Would this site be classed as watching porn ?

I think certain parts of it could. Particularly journal type threads that give graphic details of a couple's sex life. My wife and I both consider romance novels to be pornography for women. Some of the stuff on here is about the same.

 

My take is that if it turns me on, it is porn. My wife has mo problem with me watching porn. We have 3 different CBs that we use in foreplay, but not real discipline or enforcement beyond 30 hours or so to build up to our "making ends meet".
I have used these site as wank fodder so It classifies as online porn for me.
I must be available to serve my wife's piv needs.

 

Adult yes, porn I don't think so. When I want porn there are far more blatant sites out there, and I prefer a big screen TV to a mobile or tablet. This is far more an ideas resource/support group type of site, and all the more useful for that.

 

not really , this is a forum where people with similar interest exchange ideas and share our stories regarding it, not much different from say a forum about gardening. Its just of a sexual nature and its not like we can do anything about it since sexual gratification is impossible for most of us I believe.

 

Some people may class this site as porn related , but my opinion is no, I view it more as a site geared to a particular interest wear like minded people can meet and exchange their views, interests and experiences

 

As far as my Mistress is concerned YES this would be classified as porn.

 

Mistress considers CM as "porn", simply because She has no interest in telling others about our private experiences, so that they get a thrill. I on't consider it so because of the relationships that I have established as well as experiences and fantasies of others found here. I hae never considered CM to be 'wank fodder".

 

I think this forum is a kind of hybrid, it's pretty much everything Chastity related and there is plenty of porn uploaded to it, however I wouldn't classify CM as porn. It's mostly a place for like minded people to discuss their kinks and get ideas. Much of the porn that is uploaded is amateur and seems to be shared for educational purposes, things others might want to try.
I think a good majority of the members, self lockers and those in relationships come here for a kind of sexual relief through discussing chastity and reading blogs and stories. In some cases those going through online key holders, much of their communication is probably through CM and in that sense the forum is used for sexual purposes. So really, you can come here and find anything you want, it just depends on your intentions and what you want out of CM. Although I haven't been as active here now as I have been in the past my mistress did refer to CM as my "new porn" when I first started coming here but she was never upset about it because she knows I get a lot more out of the mansion than just a hardon.

 

The eye of the beholder. Lane Bryant for large ladies catalog could be considered porn, it depends on how and what you use it for.

I've never really understood the disdain for porn, that is unless it was affecting your relationship. If I couldn't make love cause I spent all day on porn sites getting off, yes it's a problem. If I neglected someone because of it, yes it is a problem. If I compared someone or expected a partner to perform like a porn yes that would be a problem. I am a sub and have no problem with her watching, or reading porn and masturbating...but if she was doing that to replace intimacy with me, I would have a problem.

Off of my soapbox, to answer the question, it isn't porn to me. I've never once played with myself reading, talking, or looking at anything on this site, even when I wasn't locked up. Yes I've read a few threads that I thought were erotic, I've watched movies with scenes that were erotic and didn't make it porn. Many books as well that had a few hot passages, it certainly didn't make it less of a novel and more of a porn. It was a movie with a hot scene, book with a sexy passage, and to me this is a forum with some erotic threads.

 

i don't think it is cos if it was Mistress wudnt let me come on here. She don t let me go on the fetlife one.

 

I'm watching Catwoman on the telly as I type, mid afternoon. Halle Berry is H O T and there has just been a fight, which she won of course, with the baddie. Sexy, yes, erotic, in a way, porn .... er, no.
Sort of reminded me of this site
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More reading than watching. The fiction part and some of the non-fiction parts are pure masturbation fodder.

 

Pornography is the depiction of sex for personal gratification. The Mansion sometimes strays into this territory but the vast majority of what goes on is not pornography. Just because you talk about sex it doesn't mean it is pornography.

That said, it does sometimes depend on who is reading. Take for instance a post I made recently in my journal where I described how I gave my Wife a very satisfying Yoni Massage. To some people this could be seen as porn, but to me it was more of a description of a sensual act that was designed to help other people realise how amazing this massage is and give them some understanding of how to do it.

So, if you are one of those people who hate all this stuff and think even the very mention of sex is disgusting, then yes, this is porn and you probably think we are all going to hell for being so deviant. Personally I think we live in a culture that finds discussing sexuality incredibly difficult and many problems in our society stem from this.

 

Not sure about the ladies but as a man I find it hard to jerk off to any kind of erotic literature even if I get really turn on from reading it.

 

Let's look at the dictionaries:
https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/pornography
http://www.dictionary.com/browse/pornography
http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/pornography
I don't consider CM to be porn, like said above: adult: yes.

However when you look at the definitions in dictionaries: this site is definitely porn.

But who cares really?

After all it's nothing more than a definition in the books to try to explain a word.

Do you like the site and it's contents, then great: stay!
When you don't like it: stay away.

To me it is a wonderful place where I can find likeminded people and their experiences and where I can share my experience.
Does it arrouse me? Yes, it does sometimes.
Does that make it porn to me? No!

I'm staying! (in case someone still doubts that above would not already make that clear)

 

I have many books that had erotic passages, Anne Rice many books on witches have moments that steam my glasses. Doubt it occurred to anyone to call it porn. Could I have jerked off while reading some of it....yes, but was obviously not the intended purpose. You can't label everything that someone could jerk off to as porn. Otherwise darn those perverts at National Geographic

 

i have read all these and somesays that they jerks off. well how can they if they got a cage locked on them.

 

Dear @jemima ,
I think there are many who are not locked, maybe fantasize about being so, but meanwhile jerk off while lurking at the contents here.
That was the case for me on some occasions before I had the famous talk with my wife (also partly thanks to what I found on this site) and since then that is history for me.
Probably there are members in the same situation, still having to have their talk. There will also be others that just come here for a wank.
In the end it does not make any difference.
To me CM is not porn, but I must admit I haven't spoken to my wife about this site either.
Maybe I'll do that some time later..(I must admit I'm tempted but still unsure how she would react..)

 

I asked my kh to become a member right away. I thought at first it would give her an outlet, a place to ask questions, or vent since she really has no one else to talk about this stuff with.

She initially was involved, asked a question or two, but was bombarded with people saying hi, asking her to be their kh, and in general wasn't the haven I had imagined it would be for her.

She peeks in every few days or so to look at what I post, but as it turns out she has figured out exactly what she wants.

I am often on cm with her in the same room and she will ask me what is going on here. If anything, she would think it's funny if I got all horny while on this site, or a porn site. It's not like I can do anything, she would laugh at the self torture!

 

@Felix cum ea oh ok then and thank you.

 

With some of the pics that are on here... yes it can absolutely be considered porn. Most of us are in cages anyway so we can't do anything about it. If your keyholder forbids all porn then you should obey.

 

If I am not mistaken I believe it was a federal judge in the 1960's that said, he "couldn't define porn, but he knew it when he saw it". So for what it's worth.

Not sure why the question was asked. Do key-holders not want their caged boi's to watch porn? Why not, it would seem to make them more horny, which is part of the point?

 

Women generally doesnt like their men watching porn ,unless they were instructed to do so and chances are they are force to watch certain type of porn to reinforce their behaviour.