Since I no longer have a Mistress, I've had to readjust my expectations. This is all very new, and very exciting, but also I'm afraid in getting in over my head. I think there's a pun in there somewhere? I just went ahead and ordered one of these. It should arrive, never believe Amazon's shipping forecasts, tomorrow evening. My plan is to experiment slowly, working up the time I can wear the device until it's comfortable for daily use. My goals are to become more focused (due to eliminating a wasteful use of my personal time) while at the same time combining refraining from tobacco and alcohol during my locked periods. I don't know if I'm ready for another relationship right now, but I want to at least explore this as a personal discipline. What's the phrase? Careful what I wish for? ;0)
Thanks @curoc I'll be careful. I just didn't want to start off with the cb6000. I'm not allergic to anything except Fox I think lol.
I have one like this, very comfortable but also quite heavy, you will need some tight underwear to help hold the weight. Sorry to hear about your personal life :-( hope things start looking up for you soon.
@chris82 yes, i was surprised at the weight! After getting used to the two inch ring for a little while, and after lubing up the meat a little I was able to get everything tucked away snugly and the lock clicked. Ok, that is one moment I'll never forget. It will be much more special when I have a particular person in my life to frame the situation.. but, still :0) It's been really comfortable up to now.. Of course it's only been a couple of hours. Given the gap between the cage and the ring, I really don't see any way in hell of escaping. The veggies would never fit through that gap even if I could probably work Mr Meat out of his house. Thank you for the personal wishes. It's a much better week, and lots of challenges and exciting possibilities!
Ok.. update. Trying out the 1.5" ring. Wow, that's smaller. Have to let matters settle before coaxing the old boy in as well.
The 1.5" was so very secure feeling. I went for a bit longer and unlocked. I'll see how I do with the midsized one and longer periods before thinking about how serious I want to get
Wow. OK. The Mistress I mentioned before was an online relationship which I'd have for a short while, but which allowed me to explore some of my fantasies and get over myself a little. Just a little ;0). I had bought the Jailhouse to gradually explore chastity and see how I could use it to focus my energies a little more. However, making my fantasies real pushed me over my fear and hesitation and I confessed my interests to my wife. I explained, maybe too well, my motivations and what I wanted (to focus and redirect towards her) and also to introduce a little spice into our 12 year marriage. I was not prepared (exactly), for the twinkle in her eye and that giggling "OK!" I have not seen the keys since and now I'm looking at my first day at work with the device. She'll be home late for a work dinner, and asked if I'd be okay. I said, "I'll be anxiously awaiting you coming home."
another warning,careful if you get hard,it may cut of circulation to the orbs,if your pouch starts turning blue while you get hard that's bad,really really bad,its an issue i had a problem with as well.
I'm wearing the 2" ring, and actually it's very comfortable. The boys are quite sage and happy, but I will keep an eye on things. She hid the keys somewhere in the house, so I can always text her off needed. So far, just need to do a little better job shaving cause pinched hairs do twinge LOL. Oh, and I bought a kindle copy of the key holder's guide for each of us. I am slightly scared of just how far she might go. Yay!
Well made it through this much of the day. I wonder what she's been thinking all day. So far, no comfort issues. Definitely, it's the beginning of something very exciting.
It's been a very interesting couple of days. I think she loves the pampering, my renewed attention and attitude. We're both getting comfortable with a new way of interacting, and so far I'm really glad I went ahead and opened up to her. She knows that I'm trying to align our energies as a couple and breathe some new life into our sexual relationship at the same time. I know she likes that. As far as the cage goes, it's very comfortable. I haven't been sleeping in it, but was in it all during the day for Thursday and Friday, only being unlocked by my grinning wife when we went to bed. Today, we're "freeballing" it to make sure the guys have time to rest and get used to being properly controlled :-D. Thanks to the CM for all your kind posts, concern, and support. I'm happy to have found you.