All sex play other than making love, is a game to us. Only difference is how intensely we play the game. My wife also has become strict about chastity recently. Locked up all the time except for every other day for a good cleaning and ever increasing chastity periods.
Tonight it did not seem like a game anymore when she told me that sex was for her pleasure only and did not even edge me. Do not know how to describe our relationship but we seem to drift in and out of our fetish play as the situation warrants it. There are times when she will do my chores or help me. At other times she is barking out orders to me.
In most cases it starts as a game and then becomes a permanent reality! That's why "be careful what you wish for" has a great relevance in chastity lifestyle! So accept it and enjoy it!
As Sonny says, "Be Careful What You Wish For!" Mistress thought I needed to be locked in Chastity because I spent too much time jacking off, usually a daily occurance. She ordered a CB6000 and we tried this for awhile, all the time she was becoming more Dominate and controlling. She then decided to step up her control and told me to proceed with the ordering of a MM Jail Bird. Once it arrived I have pretty much been locked 24/7, with a couple of exceptions. She now has complete control of her cock and balls and I am now on Day 155 of Denial. My previous long was 243 days without unloading and Mistress says she sees no reason to unload her balls anytime soon as it does absolutely nothing for her and just makes a mess. I'm looking at probably at least a year this time. Mistress love the control and dominance she has over her slave. Usually when we are around home I'm kept naked with just my Jail Bird on ... she loves the look of her little dicklet being locked up and enjoys teasing slave by dressing sexy and making slave clean her with his tongue.