Your Duty Gentlemen

being polite and pleasant costs nothing, but it can improve someones day,,,,

 

I don't think a woman has to be nor should be required to be "ogle worthy" to deserve a compliment.
Although political correctness demands extreme caution as we do seem to live in a world where no man can say nice things to a woman without being seen as having ulterior motives.

OK that said and back to my original thought, a woman need only be a woman and sincerely smiled at (not leered at) and honestly complemented.

I do that every day. Yesterday a portly woman in an elevator had an unusual colour purse and matching toenails which I said made her look like she had a fashion consultant, and she really looked full of life today.

I am married and owned, can't be any more forward than that, but it did light up her face.

 

subklik at the risk of me sounding like a crawly bumlick , i'm gonna say it anyway because it's true.
I believe that all women are beautiful especially when they smile .
There's nothing as more beautiful as when you see a ladies "real smile" it's such a beautiful sight to see.

 

"Crawley bumlick"? Now that is a funny one.
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I couldn't think of the correct phrase at the time lol

 

Wow! I can't believe how much of an impact this "technique" has. Thank you Ms Amanda for a precious gift.

Yesterday I notiiced a woman's purse and it appeared to be made out of ostrich skin--a favorite of mine. I said that was a nice purse and it complimented her natural coloring very well. I truly made her day.

Folks are correct. Be specific. Just move on and don't linger hoping for a response.

I am going to do this more often!

Jason

 

Brilliant news mate,

Keep up the good work

 

Ms Amanda,

I continue with this technique. I reamain stunned at how much joy I can bring to a woman's life by simply telling her something nice about herself. My latest "topic" is the Autumn coloring. Women like to wear clothes related to the seasons. I am now saying things like, "nice ensemble, those colors really work with your hair" or some such.

As recommended, I don't linger and hang around for a response. But I can see the beaming joy as a result of a sincere compliment given with no intent of reciprocity.

Honestly, this has had nothing to do with my chastity, but it sures helps me to know I am helping in a big way.

Best advice I ever received.

Jason

 

Practice practice practice is all it takes.
You are not trying to pick them up or engage in long conversation. Smile ,hold a door , have you had your hair done all work. When choosing in super market , have you had these what are the like ? But often smile say good morning will make their day.
Why do they have to be good looking or young ? Quite the reverse is true often older will have the manners to respond favorably. Be sensitive and respectful , a comment made on here to one of the lovely Mistresses . "Nice curves" that is disrespectful , "Good evening how are you Mistress" is much better and a pleasant opening to possible conversation.
Xx Wendy

 

Good morning how are you.
When you are choosing stuff and there is someone next to you a nice conversion starter is to ask their opinion as to the quality of the product. There by showing you have respect for them .
You can also make people's day just by smiling .
Xx wendy

 

When I'm driving, especially in the morning on the way to work, I'll often be stopped at a red light next to a lady who is fixing her hair, applying makeup, etc. When I see this, I will gently toot my horn to get her attention. When she looks my way, I will mouth, "Beautiful," and make the Sign Language gesture for same. Some roll their eyes, some ignore, but many smile and say thank you.

It's non-threatening, and as soon as the light changes, we both go our separate ways.

~Darling

 

Oohh a quiet word, makes me wonder
what was said there...my wife has no tolerance nor patience for strange men who try to talk to her especially from vans. But I always wonder about words well spoken to put things right as they should be.

Thank you Ms. Amanda for sharing this.

 

Mistress Suzan would give a finger wag "no" to such a guy, then smile and laugh if I was with her. She'd probably remark about how I got where I am for making a similar gesture in the days before I became her submissive sissy, after my infidelity.
dickieinbraces

 

Sounds like a punitive spell in ultra-tight chastity would do this particular van driver the world of good.

Some long, deep, attitude adjustment at Ms Amanda's whim would be just the ticket.

Although of course the wretch is barely worth a glance from her... As he probably knew; and that was his agony!

G.

 

Ms. Amanda this is actually quite a sad state for me. I am astounded at men like that. An embarrassment to our gender.
I mean that as a man and completely stepping aside from my place as a submissive slave to my wife but just as respecter of women.

I can't make playful statements about things like this, these types need to be slapped in the face by other men.
They need to be reminded of their own mothers sisters and daughters.

Enough of this, men like this don't seem to ever go away.

 

you right there mr. sublik. Lots of men am horrible and says horrible things.

 

I am once again astonished how well a sincere compliment works. My latest was telling a familiar hostess/waitress that her smile made it impossible for me to have a bad day.

She exclaimed that in 20+ years at this restaurant she had never heard such a nice thing.

Ms Amanda's advice just keeps on paying dividends.

Jason

 

I think you're absolutely right Amanda. I know it certainly makes my day when it happens.
Conversely, my boy is a very handsome man. He often commands attn wherever he goes. Women give him THAT look. (the one that inspires me to rip their throat out) I'm of average looks. Maybe a little better. Certainly the best shape and look of my life. My boy has told me that I'm everything he's ever wanted. (heady stuff) My one concern? Am I beautiful to him? I'm sure if I asked him, he'd say all the appropriate things. My point is, I shouldn't hafta wonder. Boys? Tell your mistress how beautiful she is to you. It will ALWAYS endear you to her. She'll appreciate it, and as in all things in life, positive reinforcement is good for everyone involved!

 

Good afternoon Mistresses
Mistresses Rebecca I am glad your boy is keeping you in the best of health xx
Because it is not often a polite and probably un expected complement is expressed these days I find some women are a bit shocked for a moment.
However the smile is a worthwhile reward that shows its very welcom.
Xx wendy

 

I had a situation in a coffee shop where I was thinking back upon this thread and your instruction. On the day in question a striking woman whom I could not take my eyes off of had settled into an adjacent table. We were about the same age, and my spider sense thought she might have been giving me the eye. This caused some internal turmoil b/c I just don't experience or sense that very much. I suspected, too, that my own attraction to her warped whatever objectivity I could have.

Drum Roll: So, I thought I should walk up to her and say something complimentary. I wondered what would happen afterwards. I foresaw an 80% chance of awkwardness and a 20% of connection. I elected, in the end to keep my thoughts and feelings to myself.

I know you would not give the advice you suggest without knowing it to be true. When I flip it, if anyone told me that I was handsome, I'd surly like it. But, I can't help feeling like some leering creep when going the other way. I think part of my reticence is being in a relationship -- I just feel it's inappropriate to make compliments to another woman.

So, I "played it safe," and I must admit I felt disappointed about it. I supppose it was my little moment of "Man in a Case" (by Anton Chekhov.)

 

I was in London the other day and in the tube station a lady was struggling with a pushchair. I just couldn't believe people were rushing past her and not even blinking en eye.

She looked so surprised when I grabbed the bottom leg rest and help her get down the stairs .

What's wrong with people these days. It only took me a few seconds to help this lady even though I went back on myself to do it.

Sorry a little rant.