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    #1 Kelltpte, Jun 10, 2016
    Hi everyone! My name is Kelly and my BF and I are brand new to all things chastity but really want to try it out. I was googling to try and find some more information, came across this site and figured it would be a good place to try!

    I will be posting some more questions etc going forward, but just wanted to say hi first! Also, I would be happy to chat with anyone about their experiences first starting out with this and how that went for them.

    Thanks!
     
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    #2 DonnaSue, Jun 10, 2016
    Welcome, Kelltpte! I trust that you will find CM to be most interesting and informative. And, as a direct result of your reading here, your BF is sure to "benefit" vicariously! Enjoy the site and post often. Please let us know about your particular chastity journey!
     
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    #3 Jblocked, Jun 10, 2016
    Welcome there is alot of help here what device do you have and how is he doing locked
     
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    #4 Kelltpte, Jun 10, 2016
    Thanks all! and he actually isnt locked yet, having some trouble finding the right cage, but hopefully soon!
     
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    #5 TitaniumChastiTi, Jun 10, 2016
    Good luck finding the right cage and welcome to you both
     
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    #6 ChasteHubby2015, Jun 11, 2016
    Welcome Miss Kelly, you're well on your way to being worshipped and having everything you could have ever imagined having as a woman. Just stick to it and you will see the benefits. Good luck!
     
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    #7 Jasmic68, Jun 11, 2016
    My advise is to buy a few different steel (not chrome) Chinese devices that you can find cheap on Amazon, eBay or other sites, try to find ones that have several ring sizes so you can work out which is right for you. Alternatively buy a genuine CB6000 or 6000s. Don't buy a cheap CB6000 knock off. I have experience of how bad they are and literally have scars to prove it and I have heard others stories of them splitting. This does nasty things to your man. You might want to lock him up, maybe forever, but you don't want him potentially injured!

    I have recently discovered how amazing Lovehoney is and they have a no quibble one year return policy.

    A second piece of advice is to measure your mans penis throughly and get a small as possible cage to fit it. Heavy and too large devices are a disaster.

    Other than that my Wife's advice is to have fun and take it slow.
     
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    #8 DonnaSue, Jun 11, 2016
    Kelly, part of the fun of chastity for me was going thru the process of finding a satisfactory cage TOGETHER. Mistress understood my plight and wanted us both to have a good experience which, in the end, is more about Her control of my mind than it is of my penis. Selecting the cage together will also make sure that communication is open and nothing is held back! Enjoy your journey!
     
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    #9 Kelltpte, Jun 11, 2016
    We looked at the CB series, but being blunt he is one of those guys who is well endowed, and the issue is not finding a cage thats small enough but one that is large enough, it has been quite a challenge!

    We are looking together but thanks for the advice! He reads these forums with me most of the time, tho it is hard to keep him under control when he does!
     
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    #10 DonnaSue, Jun 11, 2016
    Tell him that I, too, was once "well endowed" but advancing age took care of that. Unless he can find a solution for aging, he's probably headed in that direction! LOL
     
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    #11 Kelltpte, Jun 11, 2016
    Haha well we are both only in our mid 20's, so think we still have a while to go lol
     
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    #12 DonnaSue, Jun 11, 2016
    AH! To think back 40 - 50 years! If I only knew then what I have learned here about chastity! You have a nice world ahead of you!
     
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    #13 jemima, Jun 11, 2016
    hello Mistress, curtsy. i hope You find him a cage that fit him but if hes big it migt be harder to find one cos big men aint usual caged. curtsy. oooh unless that he go small when its not big.
     
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    #14 Jasmic68, Jun 11, 2016
    Lucky guy! I had a chat with my Wife once about how I always wished I had a bigger penis and she told me that we probably wouldn't have ended up together if I had. She likes my penis but more importantly she likes me. She has dated guys both bigger and smaller than me in that area and she said the guys with bigger penises tended to be more arrogant. I know that is a bit of a sweeping state,eat and I am sure your husband is lovely, but it did make me feel better. (I still wished I was larger though!)

    As for keeping him in control being difficult after reading stuff on this website I totally understand that issue!
     
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    #15 Kelltpte, Jun 11, 2016
    Thanks fr the reply! And no he says big all the time, and yes it is hard finding one


    Thanks for all the feedback!

    I am writing this with my BF here beside me, and dont worry about having a big penis, they arent for everyone! And as my BF adds there are downsides to it to!
     
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    #16 Jasmic68, Jun 11, 2016
    Downsides? To having a big penis?







    Still thinking....
     
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    #17 HollyC, Jun 11, 2016
    Quite the catch ;)
     
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    #18 Joroincharge, Jun 11, 2016
    Welcome and enjoy it here. Anything you want to know just ask; though you'll find plenty of info just browsing back threads. We were all beginners once!

    Do you have him locked already and if so in what device? Or are you looking to get one? :):):)
     
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    #19 slave_m, Jun 11, 2016
    Welcome Miss Kelly, have a good stay in this site.
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    #20 FreefromBondage, Jun 13, 2016
    If he's over 7.5", I would think the Curve or custom would be your only real options. I am 6.75" and generally fill out my standard length HTv2. Either of those options will be harder to hide, but sound's like he's hard to hide already. ;)
     
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    #21 DorkyLittleBitch, Jun 13, 2016
    Hi Kelly,

    Good luck! This site is an excellent resource both for current responses and through searches of older discussions. You should be able to find anything you want to know.

    -DLB
     
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    #22 Kelltpte, Jun 13, 2016
    Haha ya I got lucky in that sense!


    Not yet having trouble finding a cage!

    Haha thanks for the info!
     
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    #23 jemima, Jun 15, 2016
    @Kelltpte please can You put a piccy of his huge willie up in here so we can all has a look at it. and then we migt be able to says if he can fit it all in a cage.
     
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    #24 Kelltpte, Jun 16, 2016
    If i tell him to he will take one but didnt know if that would be the most appropriate thing to do lol
     
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    #25 Jasmic68, Jun 16, 2016
    Ooh, careful Jemima, you might get a spanking from your mistress asking to see a big willy!

    I won't though! I agree, it would be wonderful to see it. It is ok to post pictures in the gallery I think, especially as it is obviously only for *coff coff* research purposes.
     
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