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    #26 tomf_22033, Jun 8, 2017
    I'm real and used to be pretty active here.
    I actually had the pleasure of meeting some of the others here at a party several years ago. It was amazing.

    As discussed in other threads, unfortunately, people come and go, sites change and new people come and go. Things evolve. Sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse, and usually just different.

    Many of the folks I know are no longer her or don't post much. I've on,y recently returned due to several things in my life, so I mostly lurk now.
    That said, a site is what you make of it and if you want to make friends, be friendly, participate and be patient. All words I need to remind myself of too.
     
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    #27 filltee, Jun 8, 2017
    I have similar feelings on this subject.
     
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    #29 PauloChaste, Jul 13, 2017
    Great post and yes real! For my wife and I it started by accident! I was wearing my cheap device in private and used to hide it in the bottom of a cupbaord which she discovered! She was cross that I had lied and not being open with her! That was about three years ago and we have tried numerous different models and now I am always locked and she is happy as I am more attentive towards her but that is it! We are not particularly kinky! She gets what she wants whenever she wants it and I don't! Perfect!
     
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    #30 Mascara^Snake, Jul 14, 2017
    Yes you should log on and help to justify the time she spends here by buying some things.
     
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    #31 Shepherdsflock, Jul 14, 2017
    This is probably the number one problem a lot of individuals and couples have with chastity. They can't keep it separate from real life. You need a "regular" life outside of chastity so you can stay focused on your other goals and the other relationships that are non-sexual. Your partner may also need frequent "normal" time where chastity isn't involved.
     
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    #32 frankie teardrop, Jul 14, 2017
    I'm unreal.
     
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    #33 the odd tease, Jul 14, 2017
    I'm late to this conversation, but, yes, I'm feeling as though most are real here. And working through the cautious dance of kinky elements with vanilla partners in many (but certainly not all) cases.

    Welcome to our neighborhood.!
     
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    #34 sissybitch, Jul 14, 2017
    My partner / Mistress and I have been together almost 30 years , 25 of those has been a FLR and for the last 15 years I have been in chastity, In all of this time we have still to the outside world maintained and shown the appearance of a "normal couple" , and have and still do pursue our individual interests and jobs , also finding time to collectively enjoy time were we are just together and involves only that , That being said we both know and are happy with the fact that ultimately she is in total control and I follow her lead in whatever form that may take , it is our relationship and we both know our roles in it so we don't find it necessary for it to affect our daily lives , We do put time aside sometimes full days or even weeks where we do nothing but explore our respective dom / sub roles . this is in private and only involves the two of use , So I think it needs to be a compromise and what best fits the situation you are in , That being said no matter what the situation I always treat my Mistress with the courtesy and respect she deserves , she is the love of my life and I would never do anything to damage that
     
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    #35 Mistress Jules, Jul 14, 2017
    Why would you make such a sarcastic and nasty remark?
     
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    #36 Qveik, Jul 14, 2017
    Welcome to the site. Been here couple weeks and just can't stop reading and posting. Complete newbie to it all. But this site is just full of real honest people and its absolutely fantastic.
     
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    #37 filltee, Jul 14, 2017
    I do not recall who said this or rather who is was that quoted her chap as having said.

    "Before chastity chop wood carry water, during chastity chop wood carry water, after chastity chop wood carry water"

    Life goes on as normal, whether you are locked or the one doing the locking. In the vast majority of relationships it is important I think to not lose sight of that.
     
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    #38 Mascara^Snake, Jul 14, 2017

    It's neither nasty or sarcastic. Financial gain is your main reason for being here since your brief encounter with male chastity became a commercial venture.
     
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    #39 Qveik, Jul 14, 2017
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    This is very interesting, what have you said that. I'm sure my wife would appreciated it if I would stop jabber jabber about chastity in my 5 test day and just get on with it.
    I have learned so much from this forum.
    Thank
     
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    #40 Beck, Jul 25, 2017
    What is real anyway? I tend to write with a speculative tone, making everything I share here seem like a fantasy probably. I've been very lucky to have met someone who off-line verifies my reality. good stuff.

    @Jasmic68 Where is the fiction section?! That might be my new favorite!
     
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    #41 Jasmic68, Jul 25, 2017
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    SubVerity Still the mansion's fairy godmother. ;)

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    SubVerity Still the mansion's fairy godmother. ;)

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    #44 SubVerity, Jul 26, 2017
    Yeah - posts like your Snowball down a mountain one? I'm no great literary critic, but you put a story together in an interesting way. You should definitely write more.
     
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    #45 guest 2942, Jul 26, 2017
    I concur. ;)
     
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    #46 quietsev, Aug 10, 2017
    To be fair, Ms. Amanda, I asked about spaces for play or teases. Mistress Jules noted that there wasn't much of that in public here (and it was mostly through chat), and offered her site as an alternative. I was not offended by the suggestion; indeed, I appreciated the gesture. I probably won't spend money there any time soon, but it was nice. At any rate, no harm, no foul. Just here for a good time is all.

    Unless Mistress Jules was mistaken, and there is a space for folks to play and tease and challenge one another in chastity? Is that the case?
     
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    #47 Mascara^Snake, Aug 11, 2017
    I would be reluctant to take what Ms Jules or anyone else offering alternatives says about this site since most people perceive, use and relate to it differently.
    You may find exactly what you're looking for here or you may not.
     
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    SubVerity Still the mansion's fairy godmother. ;)

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    #48 SubVerity, Aug 11, 2017
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    Regarding places to play here - there is no reason members shouldn't open up threads for that purpose. Not sure what section would be best to use - the Tower probably. There's no reason to need to migrate to any other forum really.
     
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    #49 Mistress Jules, Aug 11, 2017

    Thank you for the reply, I think as @SubVerity suggested it is mainly in private chat. I hope you had fun with the teases and I am sure if anyone knows of any other sites where there are teases available they can let you know. Or maybe you would like to start a thread here for such things.
     
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    #50 jemima, Aug 11, 2017
    well i am tease a lot in here but i don't mind.
     
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