We are doing Locktober this year for the first time and the longest lock up without relief is ten days. Wife would like to know if milking an are “allowed”/recommended or not during Locktober.
No for me. Locktober is no releases and no unlocking. I only one getting any sort of pleasure is Her.
Surely you can set your own rules! But I'm sure the Mansion consensus will be no unlocking, no milking... and whatever else your kh desires....
i agree with Elfman that prostate milking is ok, but would add that it should be done by, or in the presence or, as expressly ordered by, your KH. Cumming in your cage would be ok under the same conditions and provided it is ruined. i also agree that unlocked full orgasms are out. All of that being said, when Goddess clicks that lock i lose all rights and say (we negotiated that) so it is really up to Her.
Zero orgasms!!!.... OK, you do you, what business is it of anyone else. But you did ask. However, why not commit to the whole month. If you've only done 10 days, challenge yourself. You can do it! We believe in you!
Honestly, I think that’s something you should decide between yourselves. The most important factor is that you both enjoy the month. Personally, I’d agree that you’re fully locked for the duration (not even out for cleaning of the cage allows) but if you really, really need it you can have a milking… you won’t need it. After a couple of weeks you’ll be in a state of horny bliss hoping you’ve experienced your last ever orgasm.
During the year, my wife will milk me every 2 weeks if are doing long term lockup exceeding 1 month. The only time she does not observe this rule is during Locktober when no release or milking are performed for the month. Now if we observe No Nut November, it becomes 2 months without any relief.
It’s whatever the keyholder decides. Last year for our first Locktober my wife wanted me caged the entire month. About 2/3rds of the way through she wanted me inside her so I was unlocked me for a bit (no orgasm for me of course). To even things out she didn’t touch my penis at all while it was uncaged nor was I allowed to but she said wasn’t going to deny herself something she really wanted since she’s not the one in chastity. She makes the rules, she can change them. Moral of the story: let your wife make the rules.
My wife wants to do the Locktober month. The belt stays on for the whole month at least with one exception. Sunday 9th oktober for the marathon in Eindhoven (NL) Just before the belt comes off and when we are back in the house the belt goes right on. In exchange for the day off my locktober will be extended with one week in November. The belt itself is rigid and the rear cable string is tight, damn tight. So no orgasm's for this man. No pegging, no prostate milking, no PIV, nothing. The wife wants at least 2 orgasm's every week, so it's gonna be a busy month.....
I've looked at Locktober simply as staying locked daily for the entire month (with variations): Semantically, it's that, in a vacuum. If single, it could mean you can ejaculate or have prostate orgasms all you want so long as the cage remains on at all times save for cleaning (or sleeping if caged sleeping isn't feasible). Or if you work a job where cage wear is unsafe, etc. it'd mean being locked at every other moment possible daily. NOvember, however... That's a different matter! I read it as no orgasms of any kind, not even milking/prostate release. But I can see variations on that too such as: - No ejaculations but kh may enjoy milking/pegging - No orgasms of any kind AND no genital stimulation...
We are undertaking Locktober this year and that means no cumming, ruined or milking and no out of cage (except cleaning) for the month. For us it is all about control and submitting. And seeing as it will be the longest my KH has had me locked for, I can't wait for November.
Thanks everyone for good advice and encouragement. I shall see what she decides but I’m both excited and a little nervous.
Thanks for all input. I got the answer from my wife and her friend, nothing after 10/1 until after Halloween.
This year KH decided to unlock me regularly. Will do “teased and denied”. No cuming at all. Every drop I might produce will add 5 additional days to my locktober. On october 31, teasing will stop and all additional days will be added. Looks like I am caged until 2024.
Not sure what will happen to me. I missed the chance to get milked last week, not regarding, that Locktober would start yesterday. I denied her offer to milk me. She said that I should be drained in near time yesterday , when we drove home from a camping trip. Now we have the problem having an orgasm? Only getting milked by her wamd or by prostate play? Wait another month? We will see, what she decides. Sure is that Locktober is saint. Having an unlocked release is not allowed.
Ultimately it is up to your Keyholder and what you to have agreed upon. In my opinion with any kink(or life in general) you cannot get pigeonholed and say "October must do what everyone says it is about" Do what works for you two and is fun for you two and not worry about what the rest of us do or say.