Feeling locked and forgotten

I wish I could get in the headspace Rectrix has achieved but I'm not there yet.

It's easy to feel 'forgotten' in chastity. All men have sexy thoughts in a constant stream through the day, but submissive chaste men are not only constantly reminded by their device, the thoughts themselves are focused entirely on our key holders.

Most guys are just like squirrels, "ooooh look at the ass on that chick over there!" But that's not true of submissive men. Our thoughts are directed on only one person like a laser beam. This mental energy simply is not seen by our key holders, and they many not even know its there.

I don't blame women for not realizing how important it is to gently acknowledge our devotion a couple of times a day. Their mind simply does not work the same way ours does. We just need to gently remind our key holders that we are missing a component that we really NEED to validate our service to them. But lets not be too critical when they forget.

 

So well said.

 

I understand trusting your keyholder, that is important and not easy to learn. That trust is why the role of keyholder should not be abused. Feeling forgotten can also seem like abandonment. We all need some form of acknowledgment, care, and love. Being a keyholder should not be a license to ignore.

 

This is exactly how I feel as well. Very well said.

 

Madame Vanilla has said that if I carry on mocking her she might keep me locked for a very long time. That makes the cock tighten in the steel.
Madame Vanilla has started setting me chores. That pleases me and the cock, to do stuff for her.
I roll into her naked side every morning and squidge my steel into her buttock. The cock pulses.
But no pussy and no coming since Christmas.

I thought she'd forgotten.

Then last week she suggested she might like some piv one morning when shes in the mood.

And Im fixated on getting to that moment cos it will be a screamer. Though it hasnt happened yet...maybe forgotten again?

 

@mcfeely - May I ask then...do you not practice chastity?

 

this sums it u perfectly! Very well put!

 

Its become a game of sorts with occasional short term play. We can't come to terms in regards to chastity that satisfy both our needs. Some here would say I am being selfish and to do what ever she wants and be happy accepting what she chooses to give me but I call that BS. We all have a finite time on this earth and I choose to maximize my experience and as things currently are, chastity as a lifestyle doesn't fit those parameters. I visit the forum as a favor to my wife, to follow some posters who have interesting stories as well as to comment on things that seem out of sorts or seem interesting .