Your Duty Gentlemen

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    Hello Ms. Amanda.
    Well, I finally did it...last evening I was checking out at the local grocery store. I went to a cashier I have gotten to know in passing at the store over the last several years. She is a very sweet person, always smiling even at 11PM. I believe she is older than I am, possibly in her early 50s. She has long straight blonde hair, a great smile, looks like she is in shape but showing obvious signs of aging gracefully (which has a sexiness to it). What struck me last evening were her fingernails...long and beautifully colored in flecks of metallic red, green, gold and silver. They looked festive, seasonal and I have to admit they gave me a little twitch in my device. Well, feeling comfortable as we chatted amiably I interjected that I could not help but notice how beautiful and eye-catching her fingernails were and how seasonallu apropos yet unique her color choice was. She beamed a big smile from ear to ear and thanked me for noticing and remarked that she was sure some folks thought it was tacky but that she loved Christmas. I told her who cares about the stylistas and that I liked her sense of style. She continued to beam as she packed my order and sent me on my way with her big smile and a "Have a great night!".

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    Well done I bet your shopping matches her shift pattern from now on .lol

    Xx wendy
     
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    Hey now, the fifties are very sexy years for women you know. ;-)
     
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    According to some tumbler blogs there are some incredible ladies even older than that. xx
    Before you boys get into real trouble leave the age thing out or you will have nothing to keep your devices on with lol
    Xx Wendy
     
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    The title of this thread is enough. "Duty" and "Gentlemen".
    Really, nothing can make a day better is a concerted effort to act in a manner your KH, Mom, Dad, Wife, Kids or what such would be proud of you. Courtesy and manners go much farther than imaginable in brightening a day or diffusing a difficulty.
    It really brightens the day of both participants...
     
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    This remains the best advice I ever got. The sincere thoughtful compliment just goes so darned far....Wendy, your gift just keeps on giving.
     
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    Why thank you Hun
    The funny thing is at work today I noticed a colleague I have talked to several times has the most amazing nails was just going for " who does your bebeautiful nails " and a pesky customer rocked up .
    Tomorrow tomorrow ...
    Wendy xx
     
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    Thank you for starting this thread. It is a good idea for all of us! My 23 year old daughter came in while I was reading this thread. I told her "wow , you look awesome today". She just lit up. I guess I was overdue. Thanks for the push!
     
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    Sincere compliments are wonderful
     
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    Flirting is great
     
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    Flirting is not what this thread is about.
     
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    Reminds me of the guy who keeps hearing voices at the bar, so the bartender tells him...
     
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    i was chatting to a Lady in the little pub i goes to on Fridays and said to Her how nice She keep her nails and a bit later in the evening She got me a glass of cognac and i had been having some red wine but i did drink it cos it wud have been rude not to. i went ever so funny afters and when Mistress come to pick me up the nice Lady come and told Mistress what had happen. Werent that nice of Her.
     
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    That is wonderful advice and I will definitely implement that in my life. You are so right, it is and should be a part of everymans life.
     
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    Yesterday the manager of one of the facilities I service was looking really unhappy and dejected because she was going to have to drive 50 miles and deal with downtown Seattle traffic today. As she was walking away after sharing this news, I piped up and said "You want to hear something that might make you feel a little better?" She said "Sure, ok." I said "I think you have really beautiful hair." Her face lit up with a big smile, and she said "Thanks! That does make me feel a little better." I left for the evening a bit later, but I observed her several times before leaving and that grin never left her face. :)
     
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    I always tell woman how nice they look when I am out, Like I love your haircut, or you smell great ,Your shoes are to die for, your nails are so pretty, Love the color of your hair. Woman work so hard to look good, I love to say nice things to them, And Your always so nice and pleasant, I love woman, what can I say, And Mistress if I may,, I love your name.
     
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    Woman are like Flowers You love to look at them, and they smell so good. And all their parts are so awesome. So additive!
     
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    ...additive? Really? I always thought more algebraic to be honest... :p
     
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    I really don't know what that word means, But when I say additive, I mean like I study them, Their pretty feet, sexy shoes, Pretty nails, Pretty hair, or clothes. And OMG their wonderful SMELLS. I find myself at awe Looking at them. I always tell them there awesome. I love their mannerisums, How they carry themselves. How they walk into a room, and they are the center of attention. And the Dominating Factor. I want to crawl on my hands and knees to them, And please them how ever they see fit. I love them treating me like a sissy girl. And Humiluating me. Licking their feet or shoes Or pretty boots. Or worshiping their body parts, under their instruction, That's So Additive.
     
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    #120 maid_carrie, Jan 9, 2014
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    I think you may mean addictive rather than "additive" :)

    I am not sure though that @Mascara^Snake was looking for men to crawl on hands and knees and be at ladies feet licking their shoes and boots though ;)

    I may be wrong though :)
     
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    Oh I know, But sure would be fun. LOL
     
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    I was out a few weeks ago and having being out of practice I wasn't really sure how to approach or speak to women. Having said that, I knew that just approaching them honestly and not being a sleazy chat up guy was the best way to go. With this in mind, I was sitting in the pub with my friends and a pretty girl that I took a liking to was sitting not too far away. There was nothing outstanding about her appearance, but she did have this very bold red leather bag. I have a fetish for leather so obviously it took my eye. She was going out for a cigarette and walked by my table on the way when I caught her eye and said "That's a really nice bag", she just seemed caught off-guard and smiled and said thank you.

    We went to another pub in the town later and when we were out in the beer garden this same girl came out on her own for a cigarette. She saw me sitting on the table with my friends and came up and said "Oh, you're the guy that liked my bag, how you doing?" We spoke for a while and chatted pleasantly - nothing came of it but I know if I see her in the pub again she'll definitely say hello.

    In this same night, in the second pub we were in, there was a girl that was wearing this one-piece outfit that really hugged her body well and made her look amazing. She had a beautiful face, long blonde hair and was clearly used to guys chatting her up - "you look amazing in that dress" I said, simply, and then walked on without even waiting for a reply. Lo-and-behold, about 45-60 minutes later she also came out for a cigarette and then came up to me and asked how I was doing. Again, this did not lead to anything, but I didn't push it at all.

    Both these instances prove to me that complimenting a woman - innocently - can really be a beneficial thing for both parties. Both those women I spoke to were, I'm sure, glad of the compliments, and neither of them - despite me drinking beer all night - felt that a sleazy guy was chatting them up.

    Women are amazing and I honestly feel privileged to not only behold, but also interact, with them.
     
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    It's not being glad it's just very unexpected these days, when almost all comuication is done via Facebook or Twitter.

    So you do stand out from the crowd with any kind of verbal face to face eye to eye contact.

    If its a complete stranger , you have the added little adrenaline rush as you don't know how a complementary remark is going to be received.

    However so long as you are not being too edgy at the worst they will just turn and walk away.

    Xx Wendy
     
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    Its funny, The woman that gets my meds. at the drive up window, is so pretty, The other day I noticed she had a wedding band on. And it just popped out, I said to her----- Does your husband tell you how beautiful you are? She smiled so big, And you could tell she loved the compliment . And she told me sometimes he does, And I said he should tell you all the time.
     
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    Ms Amanda, You are so right. i do this often. It makes my Wife smile to see me do this. She has pointed out ladies who might need a compliment to change their day. Approach is everything. i am a 5'10", 250lb. man, covered in tattoos, born with a face that just looks angry, even when i smile. Women don't often look upon me favorably. i disarm them with a compliment, and it changes their perception immediately. A simple compliment to a lady, who has obviously taken the time to put herself together, is all too rare these days. Gentlemen, please take it upon yourselves to make a ladies day. Hold a door, put a smile on a lady's face. Compliment her clothing. Women like to know their efforts are not overlooked.
    Thank You Ms Amanda, for being beautiful and starting this thread.
     
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