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Wy ife wrote this several years ago, it is about our journey into my Chastity.

Discussion in 'The Boudoir' started by CaptainLance, Jul 20, 2017.

  1. Cuckolding Your Husband, A Guide For The Hotwife.

    I am very fortunate to live a life of permitted sexual abandon thanks to a wonderful husband.

    I have been asked many times how I have accomplished this, so here are some guidelines and ideas.

    First, and of paramount importance, your relationship with your husband MUST be 100% rock solid. Any jealousy, insecurity, or lack of total trust, and this is NOT for you.

    We have both been very active in the B.D.S.M. community for over a decade.

    We are used to playing with others in this world which does not include sex. BDSM is a tactile game of touch, feel, and emotional paring.

    In addition, we have been couples-swingers for quite a long time as well, so the idea of swapping partners is not new to us.

    In the passing of time, I had observed that my husband’s greatest enjoyment, was watching me, with whom ever my sex partner was, as we engaged in sex play as swingers. His participation with the female half of the swinging couple we were engaging was fun and exciting to him, but not as exciting as watching me and my fuck-buddy partner.

    When my girl friend Tina came to dinner, and we both decided on the spur of the moment to go to a singles club together, my exposure to the HOTWIFE lifestyle began. You can read all about this in my account titled; “First Time Cuckoldress” which I will post on this site. This is required reading for the prospective Hotwife.

    As the story says, my husband was so excited by this encounter, we decided to take it to its extreme, not only to excite me, but to serve his needs as well.

    Cuckoldry is not just about you, it is about you BOTH as a couple. As a Hotwife, you are serving a basic sexual fetish of your husband to see you with another male. I’m not a psychologist, but it seems that a bit of humiliation of the Alpha male is what is being sought by your mate. My husband is very Alpha, a strong personality, very strong willed and extremely successful in business .In our B.D.S.M. play he is the master, without question.

    Sometimes, men seek release of responsibility in the form of submission. I have seen this many times over the years. It does not diminish the male, it strengthens him to cast his Alpha state temporarily to the side. I am told that this is sort of a “mental vacation,” where the male casts aside his role as Alpha and allows things to happen to him, rather than his dictating how things will happen.

    Once you have put forth the suggestion of your dating another man to your husband, I suggest a night out alone to test your ability to engage, many women can’t once the green light is given. Go slow, maybe a co-worker or divorced friend that you know will serve as a good first subject.

    You can start the ball rolling by pointing out to your husband the sexual charms of male movie stars, men on the street, etc .Comments like,

    “What a bulge he has...”

    “Wow, what I could do with that,” etc.

    See his response, and act accordingly, amp it up if you get at least a positive acknowledgment from him.

    “How would you like to see me climb that pole,” is always a good one.

    Be sure to always let him know that you love HIM, but that the presence of another man would simply be a tryst for the sake of pure sex, nothing more, and that HE is your soul-mate forever.

    Never use another man as a wedge to get what you want from your husband, this will quickly be the end of your marriage.

    When I return home from a date with my hottie-stud of the day, I always make love to my husband and make sure to tell him that I love him so dearly that it hurts. The fact that I am usually dripping cum at the time, is only a plus to our lovemaking, it drives him CRAZY with lust for me.

    It was my husbands suggestion that we stop couples-swinging shortly after my first encounter, and that only I go out, thus the term HOTWIFE. I agreed,

    Since then I have learned that his desires to be the second lover in our relationship has brought forth my additional steps of his humiliation, all of which he loves, and many of which were his ideas:

    *All his male underwear has been thrown out. Hhe only wears satin Victoria’s Secret panties, or ruffled petti-pants, which I select for him.

    *He wears a “cuckold” charm locked around his neck 24/7, for everyone to see.

    *I always model the latest sexy outfit that I have purchased for him, and make sure he is told that I bought it especially for Mr. X to see and enjoy.

    *I make sure that he checks my dating ads online for me, and relay the requests for dates to me, as my secretary. On Adult friend finder, my handle is “ “LUSTYROSE4U” check it out sometime.

    *I recently made him throw his guy jeans away, and now he wears girls’ jeans only.

    *I have taught him to walk in 4inch heels; he now has ankle, and knee- high boots
    which he wears at my request.

    *At home at night, he wears a denim or leather mini skirt and a long blonde wig for me. Makeup, falsies and jewelry are optional, depending on our moods.

    *When I am out on a date, he must be butt-plugged and a stainless steel cock cage is locked on him to prevent masturbation.

    Now, I make my regular dates pick me up at my house, and come inside to greet him before we go out. I make sure that I throw my arms around my dates’ neck and kiss them passionately as he watches. I always make sure to tell my date how horny I am for him, and that I can’t wait to feel his cock inside of me, while my husband watches and listens.

    A few special friends come to our home, and we have sex in our own bed as my husband sits tied to a chair, fully cross-dressed as a girl, complete with false breasts under his blouse, fully made up by me, and waiting to clean us both up after we are finished fucking and sucking each other to climax.

    Recently, I instructed him to place an ad on a cross-dresser dating site complete with photographs of him fully made up.

    So far he is very popular and has several ”girlfriends.”

    Please understand that I “Force” him to accept these actions and humiliations, but in name only. He loves them and complies with eager anticipation.

    Upon my return to our bed, our lovemaking is wilder, hotter and so much more intense than ever before.

    Girls, I hope this gives you some insight into being a good HOTWIFE.

    Feel free to ask me any questions that you may have.


    I have to get ready, my date will be here in an hour!
     
  2. Sorry about the title being screwed up, My wife wrote this for an English website, Secret Erotica, a few years ago. Besides being my Cuckoldress, she is a great writer of erotica. This is TRUE, not a fictional piece.
     
  3. What a wonderful story. Most have no idea of the trust and mutual respect needed for such a relationship. I was surprised though that when She brings "friends" home, she does your makeup. My ex very patiently and lovingly taught me to do my own. Why? If She chose to, with a phone call, She could have me wearing whatever She chose and fully in Fem when She arrived home.
     
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  4. Good question. She does my hair and makeup so it is done to her satisfaction, and honestly, she does it a heck of a lot better than I can! In addition, I am fully dressed and ready before she ventures out, that way I have hours to anticipate my duties and get ready mentally. I must also admit that it gets me quite aroused as well being all girlie for her waiting at home.
     
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  5. Great couple engagement! Sure love is the winner here, love to read your story of life and for sure with a bit of envyness.
     
  6. I would be happy to add the first time we steppe3d out into the world of chastity and Hotwife lifestyle, but it may be too sexual ,for this site, not sure of the criteria.
     
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  7. @CaptainLance@CaptainLance I like to think this is a site for open minded people , please feel free to share your experiences , myself and I am sure others would like to hear about them , there are many thoughts and opinions on here so please add yours to them
     
  8. They haven't banned me for telling about my life. I think your safe
     
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  10. This account of my wife's first Hotwife encounter is the direct cause of my chastity. it is TRUE and was first published on an English site, 'Secret Erotica' about 3 years ago. Thanks to those who urged me to post it here.


    First Time Cuckoldress...A true Story!




    Cuckolding, a new twist on an old idea, and how I became an avid devotee.

    Erika and I had been friends since college, more years than I cared to count. She had gone through marriage, two children, a burgeoning business, and finally divorce. Unfortunately, her Ex had run afoul of some guys that don’t play nice. One night they came to their door with baseball bats looking for her husband. That was enough for her. Since divorce she had a few relationships, but nothing worth remembering the week after.

    The local papers had been full of ads for weeks announcing the Grand opening of a brand new “exclusive” nightclub aimed at the 30-plus crowd. No kids, no baggy jeans of baseball caps on backwards. Gentlemen were expected to wear a suit, or at the least a sports jacket.

    Ladies were told in the ads to” dress to impress, be it naughty or nice”.

    The opening was on a hot, steamy July Saturday night. Living on Long Island, that meant at least 85* and humidity over 70%. The night was just right for ladies to wear those “naughty” things.

    Since the club was very close to where we live, My husband and I had invited Erika to come to our home for dinner first, she would then have plenty of time to get to the club as it didn’t open until 10PM. The doorbell rang at 7PM; Erika was always punctual to a fault. Opening the door, I was happily surprised to see her wearing a very sexy, black vinyl, one shoulder- strap dress with a flared bottom. The dress barely covered her behind; thigh- high, red vinyl boots, a black choker and wristbands adorned with steel studs finished off the outfit.

    “Wow” was all I could say.

    My mental picture of her certainly wasn’t that, but it was totally sexual to be sure. I was wearing “Summer-Comfortable,” a jeans skirt and a cut off tee shirt top, just something to beat the heat.

    My husband and I took long looks at Erika; we complimented her on her fantastic looks and new demeanor. Her hair was done to perfection, as was her makeup. Quite a picture, she was 5'6" and 115 pounds of tight bodied, long curly haired beauty.

    We sat down to dinner and the small talk began. Most of it centered on Erika.

    I asked her about her outfit,

    “Can you sit down in that?”

    “Only if I want to show the world my pussy,” she laughed.

    The bulge in my husband’s pants showed his approval of her outfit.

    It was so short that even while standing, only about half of her behind was covered.

    Dinner went smoothly, small talk; remember who, what ever happened to… and the like. As we sat and enjoyed desert and coffee, talk diverted to the night out.

    Was she scared of going out like that? What if guys got the wrong idea and started to annoy her and molest her? etc.

    Erika brazenly spoke up, “Hey, I have not had a man for three months. I am horny enough to fuck a mule at this point. So, if this outfit doesn’t catch me a hottie, I give up.”

    Erika was never shy about her speech. “I just want to find a guy, take him outside to my car and fuck him stupid.”

    I looked at her with disbelief. Erika then mused, “The only thing I hate about going out to a club is being there alone, with no one to talk to. I hate standing around waiting to hook up.”

    Then Erika looked at me and asked, “Why don’t you come with me; we can hang out, have a drink and make fun of the other girls.”

    I said that I couldn’t, after all, I am married and that club was promoted as a pickup club.

    Erika again begged me, “Come on, you need some fun too, you don’t have to pick up a guy, just come and enjoy.”

    “You are really going there just to find a strange guy and fuck him?” I asked again.

    “Yes, you bet,” was Erika’s answer.

    ”Why do you think I am wearing this dress, boots, and no panties?” she added.

    I looked across the table at my husband and asked with an inquisitive facial expression if he thought it was OK. He immediately nodded back affirmatively.

    Then, I shocked my husband.

    “What if we go there, and I see a real hot guy that wants me to dance. You know what dancing at a pickup club is, it’s making out on your legs,” I said.

    I could see my husband’s cock grew hard as I was asking him for permission to make out with a strange man! I then looked back at him and added,

    ”And, what if he is really hot, and gets me excited...so I want to reciprocate, like maybe grab his cock or something really nasty like suck his cock dry. You know how I get when I am aroused” I concluded.

    I could see that my husband’s cock was now near the bursting point, in just seconds it went from flaccid to rock hard. Without thinking, he blurted out

    ” Hey, you are a big girl, you can do whatever you feel like, it’s your night out with Erika, so have fun”.

    “You really mean that?” I asked again. “You are giving me a dangerous amount of freedom, baby.”

    “Yes, “He replied without hesitation.

    I thought for a second, then said,

    “OK give me 20 minutes to change, I’ll be right back”.

    As I left the dining room, I looked back at Erika and my hubby and said “While I am changing, why you don’t put Erika in the mood for tonight, you two have been looking at each other all night like sex starved teenagers, and I’m sure that she wouldn’t mind some attention.”

    They were both shocked, but the sexual tension was so thick it could be cut with a spoon. As I disappeared up the stairs, Erika and my husband looked at each other, speechless.

    “Did I hear right?” Erika asked him.

    “I think so...” he replied.

    With that, they simultaneously got up, took each other by the hand and went into the den. Without saying another word, he motioned to Erika to sit on the large futon in the center of the room. He kneeled in front of her, and reaching out to her, spreading her legs far apart.

    She had been right; the dress fully exposed her beautiful pussy when she sat down. Drawing his face close to her glistening wet pussy, He pressed his lips against her and inserted his tongue into her love tunnel. She moaned at once, she was hotter than a firecracker and ready to go off like one, too. She grabbed his hair and pulled him into her so close that he could barely breathe. He licked and sucked at her clit, her engorged pussy lips and sucked her juices. Erika came over and over, screaming out,

    “Next time, fuck me like a whore, cum in me, I need your hard cock.”

    Then, I reappeared at the entrance of the room.

    I was wearing a skin tight, bright, crimson red, vinyl tube dress, with two buckled shoulder straps accenting the dress, a choker collar made of the same material, and heavily studded. One matching, studded, wrist cuff finished it off. My white, platform, lace-up, over- knee, stiletto boots made me look so sexy that I was near exploding myself.

    It had been one of my favorite things that I decided to wear; it was so short that it reached about 2 inches below my pussy. Like Erika, sitting down was not possible without providing an “adult” show.

    “What do you think?” I asked. “Do you think anyone will notice me?” I laughed.

    Erika looked at me and asked, “Bra and panties?”

    I laughed, “NO way in this getup!”

    “I want to drive a few guys crazy, that’s all,” I added.

    I told her that I was positive that I would, and more. I then sat down next to Erika and put my arm around her and gave her a big kiss. I had never told Erika before, but I was very attracted to her sexually.

    Then I told my husband;

    ” Now it’s my turn bad boy, do your duty!”

    He obeyed at once, and ministered to my soaked pussy until I had my first orgasm of the night while I was busy kissing Erika. I roughly pushed him away from me after I climaxed.

    “I don’t want to get too worn out, the night hasn’t started yet,” I laughed.

    We both got up holding each other’s hand. I asked my husband once more,

    “You said to have fun tonight, exactly how much fun am I allowed to have?”

    “You are a big girl, you can set your own limits, my love,” He answered.

    With that, I nervously took Erika into my arms and gave her a deep soul kiss.

    “Now, that’s how to start a night out” I said.

    My husband had never seen me interested in another girl before, this was new and great, especially as Erika didn’t seem to mind at all.

    With that, we gathered up our bags and started for Erika’s car. She drove a bright silver Corvette, a part of the spoils of her divorce, and something designed to make her ex very jealous, which it certainly did.

    Roaring off into the night, I looked back and blew my husband a kiss. Then, we disappeared from view.

    My husband replies:

    It was after 1:30 when the phone rang, jolting me awake. I had dozed off, watching the TV, as usual.

    “Hi, love, It’s me,” Dee said over the background noise of the club.

    I asked if she was having fun, she answered with a rousing,

    “YES!”

    She said that Erika had hooked up with a great looking guy about an hour earlier, and had disappeared with him. I asked her how she was doing. A minute of silence followed.

    She asked me, “When you told me to have fun, and set my own limits, did you really mean it?”

    “Sure,” I replied.

    “I met this really sexy young guy, we danced for so long that he got me very excited rubbing his body against mine as we danced,” Dee said.

    “Yes, and then what?” I asked, as I could hear in her voice that only part of the story was forthcoming.

    “Well, then he and I started to make out really heavily...he put his hand under my dress and started to finger fuck me as we danced!” she reported with excitement.

    “I was hanging onto him, panting like a school girl on her first date,” she added.

    Without more prompting she blurted forth,

    ”Then he took me by the hand and lead me outside to his car, it’s a beautiful Mercedes convertible. Then he kissed me so deeply I nearly fainted. He picked me up by my waist, sat me on the hood of the car. My dress rode up to my waist exposing me completely. He dropped his pants, and stuck his cock into my pussy and fucked me to climax. I didn’t tell him to stop, or try to get away from him. I wanted to be fucked so bad that it hurt. I begged him to be rough with me and fuck me like a whore. He never asked permission, he just fucked me, and I loved it.!

    I think she expected me to be very angry, but I wasn’t.

    “Now, my pussy is dripping his cum down my legs, he didn’t use a rubber!” she added. “And, I have not taken my pills in nearly 2 months, you know what that could mean . . .”

    “I am very sorry, my love, I didn’t mean for anything like this to happen, are you very upset with me?” she almost cried.

    “No”, I told her.

    “I told you to set your own limits, and you did, there is nothing wrong with what you did. Actually, I am proud of you, stepping out like that. “

    “Are you totally sure?” she asked.

    “Yes,” I said without hesitation.

    “Then, you won’t be mad if I tell you that I asked him to take me home... and to go swimming with me in the pool.”

    “What?” I asked...

    “Swimming, you know, skinny-dipping,” she said.

    “I want to have rough, hardcore, sex with him again, at our house!” she exclaimed.

    I said nothing for a few seconds. “Well, OK,“ I added.

    “If you want to, it’s OK with me!”

    “You are a peach!” she exclaimed so happily.

    ”Then you won’t mind putting a bottle of white wine into an ice bucket, some nice chilled glasses, turning the pool lights on, and setting a few towels out for us” she added.

    “And, I almost forgot, I told him I was single and lived with my brother, I didn’t want to scare him away telling him I was married.”

    Now my cock was rock hard again, my wife was bringing her lover home, to fuck on our patio and in the pool, and I was to stay inside out of sight. I was to be the facilitator, her Cuckold, providing wine, towels, and whatever she wanted.

    About a half hour later, I heard a Mercedes pull into our driveway. As the motor was turned off, I heard doors close, and laughter, lots of laughter. They were having a famous time together. Peaking out a window, I could see that Dee had gotten out of the car wearing only her boots! She had stripped naked in the car for the ride home.

    I could only imagine what had transpired on the 5-minute drive that took a half hour to complete...

    Closing the gate behind them as they walked into the rear yard, I saw them hold each other and kiss passionately, and deeply. She then stripped his clothes from his body and poured them both glasses of wine. I watched them lay on the chaise built for two that we had just purchased, they were making out heavily, and very passionately. I saw her slide down his body and take his cock deep into her mouth, sucking on it like it was a lollipop. My own wife was giving a stranger a blowjob right in front of me. I could see her look up towards the second floor bedroom where I was standing. I am sure she saw me as I could see her nod her head while looking up. She knew that I was watching, and was performing for me!

    An hour passed, they had been in the pool, out of the pool and back again. There was no lack of passion as they hugged and kissed in the water. Then, about 3AM I heard the glass doors open in the rear of our house. Muffled voices were not intelligible, but I was sure that he was in our house. I heard footsteps coming upstairs, two distinct sets of steps! The door to the spare guest bedroom opened.

    I could hear them laughing in low tones and the sounds of love. The creaking of the bed, the moans and groans of unbridled passion were obvious. My wife was fucking him only a few feet away from me, in our guest room! It seemed like hours later when I heard them go down the stairs. The front door opened and I heard her bid him:

    ” Goodnight, lover, see you real soon”.

    Pretending to be asleep, I heard her come back up to the second floor and open our bedroom door.

    “Did you like the show, dear?” she asked.

    I nodded yes, and forgot about pretending to be asleep.

    “It was so hot seeing you like that” I said.

    “Great, you’ll be seeing lots more of it too... He is SO sexy, he drives me insane.”

    “Now, open your legs, you have work to do” she ordered.

    With that, I spread my legs apart, and Dee lowered her cum soaked pussy onto my cock. The feel of the hot sticky cum of my wife’s lover flowing over my cock was unbelievable; my own wife was mounting me, as her fuck buddy, now that her lover had left. We made insane love for hours; we fucked ourselves sore, and didn’t stop until we could no longer keep it up. By the time my cock was no longer hard, Dee slipped off it and slid her way up my body to my face, she gently lowered her soaked pussy onto my open mouth and allowed me the honor of cleaning her up, sucking both my and her dates cum out of her. I had never swallowed so much cum before, he must be a real stud.

    We fell asleep until 2PM the next day when the telephone awoke us. She answered it, it was her lover! She spoke to him in very explicit terms, as I lay there listening. She exclaimed how hot he was, how much she enjoyed his cock jamming into her wet pussy, her ass and her mouth! She went on to tell him how wonderful it was that he was able to climax four times in her... Something I could never do! I was so hot and hard that my cock was bursting again. Dee saw that, and covering the phone with her hand whispered to me,


    “Fuck me in my ass while I am on the phone.”

    She rolled over onto her front, and I mounted her at once. I slipped my rock hard cock into her tight, tender and cum filled ass and pounded away. I came, as she was nearly ready to hang up the phone with her lover. Her breathy speech must have given her away, I thought. I was so excited; I had never before had anal sex with her that she liked. It was always grudgingly done at best, now she was asking me for it. Wonderful, I thought.

    “He never asked me for sex, he just pulled my hair very hard, pressed me down and took me as he wanted me,” she said.

    “I think that is exactly what I need, my love, I need to be taken by a strong man, not made tender love to,” she finished.

    We got up and made breakfast, we were so excited by each other, we made love two more times before we got dressed for what little was left of the day.

    I asked her if she intended to see him again, or if it was a one-night fling.

    “Is it OK with you?” she asked.

    “Yes,” I said, “you’re the boss now!”

    “How right you are, my love, now we need to discuss some rules and such. I told him last night that I would be available to him whenever and wherever he wants me. I intend to keep him hot, happy, and fully sexually satisfied.”

    “YOU, on the other hand have begged me for so long to become a Cuckold, now your wish is about to come true! You will become my second lover, when and if I want you. I don’t want to be sticky, wet, or used before I see my real lover. I fully intend to give him his own virgin pussy to fuck and fill with his wonderful, hot cum.

    If you and I ever have sex again, it will be at my invitation only, and only after my lover has been fully satisfied. The best you can hope for it sloppy seconds since I told him that I do not want him ever to use a rubber. You can accompany me to the bathroom after we finish eating, you can watch as I flush my birth control pills down the toilet, I will no longer be taking them. I want to feel his cum fill my pussy and ass without impediment, and whatever consequences that brings, is something you will have to accept. Quite frankly, at this point, I hope that his continual fucking of me makes me pregnant. I hope that you are okay with that.

    I may also decide that I am completely satisfied by him and I don’t need your cock near me, if I let you have me at all!” She finished.


    I put my head down, respectfully and said” Yes, Mistress, I am your Cuckold now and forever”

    She smiled at me as she picked a small box up from the counter and opened it.

    “This is a cock tube, chastity cage. It fits over your pathetic cock and locks behind your balls. You’ll see it’s a bit too small for your cock; that is designed to keep you soft, if you get erect the pain will be terrible as you cock tries to push the tube forward, yanking your balls forward. Once on, you will not be able to masturbate, get blow jobs, fuck, or even touch your cock. There is a small hole in front so you can pee, but that is all. “

    I slipped it over his cock and held it tightly with a small padlock in my other hand.

    “Okay, if I lock this, it’s not coming off any time soon, if ever. Do you understand that? This is not a game, it’s for real. You will be a eunuch from now on; we will never again have sex. Only my lover will be able to have me,””

    “Yes mistress. Lock it,” he whispered.


    “Are you sure, think carefully,” I retorted.

    “Yes.”

    CLICK.

    I took the 2 keys on their ring and walked over to the toilet, and handed them to him.

    “Here goes” he chuckled as he dropped them into the bowl and flushed.

    “Thank you, my love, thank you,” he purred.

    “No, thank you. Now give me your credit card, I need to go shopping for some really sexy outfits to please him when he picks me up for our next date. He wants me to look like his high-class whore, and I intend to make him very happy. And, I intend to introduce you to him as my brother. That way he won’t feel shy about coming into our house and fucking me while you are at home”

    Life was going to get interesting, I thought to myself. Very interesting indeed.
     
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