married several times and have had many interesting sexual encounters and experiences though the years. I’m currently single with no significant other, thus the frequent masturbation, not to mention I’m addicted to MORE, if something feels good I want more of it. Also as with the marriages and relationships it seems I’ve always looked for a little more, better or different, which brings me to my introduction to you now… Someday perhaps I’ll find a soul mate, but for several months I’ve been fantasizing a pursuit of going to the edge with something new, taboo and completely outside of the box, far beyond anything I’ve ever experienced. I’ve had tantalizing thoughts of something that will push my own personal limits and go right to the edge of desire with lust for pleasure! I’m heterosexual and I’ve been the dominant partner in D/s relationships over the last 20 years. Every girlfriend I’ve had during this time I have introduced to spanking. I’ve played publicly at lifestyle gatherings and private parties. My philosophy is … If it feels good do it, if it fucks with your mind leave it alone! Although I’m open minded, I ask myself, could I turn over power to another… Honesty… I think I could… can… will. As a point of honor the Knight tries to please the Queen, she keeping him busy with duties! The reward… being unlocked! I live in a large metropolitan area and believe I could find someone within the local bdsm lifestyle community who would serve as at the very least a surrogate chastity key holder. I’m also entertaining finding a kinky couple to participate and release me every couple of weeks or so for the very minimum of being touched by either of them or by myself or perhaps being allowed or demanded by them to partake in the more bizarre and kinky sexual activities of their choosing! For the past year I've been having bisexual fantasies that I believe I will be forced to act upon eventually with the right couple in the right situation, after being locked up for a time. Throw in some added humiliation and the plot thickens! I believe I can become willing to go to almost any length to achieve sexual release! I’ll probably become a very willing and active participant with very little prodding, to do most anything for even the slightest reward of pleasure in the context of sane & consensual. About 3 years ago a previous girlfriend fucked my ass with a strap-on (feeldoe). Each time she used the strap-on combined with jacking off gave the most intense orgasms I’ve ever experienced. There is no question! I know I like it in the ass. I like my prostate stimulated and have read about milking for a few years, have downloaded lots of milking and strap-on movies and find the subject totally charges me with sexual energy. I’m confident that whatever I’m looking for, I’ll find in the way of Key Holder. In the meantime, I’ll size and fit for a device and begin wearing it. Perhaps ultimately I’ll find the dynamics in an ongoing relationship with my significant other as Key Holder. I’m very open to exploring this to the max as I consider and contemplate the symbolism and actuality of surrendering the key! I’ll continue with my story… (Everybody has one!) Several weeks ago I purchased a medical TENS/EMS Unit with a few bells and whistles to play with as a sexual device. The Tens Unit uses very low electrical current. A change in conductivity affects the sensations produced. The theory being that currents produced at just the right rate and volume will fool the nervous system into believing that you are being fucked. After all, isn’t it the brain is what makes you come? When the nervous system sends the fuck message, the brain triggers the orgasm and rings your bell: fooling your nervous system generates all the sensations. It seems the key is to practice and more practice to find the setting that works for you. It feels so good that no one seems to mind the work. Websites dedicated to e-stimming or e-stim as it’s called, report case after case of HFO (Hands Free Orgasm). There are those that report orgasms 19 out of 20 times when using the Tens Unit. Also note there are Tens Units especially designed for sex, which simulate the feeling of thrusting & stroking for example. While playing with my new Tens Unit, I’ve enjoyed some of the most wonderful sensations imaginable! I even bought a “penis plug with glans ring”, it inserts 1-½ inches inside the urethra, stays in place with narrow glans ring slipping behind the head of my circumcised cock; the body of the inserted part is a hollow tube, keeps the urethral sphincter open, when stimulated in any way pre-cum effortlessly and continually drools from the tip of the penis. While I grimaced at the first thought of sticking something in my urethra, I followed the sterilization and lube procedure and found it really easy to insert. The pleasure produced is exquisite when I place an alligator clip on it and connected it to the Tens Unit with maybe another electrode inserted in my ass to stimulate my prostate. While dialing up the power I can focus the stimulation to either the head of my cock or prostate or both. A session may last an hour or two; I have enjoyed a three-hour session! I note the time I begin and as the experience is so delicious… time just floats by. I bought and enjoy a variety of every electrode offered on websites specializing and devoted to electro sex. After my Tens Unit arrived in the mail I found myself playing with it nearly every evening for about 3 weeks. While not experiencing the elusive sought after “Hands Free Orgasm” it was suggested that I refrain from masturbating for a time, then give it another try! I started thinking about Tease & Denial, as I’m one of those who does have sexual thoughts several times a day, the kinkier the better! Right! My journey went from points of interest in Tease & Denial to Chastity… I went with the suggestion to stop my almost daily practice of masturbating and I’m happy to announce that today is Day 15 with no orgasm, my last one being June 30[sup]th[/sup]. This is where I happened on Male Chastity websites while reading search results on “Tease & Denial”. I find this website to contain a treasure trove of information. I’ve been reading for several days now and have decided on a Mature Metal Steel Chastity Device, perhaps the Queens Keep, looks very interesting for long term lock up! I find myself being immersed into the concept of being locked and denied orgasms and to the desire to enjoy what you describe as the most intense orgasms ever when released and allowed! The more I’ve read and researched the more turned on with chastity I become. I haven’t set a date yet, but within the next few days I plan an e-stimming session with the Tens Unit. I’ll use the "Penis Plug with Glans Ring" coupled with perhaps a steel anal electrode. I will turn on the juice as I view some extraordinarily erotic porn. I will give myself a time limit of perhaps an hour and see what happens. If I have a Hands Free Orgasm, then excellent, if not… at the end of the hour, I’ll stop the machine! I’ll be frustrated, however I’ll continue my self-imposed abstinence and continue my evening tease and denial sessions. Some nights I’ll wear the Penis Plug for chastity as you are not going to stroke your cock in the usual manner with a piece of steel inside of your urethra. I did sleep in it one night and I may be able to wear it inside the chastity device I plan to purchase! Let me also add, that I have forbidden myself from touching my penis and am touching as little as possible, though sometimes I have cheated and stroked it a little as a tease. I’m really focusing on anal stimulation as my ONLY pleasure… so far that has gotten me to my 15[sup]th[/sup] day of self-denial. My balls do feel fuller and yes, I’m full of desire… but I am not acting on it by self-will, self-discipline. Why am I proud of that? I don’t know! But I am! I’ll admit that my desire for an orgasm is growing daily, sexual thoughts are more frequent, fueled by the stimulation by reading this website and others, combined with daily prolonged anal play and self-teasing. I’m trying to connect the dots. Can I achieve adequate motivation through self-teasing and prostate stimulation in self-denial to practice chastity as a self-locker? The last 15 days have been experimental for just that purpose as I have been daily practicing at stimulating my prostate. I have the "Ass Lock Cock Ring" that I use as a tool of arousal. The “Ass Lock Cock Ring” is supplied with 4 Anal Balls 25mm 30mm 35mm and 40mm, for an extra intense feeling I purchased 2 larger and heavier balls, 45mm and 50mm. To give you an idea of the size range, the largest has a diameter of 2 inches and weighs over 18 ounces, the smallest about 1 inch diameter, less than 4 ounces. I have used these to stretch my anus to accommodate an 8-inch lifelike dildo, which I have recently been able to insert with ease. Women who advertise in Personal Ads are always looking for cocks with 8-inches, so that’s what I got! They want to be satisfied! I want to be satisfied! LOL My first attempt inserting the dildo, I set a time of 30 minutes to keep inserted, this turned into an hour of sitting and squirming on it while looking at some of my favorite porn, while not touching or stroking my cock but still observing and trying to get the most enjoyment as possible through my ass, just as if I were in chastity. I’m actually practicing mindful meditation technique to enjoy moment by moment every heightened sensation, savoring each moment I’m experiencing! I have found that bigger is not necessarily better, I have discovered that the 35 mm Ass Lock ball anatomically produces the best prostate stimulus for me. I’ll pull the cock ring at the base of my cock, which rolls the stainless steel inserted ball over the prostate; I can increase or decrease the pressure on the p-spot. I’m certain I’ve found that special spot and know this particular inserted ball will become a favorite pleasurable milking tool as I’m already producing a little fluid as I continue to practice my new found pleasure. With all I’ve described above, I have actually had moments that I’ve verbally said out loud “I can’t believe how good this feels!” (Tens unit, the ass lock, the penis plug, dildo and more) I’ve worn the Ass Lock from a few hours to all day even up to 18 hours on one occasion with a short bathroom break. I’ve worn it to the library, church, shopping, even an outdoor music festival. While the crowd was swaying to the jazz music, I had my own rocking going on right in my ass with my prostate being teased with my every movement. I was moving with the ebb and flow of the rhythm too! When home, every couple of hours I’ll add a couple of drops of lube when necessary, it will become slightly uncomfortable, and you just know you need a little lube. When home I’ll detour though a room with a chair that is at the right height to hover over and rub the rod between cock and anus, momentarily simulating being teased and ass fucked. BTW I’m wearing it now with the 45 mm now, that’s about 1-¾ diameter and about 13 oz. Each move in my chair is felt… It never lets you forget it is there. When walking around it feels like your ass is being fingered and licked. I know you have all seen sex toys packaged promising this or that, but were a little short in delivery… Well the Ass Lock Cock Ring is definitely worth looking at. Could probably be worn in chastity… however needs to be removed when nature calls. When walking around it is constantly moving wonderfully against the prostate. I’ve had mine about 8 weeks and gradually every week moved up a size ball until I inserted the largest. I have jacked off with it on and each stroke, marvelously anally strokes you… Again I’m verbally speaking the words… “I can’t believe how good this feels!” I’ve had several mornings when enjoying my morning coffee, that I’ve begun yearning to get up and go to the bedroom to insert the Ass Lock. I felt I was missing something… I was craving to feel the cold steel ball enter me… I felt empty without it… I could not believe I was having these thoughts… my first morning thoughts… It was really an overpowering urge… and on each occasion, straightway… I satisfied my yearning by getting exactly what I craved… I soon begin the day wearing the Ass Lock and enjoy the pleasure in my Ass! I missed that overnight and subconsciously looked for it first thing in the morning! Also of note, during my day while out and about, It’s interesting to engage others in conversation while movement gives you the most wonderfully teasing sensations anally and you smile at the person, but they don’t know why? You may experience this while wearing your chastity devices! It’s a lot of fun… But don’t leave home without your lube! I learned that on a long afternoon walk. LOL Now back to my reconditioning and learning to receive anal pleasure, I’m using an anal electrode with the Tens Unit. When used anally, the Tens Unit actually causes the sphincter muscle to contract and relax causing the plug to actually move! This sensation is particularly erotic since the plug can be connected to the Tens Unit with one terminal up the ass and the other on the penis or balls. Each pulse also stimulates the prostate. How good this feels absolutely blows my mind, It feels so fucking good! I used this anal only e-stimming on day 4 of denial and at day 12. I used a 3-inch uni-polar anal probe that I made; it has a flanged base, a plastic tube, a larger round brass drawer pull or knob that conducts the electric charge. This is a uni-polar setup using another electrode, this time a base ring around cock and balls. My goal here is to enjoy ONLY an anal e-stim session lasting a couple of hours. I refrain from touching my cock by holding a saucer under it with both hands. I did produce a few dribbles of pre-cum, which I am beginning to taste…(see, I have been doing my reading, sissies) For those of you who have not tried e-stimming… it is extremely stimulating, relaxing and enjoyable, time passes quickly… It feels so good as you slowly increase the power. I don’t think any harm can come if done with moderation. I don’t think, my life will become unmanageable LOL however I think it could become addictive! LOL As I haven’t had an orgasm yet… it keeps me wanting more… I felt like I was right on the verge of orgasm a couple of times… but dialed back the power before it was reached… I can’t explain why, unless due to edging while masturbating all these years…Pavlov definitely needs to retrain this dog! The first few weeks I kept pulling the tens unit out and trying different combination of electrodes and enjoying the hell out it. I can set it on a pulse mode, as I turn the power up, using the self-made anal electrode, my anal sphincter will contract with each pulse. With each involuntary contraction I’m pulling the electrode into my ass. My sphincter is grabbing it inside of me. I reached my hand down there and felt it involuntarily fucking in and out of my ass. I’m sitting there looking at my computer screen, hands holding a plate under my penis while being fucked in the ass… I can’t believe it! The knob is right on my prostate… Oh so pleasurable.. Compares to nothing else I’ve ever felt before… and this is just a medical tens unit. I will probably buy one of the Cadillac Made For Sex Models in the near future. I invite you to google e-stimming… it’s definitely worth taking a look at. Would be an unbelievable torture or tease device while locked up… with another not only holding your key but the control box to what’s in your ass and on the tip of your penis or sissy clit! So that’s where I’m at today… My daily anal play consists of one or all of the following: either or 1.) an anal e-stim session, 2.) wearing the Ass Lock, or 3.) using my large dildo. I think this a good start that I can build on. I did have visitors a couple of nights and didn’t get to play… but it was not out of mind. I’m denying myself orgasm until I hook up to the tens unit for electro play… Objective is HFO “hands free orgasm”… I will have a session with the tens machine within the next few days… If no orgasm… I will continue my denial… for another couple of weeks while daily conditioning myself to enjoy the pure anal pleasure that I am discovering until I can finally self milk to my own frustration or satisfaction. Then I’ll try HFO “Hands Free Orgasm” again at 30 days… I may ask for your recommendation at that point… and I’ll be self locked soon after… My long-term mission is to find a long term kinky, taboo and on the edge experience which is likely to include chastity with a select KH. So as you can see I am totally immersing myself in the experience, buying a custom fitted stainless steel device. The next question lies in my willingness to submit to a key holder. I have the desire… my mind is not completely wrapping around it yet… but I’m working on it daily… I’ve always thought that one is either Dominant or submissive… I have privately submitted to play a couple of times, play, being spanked until the dominant women had her way with me and continued until she was entirely exhausted, another time being restrained and having a strap-on used on me. I did enjoy the endorphin rush of subspace that lasted into the next day with both experiences. But to be locked and not even being allowed to mention release or ask for pleasure… is tantalizingly erotic and delicious as a theory… I can’t imagine living it… You who do… two thumbs up! Thank you for this wonderful website… will be a few weeks before I have my device.. I’ve discovered that I am a grower… a little over 5” when erect.. but shrinks to nothing when relaxed. I’ve fashioned 3 cardboard cylinder tubes 1-¼, 1-½ & 1-¾ inches in length. I placed these on my cock while relaxing and am observing that 1-¾ is probably the length I need with a 1-½ diameter. I’m going with custom steel and begin with what has been described as the ultimate trapped balls device. As a grower, the short cb6000s will be too small, when relaxed I want to be at or near tip with no room to grow. If you are a grower does the small perfect fitting steel prevent a raging hard-on from every beginning? I’m curious about this and also what I’ve read about any permanent cock length shrinkage… I want to keep my 5 inches! LOL How often are you allowed out for a stretch? Will being let out for a stretch every 2 or 3 weeks for a stretch be adequate for a healthy cock? Not necessarily always happy, but healthy! As a newbie, I cannot wait to get my cock in my very own device and turn the key… and get the party started! I welcome all comments from practitioners whether Dominant, submissive or sissy or just the guy who likes to be locked up! I value your combined experiences and the honesty you share with each other on this site. realdog2 … and will update my progress here soon with either YES! HFO or I had to WAIT 2 more weeks! I attached pics of Ass Lock Cock Ring, Penis Plug with Glans Ring and ME e-stimming with another ass lock which only has a small ball. I've made an electrode out if it by wrapping in electrical tape with the exception of the ball, which is the stimulus. Notice the 2" round sticky tens pad on perineum. I have 4 points of contact with penis, base of penis and the ass trodes! Hopefully my next pics will include wearing my very own chastity device!
UPDATE: After 21 days of self imposed celibacy, I hooked up the Tens Unit to the end of my penis using the 1 ½ inch insertable penis plug and glans ring as an electrode combined with a conductive rubber ring on the cock and balls as the other. I set a time limit of one hour for the session. I have remained aroused for the past 3 weeks, used a lot of anal and prostate stimulation and did my best to limit touching my penis. As I began my session tonight, I could not believe how sensitive my cock had become to even the lowest setting of the unit ( I had not used it on my penis in 3 weeks, however I did use it anally on day 4 and 12). Tonight the penis sensations were really incredible. I had pre-selected a porn movie to watch that I felt would really be a turn on. It seems that even the most vanilla flavors while e-stimming are a huge turn on. As the hour went by I slowly dialed the juice up and enjoyed the treat after no masturbation for 3 weeks. At exactly an hour of elapsed time and not experiencing the Hands Free Orgasm I have been seeking, I hit the “OFF” button on the Tens Unit, removed the wires and penis plug immediately, went and got some lube and my 8 inch dildo and rode it while I stroked to an amazing orgasm. I felt I owed it to myself to orgasm really hard, and it came within 6 or 7 minutes, I rode the dildo on a kitchen stool and the amount of cum produced was surprising. It was a thick milk and a lot of it. I forced myself to lick a small puddle, still curious about the taste. I’m still undecided about that! I thought the 3 weeks would be a healthy space of time to release my cum. I feel good about it…The immediate short term plan now is to work towards another 3 weeks of only Tease & Denial and repeat tonights performance... the orgasm was intense and most gratifying!
Wow! What a detailed description and great info on the Tens unit. Look forward to more. I am just a straight forward occasionally locked up husband who gets no pleasure from the times Hotwife has inserted an inflatable vibe in me.
UPDATE: What I’m enjoying the most about posting on this forum is that what I'm writing is totally true and I’m able to post it anonymously! Being able to put my story in a format where others can read ads to the overall fun of what I’m experiencing! Now this is so beautiful… this is my reality… ironically it reminds me of Steve Buscemi as Garland Greene in the movie “Con Air” singing “He’s Got The Whole World In His Hands, ...” while the plane is on an out of control spiral roller coaster ride to apocalypse now… hahahaha Reminder clip: http://www.youtube.c...feature=related Well, contrary to what the reader may think from reading my posts, I’m not totally out of control, although this is exactly how I felt last night. It had been exactly one week since my last orgasm and I truly intended to wait 2 or maybe 3 weeks from the last. Guess what! The wait didn’t happen, but a huge orgasm did! It was totally unexpected! I’ve been having frequent erotic thoughts, I was checking out a website http://www.warpmymind.com and joined for 1 month ($9.95) to be able to access the erotic hypnosis files available to members. There is really something for just about anyone’s sexual preference and however kinky you like it. I downloaded a huge volume of files for later use while choosing a few to concentrate on for now! One that I find especially arousing utilizes several trigger phrases that when spoken by another or thought to yourself you will immediately be filled with incredible arousal. This one particular file is a seductively persuasive female voice. It is as if you can fill her presence, her breath, with each word spoken. One file is named Chastity to Wife and encourages the constant wear of a male chastity device, addiction to eating your wife's pussy, and generally being of service to her. It is specific in reference to a wife, but none the less, as I'm single, I find this unbelievably erotic. Another similar file is Chastity Daily Refresher This is a short version of a chastity training session It's about 12 minutes long and is a great session to listen to on a daily basis. The language is specific for married men and helps remind you of your place in regard to sex, cleaning the house, staying in shape, and just in general to seek opportunities to be of service to your wife. This recording is designed for someone who has made a pledge of chastity and reinforces its permanence. See a doctor before listening to this recording to see if chastity is right for you. One trigger is whenever she says the words “horny cock” you will immediately feel an incredible arousal. She uses these words repeatedly during the 33 mins long mp3 file. And she goes on to describe some intensely erotic scenes while you continue to listen. I’ve listened to this one and a few others the last 3 days, so naturally yesterday morning the first thought of the day is “I’m a horny cock”. And YES! I certainly am! Also I'll mention for those interested there are many, many hypnotic sissy transformation and related files. Most are all hot to me! I also want to note that I had been edging each night, slowly stroking my cock, stopping and starting, using an anal toy, then teasing my cock some more! There were more than a few times that I had to stop to prevent orgasm. I would just suddenly slap my hands to my side and tell myself to stop. This worked until last night when unexpectedly, I finally totally unintentionally went over the edge… Yes, I was completely surprised, while the cum just flowed from my cock rather than spurting hard. I backed off with my hand giving myself what is termed “ruined orgasm”. I could have made it better if had I continued the stroke, but I didn't So I sort of interrupted the final part of the orgasm…spoiling what I could have made much much better! It was good… but I sort of punished my cock by not completing to one of my best orgasms… like the one I had after the 3 weeks of abstinence I described in my earlier post. You can only imagine how horny I;d become tickling the g-spot of my mind while using a lot of p-spot massage! I was however somewhat disappointed in myself, cumming like that. I am always so very much in control, but last night I lost it. I will now have to start the clock over, again with a goal of a 2 or 3 week period of denial. If I can make it 2 weeks, I can make it 3. As I post this, it has been 24 hours since the orgasm and have noticed nothing lacking in my libido, I am still a “horny cock”! (after listening to the file twice today!) Today I finally placed my order for the custom made Stainless Steel Chastity Device. I’ve been observing and taking measurements of my cock for a few weeks. These custom made devices are rather expensive, so you want it to fit as perfectly as possible as I become accustom to wearing it, I’ll be keeping it on for weeks at a time. When that happens, there will be no orgasms until it is removed…. Actually the custom fit prevents erections! Although it does become a part of you, it also is a constant reminder that you are always horny and will be extremely horny until sometime being freed to play! In the blueprint for this kink.. I like that the wearer is not allowed to ask to be released, if he does, he is denied! It's all very erotic to me. In recent weeks this whole chastity concept has become something that I read about, fantasized about, and now I’ve ordered one. I received an email tonight from the manufacturer Mature Metal with news that delivery of my "Jailbird" will be in 3 or 4 weeks! In the Erotic Hypnotic Files that I downloaded, 3 or 4 are totally into the chastity experience. Listening to these and others are so fucking hot. So relaxing and stimulating to listen to and should keep my mind occupied until my device arrives. The next step will be to find a trust worthy Key Holder. Initially I think I will seek out a kinky couple in the area that would like to tease and deny me. I’m thinking I will become so fucking horny that upon finally having my penis released, I’ll go to almost any length to please them… they may be able to bend my consensual limits. Which as you remember is one of my long term goals, to delve into the kinkier side of what I have previously considered taboo! This will happen! If we build it they will come! Right! I'm gonna join the "Mile High Club", or at the very least the really high club! hahaha No, I swear, I'm not smoking anything! Note: The girls will love this... another trigger phrase from the chastity hypnosis mp3 file is "Eat my pussy"! When I hear that guess what I'm supposed to do? hahahaha I hope you like … any comments will encourage me to more kinky ideas and actions I’m sure or it! Cheers! realdog2
Nice story! I too share the same exact experience. Although I have a 3.5" curved penis plug inside my waistband steel chastity belt tube, with a 6" steel buttplug locked to my belt's metal crotch plate. As you mentioned, any muscle contraction on the locked butt plug will cause stroking motions on the penis plug -- and deepening on the intensity, I may either get hard inside the steel penis tube or reach a dry orgasm. I also found that when waking, running or in-skating, the base plate of the penis plug, oftentimes rubs (or knocks) against the walls of the steel penis tube, that may cause mild arousal.
I'm glad you enjoyed reading my introduction latex_catsuit_doll I find the anal stimulation unbelievably pleasurable... I enjoyed driving my car in local traffic while wearing the "ass lock cock ring" with every bump in the road, I get a little bump in the anus! WOW! Your device sounds fun too! My new "jailbird" chastity device arrived one week ago... and I'm working on becoming accustomed to wearing comfortably (it's my first device). I will in the near future attempt using the "ass lock" locked and loaded (hahaha) inserted behind my chastity device... wearing both should be pleasurable... and I'll be sure to begin the adventure with a little local road trip out shopping or ? any suggestions!... wear to a fetish event? SMILE!!! realdog2