Sometimes when I am with my friends who know nothing about chastity, I wonder whether they are missing the great pleasures of being in chastity, or am I missing the freedom that I had for so many years? Frankly I surrendered my freedom to my wife against most wonderful relation with her, in all senses I wish most married men should try chastity to spice up their lives
I think they are missing out on the experience of chastity and denial more than you are missing your freedom. I agree every married man should be placed in chastity by his wife or significant other so he understands his place in the relationship.
My wife´s and my experience is that many, many partnerships have much less sex than you would expect! Often we hear strong words and a lot of bling bling when it comes to talk about sex. But if you talk alone and confident with someone, the truth comes and is very different to what has been told before. Boring sex, always the same procedure, "because couples do that", sex because partners complain if not, sex to prevent the partner from cheating ......... and so on. My believe ist that especially in long term partnerships sex raises to lose importance very much if not spiced up with sexual interestings of both partners. So to give an answer to the question: They do not miss anything what they even don´t know that it exists. On the other hand they are bored of what they get, and they do not get what they dream of ...... hence actual they miss all!
Totally agree with you on this one. Nothing more sexy then being controlled by a mistress. An amazing feeling.
I often wonder how many men with in 10 miles of me are locked up like i am right now. I imagine the number tone small but I guess one never knows...