Woman/Female/Lady/Madam/Mistress?

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    I have seen a comment where a KH was saying She doesn't likes to be called "Female". She has her own concerns but let me ask other Women also that they feel the same way? What do you want to be called? If so I think there should be a standard word to call them. Or not?

    PS : (Since We are in FLR, We males can be called anything)
     
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    I too don't like to be called female. If anyone wants to give me respect, He should call me Madam, Woman, Mistress etc.
     
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    I think Mistress is a respectful term to use on this forum and elsewhere. That's the term I use when first addressing a lady here. I haven't had any complaints so far. "Female" is disrespectful in my book.
     
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    A agree, I find female sounds disrespectful, I always I refer to my madam as madam, goddess, queen, or owner at all times.
     
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    Only if they decide a proper word every male should say on this site
     
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    Owner sounds best
     
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    Sure, Mistress!
     
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    As you can see, most women don't like being called female. There are exeptions of course, but trust me it's an issue that's often discussed in feminist spaces.

    Try to pay attention to what happens in male internet spaces, see how many men actually refer to women in a respectful way. Not many I can assure you.

    As for adressing a woman, mylady, mistress, madam, miss are all good in my book.
     
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    Agree
     
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    Its a personal preference and liking. My wife hates the word Mistress. ( Due to the other meaning associated with it). She is ok with Mam sometimes. But it's just her name mostly that I use even when in a femdom play.
     
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    Definitely NOT 'female'. 'The female of the species saves food in her cheek pouches...' :)

    'Goddess' is my preference. When we play my husband calls me 'ma'am'.
     
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    My wife is a lady.
    She acts like a lady.
    I call her by an abbrievation of her first name or when I am submissive, MaDame (capital D for phonetic effect)
    A few other names that have our history attached.
    My wife is the female of the species, but it never comes up due to obviousness.
    Ss
     
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    Let's consider this as a priority since most women don't like to be called female
     
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    Goddess seems too odd
     
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    Thanks :D we appreciate it
     
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    I call my wife her name mostly or princess
     
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    That's neither here nor there. I told you what I prefer - I didn't ask for your opinion.
     
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    What does being in a FLR have with anything? Just because someone makes a lifestyle choice it doesn't mean everyone else can just call that person whatever they like. Standard rules of respect apply no matter what the gender or lifestyle.
     
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    Nice
     
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    Grammatically speaking, "female" is an adjective and should not be used as a noun.
     
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    During playtime?
     
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    You're welcome
     
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    My girlfriend likes me to call her Majesty. She didn't like Miss, Ma'am, Mistress, etc.
     
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    Too bossy.. Like that
     
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    Thanks
     
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