Since I have been unable to make much headway wearing my birdlocked, my wife and I have decided to live like I am locked up. The longest period I've gone without an orgasm was 18 days. After some talking, we settled on 1 day short of 7 weeks, which will end on our 9th anniversary. The first 4 weeks went really well, which I think had to do with me teasing myself SEVERAL times a day. My wife says she had no idea and that i should most definitely not be doing that. So the next 7 days so far have been much different. Much hornier, more attentive, my showers are no longer taking 20-25 mins. because I'm no longer bringing myself to the brink 6-10 times or more. So here I sit on my 36th day and I'm pretty happy with things so far. I hope to be able to put this same kind of willpower into other areas of my life, like exercising and losing weight. I realize that if I want to cheat and touch myself that that is a choice I am making, and instead I choose to not do it. I don't really understand the people that want to be locked up but are constantly trying to escape. Perhaps it's quite a bit easier for me not being in a device, but like I said, it's a choice I made.
I know exactly what you are talking about, I just completed 60 days without the use of a device. My Majesty was very pleased. You will learn to use that self control elsewhere as I have lost 50 pounds also. Keep up the good work and self control, it will serve you well.
I agree with you. Being chaste without a device is quite a challenge. I never dreamed I could go as far as I am now.