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    #1 windrush, Jul 16, 2016
    I frequently read posts from members in which wives and girlfriends are mentioned. Such ladies are inevitably dominant and should not be shy. So could those members who mention wives and girfriends do everything possible to encourage them to become members here and add their comments personally?
     
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    #2 Submissive Guy, Jul 20, 2016
    Hillary Clinton is undoubtedly a dominant female. Since Bill's indiscretions do you think she keeps him in a chastity device?
     
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    #3 Wendygirl, Jul 20, 2016
    We try that is why we are not fans of boy bit avatars and gratuitous porn and captioned pictures copied from other Web sites .
    Hopefully by keeping cm more female friendly significant others will come and enjoy the fun as well .

    Xx Wendy
     
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    #4 Mercedes47, Jul 20, 2016
    Please forgive me but I couldn't resist!!!!

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    #5 Jasmic68, Jul 21, 2016
    I do try to get my Wife to join but the more hysterical members put her off. She isn't interested in having a pathetic clitty boi slave sissy or whatever and would rather not be approached by such a fantasist. I live in hope though, more because I would love to have the opportunity to read her thoughts as well.
     
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    #6 Shaggy, Jul 21, 2016
    Pretty much same situation as Jasmic with my wife. There are some very extreme views espoused by a few posters here and they killed off any interest she had in participating.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    #7 Nicoftime, Jul 21, 2016
    My keyholder visited, she read some stuff, and got some info. To be honest, it was a little much. She doesnt want a maid, me dressed up and in make up, or to get fucked by some bull while I watch. To each their own, but after talking with her after her visit here, she was more concerned then ever. Since she is more confident in her role as keyholder, and has lately Liked disciplining me(her kink not mine), will try to stop in together and see if there are similar keyholders to chat with.
     
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    #8 Mercedes47, Jul 21, 2016
    I appreciate your patience and discernment. I hope that you and your KH find like_minded folks with whom you can gain the insights and knowledge you seek.
     
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    #9 Thatgirl, Jul 21, 2016
    I am the same way with my Locked Boy...well not locked as of yesterday due to a fresh PA piercing in preparation for a PA cage! I have absolutely NO desire whatsoever to see him in frills, makeup, french maid or the like. Nor any interest in cuckholding. My LB is basically an Alpha Male locked in a cock cage....submissive ONLY to me...
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    #10 Nicoftime, Jul 22, 2016
    I recently read about his new piercing. Hope it heals well...kinda on the fence about getting one myself. Nice to see a similar situation. I'm pretty alpha in public, and am somewhat feminine in private but nothing girly, but open minded. If she decides to join I will tell her to give you a message.
     
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    #11 maid_carrie, Jul 22, 2016
    Interesting observations form you rand @Jasmic68 and @Shaggy about some of the content making them turn away from the site.

    As has been said many a time here, this is a broad church and it's a matter of pick & mix as it suits the reader.

    Nobody here has the absolutely "right way" of doing things. If the content makes the reader's mouth drop in amazement, disgust or disbelief that anyone could want that or like that, then just move on and find what does appeal or makes you feel comfortable.

    That is why there are "Interest" sections to the Mansion, but it's obviously not possible to insist that certain interests don't spread into other areas, and most people have a range of interests and experiences that are valuable if you get into discussion with them.

    As to being approached - what can I say? This has been mentioned a number of times, but some seem to persist sadly.
     
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    #12 jemima, Jul 22, 2016
    yes that's right. theres lots of things sayed on here that i don't like but i don't say nothing to them really. My Mistress has told me that if theres folks that says things to you that you don't like you can stop them doing it if you want. i had nasty men on another place say things that upset me and Mistress did something so they cudnt do it again.
     
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    #13 Jasmic68, Jul 22, 2016
    I am hoping that my Wife does join and learns that she can get involved in a positive way just like @keephimcaged does. I think she is more used to the idea of chastity and has a lot more personal experience that would give her something to write about. When I first asked her she had no idea what to write, where when I joined I used the mansion as a place to put all my brain farts, panic attacks and other thoughts and ideas.

    I don't think anything has made her mouth drop in disgust or disbelief, for instance we have looked at images of devices together to help her choose my next purchase. I was shocked when she thought a neosteel arch would suit me, that was totally unexpected!

    I shall ask her again tomorrow what she thinks. Maybe I could ask her to just say hello to everyone and see what happens.
     
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    #14 jemima, Jul 22, 2016
    well if She did @Jasmic68 i wud say hello back.
     
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    #15 Thatgirl, Jul 22, 2016
    I hope it heals and toughens quickly! He is not very submissive while he is cage-free. I may jut have to tie him down when the time comes to lock him back up...he hasn't been free this long since December of last year, when we started all of this.
     
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    #16 Thatgirl, Jul 22, 2016
    Also, yes, if she does join, i'd love to chat with her as it seems she and i are similar. I love doling out spankings to my guy, and he has never, ever been pain slut, lol.
     
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    #17 Jasmic68, Jul 22, 2016
    I think my Wife could learn a lot from other women like you @Thatgirl, which isn't necessarily a good thing! :eek::D

    She has some experiences of her own as well to share, so I will put a case forward as to why it would be a good thing for her to sign up.
     
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    #18 Jblocked, Jul 22, 2016
    My wife feels the same way
     
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    #19 windrush, Jul 23, 2016
    There are so many males on this website constantly talking about wives, girlfriends, and keyholders that I am amazed that they are invisible. It is almost as though they exist only in the author's imagination. Am I being a Little oversuspicious?, or are all of these supposedly dominant females shy and retiring, and embarrassed by sexual topics?
     
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    #20 Thatgirl, Jul 23, 2016
    Nope, I am a GF/KH and there are a few others that i know of who regularly write here.
     
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    #21 windrush, Jul 23, 2016
    I am delighted to hear this, but it would be nice if some more than "a few others" joined as members and joined in the conversation.
     
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    #22 Tombow, Jul 23, 2016

    On every site that has to do with almost any non vanilla sexual topic, the males vastly outnumber the females. On average, they just do not have the same compulsion or repetitive needs or even need for variations off the vanilla path.

    SO, this site is not unusual at all.
     
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    #23 Mascara^Snake, Jul 24, 2016
    If your wife is interested in and would like any "hands off" information about practiaclity and hygiene with respect of the neosteel arch then she's very welcome to write to me.
     
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    #24 Jasmic68, Jul 24, 2016
    Thank you Ms Amanda, I shall definitely mention that to her. That is really kind of you.

    She has actually agreed to join so she can say hello to everyone. We were going to set up an account for her yesterday, but other things (oh my, such things!) happened instead. She asked for a lie in this morning so when I wake her up with a coffee in a little while I shall try and get her set up then.
     
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    #25 Dee1970, Aug 2, 2016
    Hi all
    Asked my wife to join or even look at this site but she has no interest in taking part
    Only likes keeping me locked !!
     
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