Young, in love and in chastity...our story

DB88 · Dec 4, 2014

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babycakes · Mar 29, 2017

TXMistress1986 said: ↑

Hello,
Though I just joined the site today I have been reading various stories and experiences for several months on the mansion. I have thoroughly enjoyed Mobico's tale as well, and I must say your story is off to a great start. I'd like to address some points and put in my two cents; first you should break the habit of calling her "your girlfriend" she's now your "Mistress" and you need to understand the difference. Even though you two are not fully into the swing of the female led relationship yet you will be before you know it, and developing proper habits may save you from time out, sore bottom or diaper humiliation to the liking which would scare you. You say she enjoyed Mobico's tale? If that is true you have a rude awakening coming about your soon to be role as a slave to your deserving Mistress. I agree with the article you quoted in regards to the effectiveness of the strap on, you should hope she doesn't find it! My slave whom is also my husband is taken just about every day, he loves it now because it's his only sexual interaction other than the 3 times a year I allow him sex with me. It's crucial for your training and her dominant development so she truly shows who the "boss" of the house is. I find it interesting as well she uses diapers because my slave too is kept in diapers 24/7, its a corner stone of his place and as you've expressed it's the extra humiliation and use of control which helps keep you in your place. Plus theres nothing more adorable than a slave with a great body in a puffy diaper, just wait till your in them full time; because you will be.

In regards to your concern about her telling her friend, its not your place to be worried; you have no say. I can tell you I made the mistake of not telling my best friend and looking back I should have done it sooner than a year into slaves development. Once I did tell her and brought her into our life I was so much happier and slave; oh so mortified. He's still not over it but will be in time. She needs to have a person she can talk to about your lifestyle, she needs to have someone who can join her at home so you can stay in your role. She needs someone to be able to check on you when your left in bondage for hours of days at a time, and she CERTAINLY needs someone to monitor you while she's out of town. If her friend is into Kink you may find she begins taking part in your punishment, taking you out for public humiliation, locking you away, you may be serving her, cleaning her home as well and a multitude of other factors: this enhances your training and it seems you need it. You love your Mistress, don't you want her to be happy? Don't you want her and her friend to be able to sit down in your new home and split a bottle of wine while your tied in the corner filling your nappy? You should not be an inconvenience and when your Mistress has to go out of HER way to hide your lifestyle and take you out of your role when she wants her best-friend over you are being selfish. She will find out; accept it, get used to it and embrace it; be happy you have a Mistress who loves you so much who wants to share your servitude in open with others.

I look forward to following your journey, and if she is on this site I'd Love to help her along.

Mistress Amy
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babycakes · Mar 29, 2017

First, let me say how much I enjoy your posts. Your approach to D/S is so well thought out, and your advice to subs who are searching for a Mistress is about the most insightful that I have ever read. May I ask if you are still diapering your husband and, if so, whether it has impacted his bladder and/or bowel control? Whether long-term diaper wearing will lead to incontinence is hotly debated over at Daily Diapers.

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