My wife has been pretty awesome with all of my kinks. But i do feel guilty some times that we don't have any "Normal Sex". I asked her yesterday did she want to stop doing the chastity thing? Or take a break maybe so she could get something more than just oral. I was kind of surprised when she said no and that she is quite happy with all of the oral. Then she informed that this time I may not ever be released to have an orgasm. I have used the strap on on her but she didn't enjoy it that much. She says it doesn't feel the same. So we talked about the next time that she wants to get fucked that we will using the numbing cream and condoms on me and if that works then there is no need for me to get out for an orgasm again.
HOT. My wife and I are heading down a similar path. It's funny I was frustrated a week ago and all of the sudden in the last 5 days or so it seems like my wife is running down the path. I've been locked up for 4 days straight, she has me in panties and telling me she's going to have me go to the store to pick out and try on some outfits (lingerie) for her, and also been not too worried about not having sex. She enjoys the oral quite a bit. I've never really pleasured her with sex before so I think that's one reason she doesn't really miss it and enjoys the extra oral now. We have tried the numbing with numbing condoms. I actually got her off using that. Be careful though there are 2 things to watch out for: 1) if you use too much, you get numbed too much, and I had trouble even keeping it up. First try was a complete bust because I put too much on and was down for the count. So start light, if it's too intense just stop, take a break add a bit more. Be careful to stop early before it gets too intense and you risk finishing before her. You should be able to kind of feel if you are feeling too much. 2) I found the right amount to feel enough to keep it up, but not get off myself. However at the end just the act of her getting off, sent me over the edge, and I was punished for not asking if I could finish. I always am supposed to ask to finish which gives me 10 seconds to finish, if I take longer because I asked too early then I have to ask again, if I'm told no I'm not allowed to get off so I have to ask with enough "room" so to speak to not finish. It's difficult but possible. Not sure if you have the same rules but just be warned. With my wife I have tried the strapon on her and she actually really enjoyed it. Do to some recent issues she's afraid it's to large though so we've been using my little pecker numbed out, to get her back into the swing of things. Another thing we are going to use but it's a bit larger than the strapon even is "The Dude Cock Sheath". It's supposed to be the cadillac of sheaths, and I love the way it fits. It even allows me to keep going if I loose hardness because I can't feel anything at all so I can easily loose hardness. But since it's just a sheath it's really easy to use because it's the same motion for you and you can feel how it's directed and such. No matter what your size is it will give you a 7" cock that has good girth, but you can't feel anything so it's like your wife is having sex with someone else and you just get the front row seat. As close to cuckold that you can get but without the worries that might come with it. I can't wait until the wife's back up to using the larger items because it's so much easier than trying to make sure I have the right amount of numbing but without using too much. Not to mention even if I get her off with the numbing stuff, she REALLY gets off with the larger toys so there is that I'm looking forward too. Oh and I too am in the same boat potentially on getting an orgasm. My wife has been quoting the book she's reading now saying "There is no medically relevant reason for a man to ever get an orgasm". It's kind of scary to think that I might not get to build up to that, sounds like I might go from zero to never in a very short time frame.
Sounds good. I have trained my sub to give me the most wonderful oral sex and would also much prefer that to normal sex. Getting aroused now just thinking about it.
Hello All. Simply put, no, she does not miss it. PIV is out. She loves her vibrator. She also loves to slowly and romantically grind with me (in every position you can imagine from instructional material for suggestions for girl on girl lovemaking), she has no desire to receive a strap on and has never enjoyed receiving oral (with anybody she says--but I still beg for that and have offered to find instructional for it so we could try to open this door for her together)...and so it goes. I have asked her point blank if she is happy with how we are pursuing sexual pleasure and she beams me a smile and says to relax and stop asking and that she would tell me if she was not. allaboutHer
My wife does not like penetration sex, especially with a dildo. She prefers a vibrator on her clit first and oral second. Chastity is perfect for her purposes. She gets a more submissive husband and it does not affect her sex life at all.
I know my wife enjoys Her Property, and I think she's loving knowing every sensation.. every drop belongs to Her totally. I am too. However, after 5 days of denial while Her visitor is here.. I'm basically waking up almost whining with need. This is a means for us to explore and be brave with one another. Our regular sex life is enhanced, not replaced. Nevertheless, the fat 8.5" strapon compatible cock arriving Monday has me wonderfully scared
I simply do not need dickie for PIV satisfaction nymore. His size has ben a ppoblem for years, and the only time he is allowed "in" is when wearing a shealth, or while in his chastity, with the use of a harness and strapon. His oral skills are staisfactory, although one of my girlfriends has now even surpassed dickie in that area. And nothing replaces a well developed male for true satisfaction. that is why I have two bull playmates. In ten years of a strict FLR, I have the best of three worlds, and enjoy ever moment of it. Mistress Suzan
Mistress took slave shopping several months ago for a cock sheath. She explained that if and when I was allowed to "visit" her I would be required to wear it. The first 2 or 3 times she was just OK with it. Now, she loves it and can't get enough. She loves it because I get absolutely no sensation from it so she doesn't have to worry about stopping or slave "messing" inside her. It also adds about 2 inches and some girth so she loves the full and stretched feeling that slaves little dicklet can't provide.
Sorry, Its just i know my wife is going to look at all the bumps and stuff and think no way. Ill show her and see what she thinks. Thanks.
Trust me, Mistress LOVES it and she loves the fact that she can use it all she wants and doesn't need to worry about slave messing.
Much like your wife my wife has informed me that she doesn't miss PIV. She has denied me PIV for the past 13 months. She said, "If I want it I'll ask for it and you haven't heard me asking now have you."