Oh bugger! I am a little bit judgemental.

If it's your decision you decide what you like!

 

I like the way you think! That would be excellent to be able to enjoy porn for a period of time and enjoy the sweet pain of not being able to do anything about it.

 

I'm new to all this, and finding it amazing. My wife and I started my chastity relationship with her on Valentine's Day and haven't looked back.
Since then, my porn watching has dropped to zero. And masturbation of course. From reading this thread, that seems healthy! I've certainly been more productive in life generally.

I'm wondering what porn we might watch together. If I leap into the deep end of femdom/chastity porn that I've watched before, it will scare Sal off I'm sure. I'm seeking softer movies/porn that could excite and titillate us both (her especially) in a FLR world, and help lead her forward. (ie not led from me). This could be books too. If I show her this site, it'd blow her mind and scare her off I"m sure.

Having her authorise my porn watching would be fun, but I'd rather we did it together if possible.

 

Well what are some fantasies of hers that doesn’t revolve around femdo/chastity? Have you ever discussed some of the things that turn her on?

My kh, although loving being my mistress has other fantasies that have nothing to do with how we interact. She has a fantasy of multiple men, all laying hands and mouths on her and being the center of attention. She also has a fantasy of being on display. If I were wanting her to watch porn with me I would find some about those subjects. I would skin through it first alone to see if there were anything that was going to ruin the moment in them as well(some guy saying take it all bitch).

For her it’s more about the mind, reading erotic stories is something she enjoys. Many times it’s about stuff that is the opposite of how we are. Where the female is submissive etc.

 

Yes, thanks - that's exactly right and good advice that I will take further. I do know some of her fantasies (and submission is part of that), so I'll develop some gentle conversation on that and then do some research.