Do you or have you ever experienced dry orgasms? Here's an article that describes how to orgasm without ejaculation. Let us know if you've tried these and other techniques and what your success rate was with them.
I’ve tried numerous times for various “alternate orgasms”. No luck except ONE time I seemed to have caught lightning in a bottle and had an “anal orgasm”. It felt like waves of pleasure running over my entire body. And it did not have the “let down” of a standard penile orgasm. Thus I still feels supports a chaste lifestyle.
I’m with @Lazlo Toth on this one. Only experienced through anal. It was pretty intense and I could barely retain my posture whilst she continued pegging. Sadly, or not, (depends how you look at it) when she’s done this since then it hasn’t been as dry. Not dry at all. It’s pretty incredible…. I think it’s one of my favourite ways to cum. Sorry this was about dry orgasms, not anal pleasure. I’ll breathe and control my pelvic floor.
If I decide that I want to fellate husband, he;s getting fellatio. Sometimes I'll suck him dry. I can tell when he's about to lose it, so I'll pull my mouth off of him and watch his penis convulse and nothing comes out. I've read where some guys say it's painful when you get dry, but husband says it's not painful for him.
I've tried tensing the PC muscles to stop ejaculation but it hurt in the same way as the three finger lock, and I didn't like it: https://gnosticesotericstudyworkaids.blogspot.com/2015/09/external-locking-three-fingers-method.html I have read quite a bit about the Taoist approach of orgasm without ejaculation, or "contact without lakage" and I feel now that none of the huffing and puffing and tensing is the right way. Instead it is a purely mental orgasm experience that is experienced after a lot of meditation and denial. Top be clear; I do not have any special insight other than I just believe it to be true, based on my reading about it with respect to Tantric sex - which can be summarised by; No ejaculating ever, no "pounding at it" frictional sex, just lots of quiet, mostly still, edging sex combined with meditation. This is the ultimate aim of my GF and I.
I have not ejaculated during an orgasm in well over a year. Since being prescribed two different drugs to help curb night time urination .I was having to get up between 4 to 6 times a night to urinate! Since I have been taking these drugs, I usually only have to go once or twice! The side affect is no ejaculation during an orgasm! My wife loves this part, as there is no mess after having sex, which is rare in and of itself!
Yes, I stop right before point of no return. Sometimes it feels like orgasm with waves pleasure going through the body, but sometimes it doesn't quite feel as orgasm. I call it edging.
That's interesting! Will you be able to stop taking the drugs over time? Are there any other side affects? Are your orgasms any less pleasurable? How frequently do you have orgasms?
I once had an accidental dry ruined orgasm. I was getting a "warm up" blow job and I got a bit too close to cumming before I could tell her to stop. It felt like I'd almost had an orgasm and I lost my erection but there was no ejaculation. It was the most frustrating thing I've ever had happen.
No ejaculation. No erection. But it felt far better than ANY ejaculation ever. Totally body waves of pleasure. I’d gladly give up ALL future ejaculations for just one of these a month.
About two weeks ago I was unlocked so I could make her happy, afterwards I was allowed to play a bit with my little thing. But she was very clear that I was not to cum. As I was playing, she was teasing me with her feet. Well, one thing lead to another and I became very excited and quickly stopped. But it was too late as I could feel the pulsing internally and in the shaft, and figured I was in big trouble. But to my surprised there was no ejaculation. I was very surprised and things stayed firm and I could continue to play. Not sure if I can do it again or if this was a fluke. But I was also surprised to see this survey
It just happened, yesterday something I’m not used to, been about 10 days since my last E. So with permission of my princess I was to go for it, she thought and it felt like I came but to our surprise it seemed dry…. I’m not sure I thought it was an accidental ruined. I stayed hard as if I hadn’t released, I pulled out , no dripping, no downer syndrome today, willing to try again, so waiting till next time, this has been a very rewarding adventure going on 5 years.
Lol, I have no testicles and my testosterone been in the undetectable range for over 3 years. Every orgasm is dry for me no matter what.
Following a TURP operation for Prostate problems (don't youtube it immediately after a meal!!!) I have been 'dry firing'. Or at least I was until last week when, after I don't know how long, I got my good lady to understand that I do not need to orgasm. I think she is still trying to come to terms with my wishes on the subject. I'm just attempting to be a more pleasing husband. How long it will get me to get her to put me under lock and key is another matter.