18 days into a 31 day denial period.... the longest yet...

My longest was 37 days, and to be honest the only thing that helps is more. More teasing, flirting, texts, and her knowing and acknowledging my predicament.

Would probably have caved or gotten upset if she had just forgotten about me until the time was up.

As far as not having sex on the brain and constantly thinking of some of the dirtiest things you can imagine...never went away for me so I know no cure, except orgasm.

 

My wife has had me locked up since sept 18th and teases me every chance she gets and she loves the extra attention she has been getting she says she will let me out Christmas even and maybe Christmas day to have sex with her and then I will be locked up back up til she decides she wants to let me have sex with her til then she puts the gag dildo and makes me use my face to insert the dildo and she has me use the vibator on her to make her orgasm and she knows all she has to do to drive me nuts and want to jump her is to rub my sack and it makes me jump all over the place

 

My wife and I have been into 24/7 lockup mode for the last four years with a two month break at the beginning of this year. At first I used to go nuts after two weeks and stayed that was for two months. Now after 3 weeks I lose interest in sex, so it does get easier. Your body will condition itself. My wife is the one who wanted sex today after 3 weeks of denial for me and I was not horny at all, but she wanted it and she edged me 10 times before using her vibrator on herself.

If you keep at it you will find that you can go longer and longer without an orgasm and not really feel the need for one. I enjoy edging and denial better than a 10 second orgasm any day. The anticipation of the orgasm is better than the orgasm itself. After I orgasm I feel less energy and am bored. When I am denied I am thinking of sex but not orgasms. However if you do not do chastity play all the time, you will be horny as heck for the first two weeks because your body is releasing hormones for about 12-14 days urging you to orgasm. This is what nature has designed to make sure males want to mate as much as possible. My wife used to only deny me for a few weeks but I complained to her that I hate starting all over again after an orgasm and I rather just go longer to avoid the horniness of the first few weeks. Doing it your way is fun too because real chastity play starts when you are begging to cum.

 

That's one of the reasons we love chastity, it keeps me perpetually horny giving her all the positive attention she wants. While it can be very frustrating at times, it's also very exciting. We don't do set lockup dates, I'm locked 24/7 so the anticipation and wondering if I might get to orgasm or not every time we play is always in the back of my mind.

It gets easier to deal with as time goes by, but it doesn't go away. Just sit back and enjoy the ride!

 

I also am not told how long I have until I am going to be allowed to orgasm. To be honest I am not sure that my Wife knows either! All I do know is that each period of denial either matches the previous or doubles it. I am currently three months and a few days into my latest and if she is continuing the pattern I have at least two months left of this denial period.

As for getting used to it, who wants that to happen!? The best part of this is the way that you are constantly feeling horny. If I didn't I would think something was wrong with me lol.