Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by Samir, Sep 16, 2020.
What some strict rules are made by keyholders here for their slaves/subs?
No cumming without eat it up afterwards !
If this is your first night in chastity, you have to drip
It was a Chuck Palahniuk reference.
After years and years of FLR and BDSM lifestyle, we just have one rule now, Madam is always Right!
One basic rule. She makes the rules.
Rules have to be made, followed, and checked on. It is too much work on her part. I need to behave and perform in such a manner where rules are unnecessary.
This. 1000% this. Our Golden Rule is that her decision is final. We discuss, she decides, and I am to obey.
We do incorporate a lot of rituals and protocols, and even have an ownership contract defining our relationship, but ultimately, it all comes back to our Golden Rule.
Our rules are simple, he does as he is told unless he has a serious objection to the stated idea or if he needs a safeword.
my Domme @MistressS has several rules of conduct, but primary one is no releases without Her permission and all releases must be eaten. i always follow them.
Does it apply only to bedroom or life in general?
Nice and neat.
The first time i had to obey Her rule, it was difficult, very difficult. But it sort of set the stage. I now see how obeying @MistressS is best for me.
Mostly to the bedroom but he also has some rules for life outside it.
May I ask what those are?
Mostly because it came after my climax. i'd lost my lust and desire, so faced with eating my cum, it was more a tribute to how willing i was to submit to @MistressS . but i did it, and now it is much easier, as i know She wants and expects it. That is the way with most of the rules She has for me. Just learn to do them.
One of my favorite (and least favorite) rules is The Pledge. This takes place before I go to bed.
I have to kneel beside the bed, hands behind my back (what Miss calls 'position 2') and wait until she chooses to acknowledge me.
Once she signals me that she is ready, I recite a pledge to her. It basically tells her that I am freely owned by her, I worship her, I yield to her leadership, and Thank her for all that she does for me. Following that, I have to ask permission to join her in her bed. Then I may get up from my kneeling position.
This is one of the tasks I've had to do for a couple of years now. It's evolved. At one time, I only had to do it at home, not on vacation. Now I have to do it no matter where we may be sleeping. Also I used to be able to do it in my jams or my underwear. Now I must be naked.
I initially hated it, then became resigned to it, and now I actually enjoy it. It definitely enhances the lifestyle submission.
This is a rule I follow myself. I helps control how much I allow myself relief in between lockups. I have to eat my cum every time. I don't particularly like it, so it stops me masturbating as much as I want to.
Thank you for clarifying. I never thought eating cum was a big deal, and I've always enjoyed cleaning up after myself even with vanilla GFs. But it's nice to see it works for you as a tribute.
I wish I found it as easy as you. I’ve managed it a few times but need to get into the mindset of making it the norm.
I’ve read similar sentiments many times. Clearly this is the key - get over the hump then make it the norm. So I just need to actually do it. I’ve spoken to my wife about it and she loves the idea of it but never forces me when I lose the desire after my orgasm. I think I just need to explain to her that I want her to force me...
@LockedNick - you'll get a hang of it Keep practicing.
@LockedNick like the thread says, ask her to make it a rule. if you are allowed to cum, then you have to eat it. simple as that., no other choices. don't want to taste your own then don't climax. it is a mindset like wanting to stay locked. hopefully, after seeing you do it a few times, she'll get to enjoy watching and so will push for it more.