Young guys in steel???

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    I would love to wear a chastity belt for longer periods but the CB6000 is way to uncomfortable, so i can't actually wear it, i have an appointment with neosteel within a few weeks to order my neosteel arch :), i'm 25 and not a girly, sissy, maid, ... type of guy, so i'm wondering, Are there also any young guys who wear a steel chastity belt??? I would love to hear some experiences... (or maybe i'm just on the wrong website :anim_39:
     
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    Bryan,

    Welcome and congratulations on ordering your Neo. You're definitely on the right web site. It's true there are a lot of sissy maids here, and also a lot of older folks, but honestly, I think there are more "real" people on this site than any other I've visited.

    We'd love to hear of your progress as you acclimate to your new belt! Please do keep us posted! :gen085:

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    Hi, Welcome to the site. Master and I are both 25. I’m not locked in steel myself but I have been in Chastity off and on so can’t be of much help I’m afraid. There is a wide variety of people of all ages and experience levels on here so I’m sure you’ll find all the help and advice you need.
     
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    Welcome Bryan. Unfortunately the only steel I have been in is a Lori device but not a belt style. Mike and slave Kris summed it up already, there a re a lot of real people here. You may be surprised to find not all of us have been "locked for two years with no release" Thank goodness for that for me anyway, LOL, I think I would go nuts! Anyway welcome and do keep us informed of how the Neo goes for you.
     
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    Hi Bryan,

    If 31 is young, then I fit into the category. Young, Straight and locked in a Neosteel arch...

    PM if you want,
    Choccy
     
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    I am 25 to. And Also recently bought florentine style chastity belt. Before I had the CB3000.I started with that already long time ago.
     
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    hi choc and the rest..., do you have your arch for a long time already? is it the one with the steel wire? because thats the one i want to buy to (i think) it seems like the best choice for me, i'm just a little worried that someone bumps in to me and feels the belt, because i have a slim body and i'm an active young guy, i think older people can hide it a little better because they keep a bit more distance when socialising. I also have a bit of a strange feeling when i think about wearing a belt like that, it doesn't seem to fit in the picture of an young guy. what if other people who don't have an intrest in chastity or other kinky stuff would find out that you (as an young normal looking guy) does wear someting like that. Is it realy possible for a young guy to wear this kind of belt with enough comfort, is it realy managable (for a young guy) if you don't want it to interfear to much with your normal daily activities? It seems to me like wearing this kind of belt is already a bit extreem, sertainly for younger guys, that why i want to know if there are (many) other younger guys who wear this kind of belt and what they expirience while wearing this kind of belt.
     
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    I have a very social life to. Every week I play drama. his is also a place where people can feel the belt when playing so I am not wearing a chstity belt tht days yet.
    That is also because I am not that much uswd to wear it for ever. I dont have my belt yet for a long time. But I just want to try more and more places where I can wear the belt also under clothes. There is no problem tht you can see the belt with the one I have but it's also because the contact with friends is sometimes very close :)
     
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    Because it usually doesn't, hence the reason why the thought of being locked up is hot to me (I'm 24 and have been into chastity for over 3 years). Also remember that a chastity belt, by its very nature, doesn't fit into the "average picture" of any guy--regardless of age. :p

    I'd say the main limiters of those who would otherwise be interested is cost and obscurity. "Chastity belt" only summons middle ages images of big, uncomfortable, impractical iron belts on maidens in castles. I didn't even know practical, comfortable, modern belts existed until I stumbled across one of these sites a few years back.

    Then there's the price. For college kids and below, shelling out a grand for a good, secure belt is simply not practical. From immediately post-college, most are in debt, and are uncertain of their financial future.

    Realistically, I've found that most of those in the chastity community are 30+, more frequently 40+, following the overall trend in bondage-ish stuff: the more power/choice/control your subconscious thinks it has in life, the hotter the idea is to be denied that by someone in a sexual way. :p

    A. They usually won't find out because they're too busy worrying about keeping their own skeletons-in-the-closet locked away. As an overwhelming rule of thumb, people are more concerned about what you think of them than what they think of you. :p

    B. (re: on the remote chance they find out) Shrug it off. They have no idea what the backstory is-- again, they're mainly thinking about what you think of them. The most convincing argument I've thought up was "my girl/boyfriend goes through kinky phases" then turning it into a joke, "yeah, I'm dick/pussy whipped. You should see what she puts me in when my ex comes over. :p" If they probe further, "Hey, I figure that if it turns her/him into an animal when we're making love, screw it-- why not? :p By the way, he's not only amazing in bed...etc, etc..."

    I didn't order the Arch, but I likely will eventually. I actually started with the Total, which will be arriving within the next two weeks or so, but from most reports I've seen regarding it, if you measure repeatedly, carefully, and are patient with the bending of the waistband to your anatomy, you can basically do anything and not even know it's there.

    Your results my vary, but I'd say if you've got an active lifestyle and don't want to worry about people finding out, go with the Arch-- even if someone felt you up, they'd assume the penis tube was your actual penis and if they happened upon the cable (which is snug against you), they would assume it was either your spine, a seam in your jeans, or a thong. Then again, if they're sliding their fingers down your ass crack and/or grabbing your crotch, then you've gotten way beyond hiding. :p

    Always remember: the very last thing people will assume you're wearing is a chastity belt.
     
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    Joroincharge Lock em up - 24/7/365!!

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    I think you'll find a lot of guys wearing on this site - of all ages!!

     
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    bryan,

    One of the major thrills of wearing a chastity device is the anxious feeling that EVERYONE must know. Every time someone looks at you, you think "they can tell!" In reality, that's never the case, but the anxiety of it can be thrilling.

    People just don't walk around staring at each others crotches.

    When I'm wearing my CB3k for a long stretch, it gets to the point that I have to be careful not to be TOO obvious about it - like always sitting in the men's room at work, etc. It becomes second nature very quickly.

    I suggest you just relax and enjoy!
    mikecb
     
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    Its not steel, and I'm not in 24/7 (just bought a 6k short so maybe that will help wear-ability) but I'm going to be 28 in Nov & been wearing on & off for about 3 years now.
    As pointed out above, finances keep me from getting a full steel belt, and my Wife prefers the look of a cage compared to a belt.
     
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    Well, I guess I fit the bill here, I am a young guy in a steel belt, I"m 26 actually. A bit of my backstory here, I've been interested in chastity since I was a teen and found altairboy's site, and I knew right then and there that I wanted one. I got my first two devices while I was in college, a cb-2000 and a cb-3000, since that's all I could afford at the time. Now that I'm out of school and working and have some extra cash, I did finally take the plunge and ordered a full steel belt. I got a my-steel total belt, measured it myself, it's everything I hoped it would be.

    Currently, I am without a keyholder, so I'm self locked, but I'm pretty good about staying locked. So far, nobody has found out about it, it's really not noticeable under clothes.
     
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    I love the look and feel of steel but I find it too impractible to wear long term.
     
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    I've had my Arch for a few months now. Yes it is the one with the rear wire.I had a long period struggling to get it to fit, I am getting on better with it now.

    I can wear it wherever I want without major concerns about anyone seeing it. The biggest concern is feeling the belt part - the arch module is so slimline it would take a "direct hit" to be noticed. (It actually holds in so tight there is something missing under most normal clothes!)

    The belt part is the most likely bit to be seen, when bending over or it could be felt if anyone was to hold your hips. However, I don't think anyone has noticed at all, you simply learn how to avoid the situation.

    Hope this helps!
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    hi choc, since you have the same belt i want... is it easy to use the toilet, isn't it messy with the wire on the back??? thats the only practical concern i have with this belt
     
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    It's not too bad going to the loo, you just have to think about it and pull the cable to one side a bit. Moist wipes also help here, especially the ones in smaller pocket packs.

    Hope this helps,
     
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    I'm 30 and locked in a Neosteel belt more or less permanently for the last year or so.
     
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    I'm 39 (but feel like I'm 25 :character0180: ), male and pretty active. (I am gender-fluid, but that's more on how I am on the inside not out.) I've been wear a Locked In Steel Belt pretty much 24/7 since February 09, and a My-Steel belt about 8 months before that. Besides the obvious and contact sports like martial arts, there isn't anything I can't do while being belted. The problem with martial arts is a steel belt may hurt someone else not me. Flexibility wise, with a hip belt like mine, there are no problems at all. I prefer the thong rear as I find it the most secure (since the front shield can be tighter with it and still be comfortable) and easiest to clean. However, most men don't like that feeling, but personally I do. (Then again, I'm not like most men being gender fluid although I look typical male, especially at being 6'7" tall.)
     
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    Yes thong backs are the most comfortable you can wear. I havnt been able to buy myself a ful steel belt yet since lack of money. But i would never go for any steel belt without a thong back. Feels so incredible good to wear. But once i get enough money my dream is to buy myself a full steel belt.
     
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    Visit to neosteel

    Hi everybody, i went to neosteel to get my measurements taken and i ordered the neosteel arch (with the rear wire), now i have to wait for about 6-8 weeks before i can get it, i will keep you al posted when i have the belt with a revieuw of the great arch :)
     
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